Chithandizo ngati kamtsikana sikakuchitirani zabwino. Lenusya, Lenochka ... Mukuganiza bwanji, mukamva kuitana kotere kuchokera kwa mnzanu wakukhala pa tebulo pafupi? "Ndiwe munthu wabwino bwanji, iwe uyenera kumugwira iye chikumbutso kuchokera ku Roma!" kapena "St-s-bitch, ndibwino kuti muzimusiya" ... Tiyeni tiwoneke kuti njira yachiwiriyi ndi yovomerezeka.
Lena adalandira phunziro lake loyamba pa ntchito yake yoyamba. "Ndi wokoma bwanji, mutu wa dipatimentiyi," nthawi zonse amandiitana mwachikondi! " Mumaganiza mtsikanayo. Kenaka mtsogoleri wamkulu pamsonkhano woyamba, pomwe Lena anachitapo kanthu, mwaluso "adagwiritsira ntchito" watsopano kwa mkulu yemwe wakhala atatsimikizira kuti ali woyenera. Kotero, mumapeza bwanji zolinga za anzako pogwiritsa ntchito pempho lanu?
"Gogo".
• Mkazi uyu ali ndi mawu a velvet, zonse ziri "petenki" ndi "mashenki". Choyamba, izi zikusonyeza kuti pakati pa anzawo, "agogo" wachikondi amamva kuti "amakhala omasuka" ndipo sazengereza kusonyeza kuti ndi wapamwamba. Mwinamwake, wakhala akugwirira ntchito pano kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo ali ndi udindo wa "wachikulire". Samalani: zolinga za anthu ena zingakhale ndi gawo lalikulu pa ntchito yanu.
Kumbuyo.
• Kodi mkazi uyu akuchita ngati kuti adzathamangire perezidenti mawa? Yang'anani mwatsatanetsatane: motsutsana ndi wina yemwe wayamba kale kugwira ntchito za usilikali, motsutsana ndi wina yemwe amawononga zovuta. Inu, iye anaganiza kuti asinthe ndi chokwanira chimodzi chokha pa dzina. Ndipotu, "Lenochka" sitingathe kukhala pampando wa mfumu. Kwa ichi, akadali wamng'ono komanso wosadziŵa zambiri, ndiye chifukwa chake iye ndi "Lenochka", mlembi Wamuyaya ndi mtsikana "pamtanda". Mutu udzakhala munthu yemwe ali ndi dzina la "wamkulu", ndipo mwinamwake ngakhale dzina lapakati.
Kugonjetsa pa udindo.
• Kupempha ndi dzina - chida chenicheni m'manja mwa wogwiritsira ntchito waluso. Ndipo onse chifukwa chakuti mawu abwino akuyankhidwa ndi anthu ambiri adzakhala abwino kusiyana ndi zoipa. Onetsetsani kuti mndandanda wa dzina lanu ndi chokwanira chokwanira chokwanira nthawi zambiri. Zowonjezera, zidzakhala ngati: "Lenochka, tumizani, okondedwa, mabungwe awiriwa, pali masamba asanu ndi atatu okha pano." Ndipo tsopano tanthauzira mawu awa mwachilankhulo chachilendo ndipo mudzawona kuti manipulator motero akulozera malo anu ku ofesi yaofesi: bizinesi yanga ndi yofunika kuposa yanu, iye akunena.
• Chizindikiro choopsa kwambiri, ngati mumamva chithandizo chamtundu uwu osati kwa anzanu ofanana nawo, koma kuchokera kwa eni ake. Musaganize kuti kugwiritsa ntchito dzina la "ana" - ndizovuta kuyesa ma sycophants kuti ayenere malo a bwana watsopano. Mmalo mwake, ndi kuukira kowerengedwa kwa bwana wanu yekha yemwe akuwongolera. Mwinamwake, olamulira anu ali ndi "zofuna zawo" kuti azikhala apamwamba. Ndipo amasonyeza m'njira iliyonse yomwe sakufuna kumvera inu.
Kugonana.
• Njira yokhala ndi samamura weniweni - yesani kuwonjezera chokwanira pa dzina la "gogo". Ndi zophweka kuganiza kuti pobwerera mudzawona chigoba cha sphinx chodabwitsa: pambuyo pake, mbuyeyo ali pano! Koma njira iyi ndi ya wolimba mtima. Kwa ojambula amtundu, ndizotheka kukukumbutsani "opindula", kodi mumatchula dzina liti: "Kawirikawiri aliyense amanditcha Lena, koma ngati zili bwino kwambiri, ndiyitane Elena Petrovna." Kapena - "Mayi ndi abambo anga, monga makolo a amalume anga Fedor wa Prostokvashino, sanandidziwitse kwa syusi-pusi."
Ndi njira yanji yomwe ili yoyenera pa vuto lanu - dzifunseni nokha. Chinthu chachikulu chomwe iye anali, mwinamwake ndi dzanja lamphamvu la "gogo" wachikondi uyu mudzatchedwa ndi "mwana" onse omwe alibe ulesi. A ndiye mumayika nthawi yaitali kuti mupite ku "Lenochka".