Usiku unali wosaiŵalika, anali wofatsa ndi wowolowa manja muchisokonezo, chokhumba chikhumbo chanu chonse, akukunong'onezani mawu achikondi ndipo anali munthu wokondedwa kwambiri. Aliyense wa inu anayesera kudzipereka kwathunthu, ndikulowetsamo ndi mutu wanu, chitani zonse zomwe mungathe kuti musakhumudwitse wina ndi mzake. Kenaka panafika mmawa wokonzekera kwa nthawi yayitali, yomwe banja lirilonse limakumana m'njira yawoyawo. Kotero, kodi anthu samatani m'mawa mwake atatha kugonana kapena khalidwe lachimuna pambuyo pa mvula yamkuntho.
Ngati ubale wanu ukhala ndi tsiku limodzi, mumagwiritsa ntchito kwambiri, ndiye khalidwe lililonse la mwamuna kapena mkazi musagwilitse manyazi kapena kusangalatsa. Mwamuna akhoza kugona mokoma, kukukumbatirani, ngakhale ngati sangamve bwino, komabe iye akhoza, iye akuyeserani inu, okondedwa ndi okondedwa. Ndi nkhani ina pamene muli m'chipinda chogona ndi chibwenzi chatsopano yemwe amakugonjetsani mwa kugonana. Ndipo, atatha msinkhu, anayamba kutembenukira kumbali ndikugona. Ndi pano zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri amoyo. Kodi tingakhale bwanji m'mawa ndi chisangalalo chabwino. Ndipo ngakhale mutadzutsa wokondedwa wanu ndikumuuza za malamulo a makhalidwe anu mu bokosi lanu, sitiganiza kuti m'mawa chinachake chidzasintha ndipo mudzauka kuchokera kumpsompsona.
Mu mawu, mwamuna akukwera pambali pa mkazi kapena kuponyedwa kwa chiwonongeko cha chikondi, izi siziri mitundu yonse ya khalidwe yomwe uyu kapena munthuyo amasonyeza pambuyo pa kugonana. Makamaka zimakhudza m'mawa mwake. Munthu wina atangoyamba dzuŵa m'mawa amayesa kuchoka "kunkhondo" motero. Ndipo sichikuyang'ana pa zomwe mukuyembekeza kuchokera m'maso mwanu mwachangu munanena zabwino mmawa. Choyamba, musadzitsutse nokha kuti inu nokha mwachita chinachake cholakwika ndipo chotero munthu amayesera kuthawa kwa inu. Kumbukirani kuti, mwinamwake, ili wodzala ndi malingaliro alionse, ndipo sakufuna kuti muwaone mu khalidwe lake, kapena akuganiza kuti walakwitsa chinachake (nthawi zambiri chimagwirizana ndi kugonana). Pambuyo pake, taganizirani kuti munthu aliyense, tsiku ndi tsiku, ayenera kugwira ntchito ya Hercules wamphamvu, yamphamvu komanso yamphamvu komanso, palimodzi, mbuye wa moyo. Choncho, sangathe kuthetsa kudziletsa yekha ndikudziwonetsa wokondedwa komanso wachikondi m'mawa. Choncho, kuti asunge mbali yake yosasinthika, amangothamanga kuchoka ku nyumba yanu kuti abwerere. Ndipo osati kuti tsiku lotsatira, pambuyo pa usiku wanu wamkuntho usiku, iye adzachitanso chimodzimodzi. Muyenera kukhala oleza mtima ndi kuyembekezera mpaka munthuyo atsegule pamaso panu ndikudya chakudya cham'mawa, ndipo mwinamwake adzaphika yekha, ndikukugonetsani.
Ngati mnzanu wagona mwamsanga atatha kugonana, muyenera kuyembekezera m'mawa ndikuyesera kumusonyeza khalidwe lanu kuti ali pamwamba. Ndikhulupirire, izi zidzangobweretsa zotsatira zabwino ndipo mwamunayo, pozindikira "mphamvu zake zamwamuna", adzabwezeretsanso. Chinthu chachikulu, samalani kwambiri, musankhe mawu abwino. Kutamanda kwanu sikuyenera kuwoneka ngati kusanthula usiku womwe wakhala ndi mwamuna, ziyenera kukhala zowona mtima ndikunyengerera wokondedwa. Muuzeni za momwe iye analiri wachikulire ndi wotopetsa ndipo ndithudi adzagwira ntchito. Pogwiritsa ntchito njirayi, kuti muwonetsetse bwino zonsezi, mutha kukonzekera bwenzi lanu "kubwereza m" mimba mobwerezabwereza. " Dziwani kuti amuna amakonda kugonana mosavuta m'mawa. Ndipo kawirikawiri, pambuyo pa kugonana kwa m'mawa, bweretsani kusankha kadzutsa kokha pabedi. Ndiko komwe amangokuyamikirani ndi chikondi chake.
Mwa mtundu wake, mwamuna pambuyo pa kugonana amagawidwa mu mitundu yambiri ya mitundu ndi makhalidwe osiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wamanyazi m'mawa, pambuyo pa usiku wamkuntho, nthawi zambiri amakhala chete. Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe mungayesere kuzinena, adzasankha mayankho ofunika kwambiri pa mafunso anu onse. Apanso, musayese kutenga zonsezi mu akaunti yanu. Kumbukirani kuti wosankhidwa wanu amayembekeza kwa inu choyamba mwa mawu ndi zochita zilizonse zovuta. Yesetsani kudziwonetsa nokha momwe mungathere pamaso pake.
Mtundu wachiwiri wa khalidwe lachimmawa m'mawa wotsatira ndiko kufotokozera. Amuna amenewa, monga lamulo, ayambani kukambirana okha ndipo akhoza kukudzutsani izi. Iye amatha kukambirana zonse zomwe zimaphatikizapo mafilimu ndi ma minuses onse a usiku omwe akukhala nanu ndikukufunsani mfundo zochititsa chidwi kwambiri kuchokera pafupi ndi iye. Choncho khalani okonzeka kuyankha mafunso ake onse. Mwa njira, akhoza kupereka zakugonana m'mawa mwiniwake.
Mtundu wovuta kwambiri wa munthu ulibe chidwi. M'mawa, amuna oterewa amakhala osasamala komanso ozizira. Makhalidwe awo samadalira ngakhale zabwino kapena zoipa zomwe mudali pamodzi. Chinthu chachikulu, musayese kusintha, kuwerengera khalidwe lake.
Koma munthu wokhulupirira kuti adzakumane ndi mmawa osati osati kokha ndi inu, komanso ndi zabwino kwambiri ndi nthabwala. Ziri zosatheka kuti mnzanuyo asokoneze chirichonse, nthawi zonse amatha kutayika, amakhala wokonzeka komanso okonzeka kukwera muukwati wanu. Mwa njira, kuyembekezera mmawa kuti akuyamikireni inu sikuti iye akupita. Adzatero pambuyo pa kugonana, ndipo ndi kumwetulira kokwanira kudzayembekezera mmawa.
Munthu wodzikonda nthawi zonse amatsatira zofuna zake. Iye sadzafunsa konse m'mawa, monga iwe, ngati iwe umakonda usiku womwe wakhala naye. Koma kunena za iye yekha amatha kuyambira m'mawa mpaka madzulo. Pankhaniyi, yesetsani kumuwonetsa cholakwika chake, kumumenya ndi mtima wake komanso maganizo ake.
Ndipo wotsiriza, mtundu wamtundu wa munthu - wokonda chikondi. Munthu woteroyo ayenera kuyamikiridwa osati kutsika kwake. Nthawi zonse amadzuka ndi kupsompsona kapena kukhudza dzanja lake. Ndipo za usiku umene akhala ndi inu, iye adzayankha, monga cholemba china komanso zamatsenga. Ndi munthu wotere, musayese kuganizira zonse zomwe zinali usiku, kungomulankhulana ndi maganizo ake komanso maganizo ake.
Kotero ife tinayang'ana mitundu yaikulu ya khalidwe la amuna athu okondedwa mmawa. Tsopano tikuganiza kuti mumudziwa bwino munthu amene ali pafupi ndi inu, ndipo ndithudi, ngati munthu uyu sakukukhudzani, mudzapeza njira yoti iye sadzakhala nanu kokha kadzutsa, komanso kwa nthawi yaitali m'moyo wanu. Mbuye wabwino kwa inu!