Zizindikiro
Ambiri akusowa gawo ili. Ndipo zopanda pake kwambiri. Muyenera kudzipangira nokha makhalidwe amene mumafunikira kwambiri kwa mwamuna wamtsogolo. Lembani chithunzi chake, lembani ndi kulemba zomwe simukuzikonda, ndipo ndi makhalidwe ati omwe ayenera kukhala nawo. Tsekani maso anu ndi kulingalira zomwe ali. Mukhoza kulota chilichonse, za deta zakunja, ntchito zake, zosangalatsa, ndalama zamwezi ndi zina zotero. Lembani izi zonse papepala ndi kuziyika pamalo otchuka. Lolani zikhale zolimbikitsa kwa inu. Komabe, ndi bwino kuganizira kuti zonse zomwe mwazilemba zikhoza kuphatikizidwa ndi munthu mmodzi. Kumbukirani kuti lingalirolo ndilofunika, ndipo gahena sizitani, mungathe kukumana ndi kalonga weniweni pa kavalo woyera!
Kukongola.
Kuti mukondane ndi mwamuna, muyenera kugwira ntchito mwakhama. Khalani okongola onse kunja ndi mkati. Chitani masewera, werengani mabuku, penyani mafilimu, khalani ndi chidwi pa chinachake. Zonsezi zidzakuthandizani kukhala interlocutor okondweretsa komanso okondweretsa amuna. Ndipotu, banja ndilofunika osati chikondi chokha, komanso ubwenzi, mwayi wokambirana pa mutu uliwonse. Yesetsani kuyandikira pafupi. Dzifufuze nokha ndikuganiza kuti ikhoza kukuchotsani amuna kuchokera kwa inu? Mwinamwake ndi nkhani ya mapaundi owonjezera? Kenaka, ndikulowera m'chipinda cholimbitsa thupi! Mwinamwake chifukwa chovala chanu chiri ngati agogo kuposa munthu wamng'ono ndi wokongola? Ndiye, mwamsanga ku sitolo kwa zinthu zatsopano! Mwina ndinu wamanyazi pabedi? Werengani zambiri zokhudza momwe mungakhalire achigololo, momwe mungakondweretse mwamuna pabedi, kuona zolaula ndi kumenyana ndi maofesi awo! Lankhulani ndi abwenzi anu abambo, mwinamwake iwo akhoza kukuuzani zomwe mukufunikira kudzikonzekera nokha, ndipo, m'malo mwake, kuwonetsa ndi kutsindika.
Chidziwitso.
Werenganinso kachiwiri khalidwe limene iwe unalemba zokhudza mwamuna wako wam'tsogolo. Ndipo tsopano taganizirani, kodi munthu angapange nthawi yochuluka bwanji, yemwe amakonda zinthu zoterozo, ndipo amagwira ntchito kumeneko ndi apo? Ngati mwasankha kukhala mkazi wa mtumiki wa banki, muyenera kudya chakudya chamasana ku cafe yapafupi kuti mukakumane ndi mwamuna wa maloto anu , kapena mungayese kugwira ntchito ku banki. Kodi mwaganiza zokwatira msodzi weniweni? Pitani ku masitolo omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pogulitsa zonse zomwe mukufunikira kuti muwedzere nsomba, ndikuyang'anitsitsa alendo, mwinamwake pakati pawo ndi mwamuna wanu wam'tsogolo? Ngati mukulota kukwatiwa ndi mnyamata wamkulu, yambani kuthamanga m'mawa kapena madzulo ku paki yapafupi, kugula cholembera ku malo olimbitsa thupi, m'mawu, kuchitapo kanthu!
Ngati kuli kovuta kuti mubwere kumsonkhano, ndipo wosankhidwa wanu alibe zochitika zodzikongoletsera, ndiye ndikupatseni malo opambana opambana pachibwenzi.
Ntchito. Mwinamwake muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa gulu lomwe mumagwira ntchito, mwinamwake wina wa dera lapafupi ayamba kukuyang'anirani chakuda ndi kukukhudzani? Ngati zinachitika kuti gululi ndi lachikazi kapena onse okwatirana, yang'anirani makampani oyandikana nawo omwe akugulitsani ofesi yanu mnyumbayi.
Phwando. Khalani kawirikawiri pa maholide onse, maukwati ndi tsiku lobadwa. Mpata wooneka wolemekezeka, kukhala "pachitetezo", kuphatikizapo mowa pang'ono omwe adzakupumulitsani, ndipo tsopano, bwenzi la bwenzi lanu likukuitanani kuti muvine.
Ulendo. Nthawi yopumula ndi holide ili ndi phindu pa maonekedwe ndi maganizo. Kudziŵa bwino munthu paulendo kapena kupita kokavuta sikungakhale kovuta. Khalani otanganidwa kwambiri!
Mabala a usiku, mipiringidzo ndi malo odziwika bwino ndi ovuta kunena, chifukwa, nthawi zambiri amafuna kugonana usiku umodzi, ubale wopanda ntchito. Koma, kodi gehena sizitani?
Chikhumbo chokwatirana chimachita zachiwerewere. Kukhala pafupi ndi munthu weniweni, wodalirika, wachikondi, wolimba mtima, wachikondi ndi wokondedwa, chimwemwe chenicheni, chimene chiyenera kulimbana nacho.