Kodi ndi bizinesi yotani? . . Mwini mwayi, mu ulesi wanu kapena china chake? Nchifukwa chiyani ena amapindula zambiri popanda kugwiritsa ntchito, monga zikuwonekera, kuyesetsa kwina, pamene ena amayenda ngati gologolo mu gudumu ndikubwerera ku malo awo oyambirira? . .
Kotero, mutadzifunsa nokha mafunso awa, simungapindule zambiri. Lekani kuwayang'ana ena ndi mawu omveka "chifukwa", gwiritsani ntchito kupambana kwa ena monga cholimbikitsa cha kupambana kwanu. "Ngati wina wapindula chinachake, ndiye ine ndikhoza" - ndilo lingaliro loyenera muzochita zonse. Kuti tipeze kupambana kumatanthauza kuyesetsa kuti tipambane. Zindikirani kuti pali vesi paliponse, ndiko, kuchitapo kanthu. Ndipo ngati tikulankhula za zochita, ndiye kuti tiyenera kuchita chinachake, tigwire ntchito yoyenera, osati kuganiza, kaduka, kulota. Maganizo abwino ndi malingaliro abwino amathandiza kukwaniritsa zambiri zomwe zimafunidwa ndi kulengedwa.
Tsopano tiwongolera "khalidwe labwino" ndipo, motero, makhalidwe omwe amatiteteza kuti tipeze chilichonse m'moyo. Koma, podziwa choti nkuchita, iwe, komabe, simungathe kuyamba kuchita chinachake chosiyana.
Nchiyani chimapereka mkazi kukhala wopambana? Kwa aliyense ndi zanu. Monga lamulo, izi ndi kudziimira, kudzizindikira, kudzikula kwaumwini, komanso kukhazikika kwachuma. Munthu wopambana amakhudza aliyense, ngati nthawi yomweyo samataya makhalidwe ake ofunikira. Choncho, kuti zinthu zikuyendere bwino, osati mu ntchito, koma mu moyo, zimapangitsa mkazi kukhala mkazi. Ndikofunikira kuti muthe kugwiritsa bwino bwino ntchito yanu, kotero kuti nthawi zonse muli ndi inu.
Kotero, sitepe yofunikira pa njira yopita, yomwe ili, kupambana, ndiko kukhalapo kwa cholinga kapena, kunena zambiri, maloto. Zonse zomwe mumapindula, zonse zomwe mumapindula zinayamba ndi zikhumbo zanu, maganizo anu ndi malingaliro anu. Mukapita ku sitolo, mumathamangitsidwa ndi cholinga chogula, choncho muzinthu zonse. Pali mndandanda womveka bwino: "chikhumbo-chotsatira-chotsatira". Mwachibadwa, anthu abwino ali ndi zolinga zazikulu. Kodi cholinga cha moyo wa chidakwa n'chiyani? Ndikuganiza sindiyenera kuyankha funso ili, inu nokha mukudziwa yankho lake. Ndikufuna chochepa, timapeza chaching'ono. Kuganiza kuti sitidzakwaniritsa china chilichonse, sitidzakwaniritsa njirayi, chifukwa si yathu, ifeyo timadziŵa ...
Tsopano tikupitirizabe ku khalidwe lofunika - chikhulupiliro cha kupambana . Ndi chifukwa cha kusowa kwa chikhulupiriro kuti anthu ambiri "amaika" maloto awo mopanda ponseponse, chifukwa sakudziwa zokhoza zawo, kapena zowona zokhumba zawo.
Kotero, mukudziwa zomwe mukufuna, mumatsimikiza kuti mudzakhala nawo, tsopano ganizirani zomwe mwakonzeka kuchita ndi zomwe mungachite kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu . Ngati mukufuna nyumba yamtunda, kodi mwakonzeka kugwira ntchito ngati muli ndi mwayi wopeza ndalama zina, mwakonzeka kuyamba ntchito yatsopano, ngati mutapatsidwa bizinesi yatsopano, mukufuna kukonzekera kuti mukwaniritse bwino, etc. Maloto, zikhumbo ndipo chikhulupiliro cha kukhazikitsidwa kwawo chidzakhala ngati maginito, kukopa mwayi wotsatiridwa kwawo, ndipo mwachibadwa, kugwiritsa ntchito mwayi umenewu, mudzawathandiza kukwaniritsa malotowa.
Kulakwitsa kwakukulu kochuluka anthu ambiri amapanga ndikuti timafuna zonse kamodzi, koma izi sizili choncho nthawi zonse. Chifukwa chake, ambiri "amaponyera" maloto awo mu bokosi lalitali, kuwazindikiritsa ndi zopanda pake, ndipo, ndithudi, kutaya chikhulupiliro chawo kupambana. Ndipo anthu okhazikika ndi olimba okha amapita kumapeto. Ndipo sikofunikira kuti ubadwire monga chonchi, ukhoza kukhala ndi makhalidwe amenewa.
Muziyamikira nthawi yanu , muzigwiritsa ntchito zinthu zothandiza, zinthu zothandiza. Kukhoza kukonzekera nthawi yanu ndi moyo wanu ndi sitepe yofunikira yopita patsogolo. Tili ndi moyo umodzi ndipo ndikofunikira kwambiri, ngati mukufuna kukwaniritsa chinachake, gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yanu ndi phindu. Ngati mumayesa, gawo lalikulu la nthawi yanu liwonongeka ndi lopanda pake: kwa foni zopanda pake, zopikisana ndi mikangano, chifukwa chosadziletsa ndi bizinesi zosafunika. Inde, tifunika kulankhulana ndipo ndizofunika, koma nthawi zina timati "za chirichonse ndi china chirichonse", timayitana kuti "tiphe" nthawi yathu, ndi zina zotero. Mwina gawo ili la nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali lingagwiritsidwe bwino pa chinthu china chamtengo wapatali : mwachitsanzo, kuwerenga mabuku, kumvetsera ma disks osangalatsa, kupita ku semina ndi maphunziro, pambuyo pake, ndikukulitsa mwana wanu. Ndibwino kukumbukira kuti ana ndiwo ndalama zabwino kwambiri zomwe mumachita pamoyo wanu, choncho kumbukirani chidwi kwa ana anu.
Ikani maganizo anu payekha poyamba : momwe mumaonekera, momwe mumakhalira, makhalidwe anu ndi manja anu, maonekedwe anu amathandiza kwambiri pakupambana. Ndipo ziribe kanthu zomwe deta zakunja muli nazo, nkofunika kuti muchite kuti muwoneke bwino. Zovala zanu, khalidwe lanu la khalidwe limayankhula kwa inu. Moyo wathanzi, chitukuko chakuthupi, zakudya zamaganizo ndizoona enieni a mawonekedwe anu abwino, zokondweretsa, ndipo, motero, kupambana.
Ndikofunika kuchita tsiku ndi tsiku kuti muzindikire maloto anu . Mfundo yofunika kwambiri ndiyo kudyetsa chikhulupiriro chako kuti ukhale wopambana, zolinga, kudzipindulitsa ndi kudzikuza. Chofunika kwambiri pa nkhaniyi chikusewera ndi mabuku, CD, maphunziro, masemina. Sankhani chinachake chimene mumakonda, chidziwitso chatsopano chidzakuchitirani zabwino. Chinthu chokha, ganizirani mozama kusankha maphunziro pa kudzikuza. Pogwirizana ndi zofunikira za mtundu uwu wa chidziwitso, chiwerengero chochuluka cha anthu ochita zachiwerewere awonekera, akufuna kuti apezepo. Muyenera kupereka malipiro othandiza, othandiza komanso oyenerera, kotero pendani mwatsatanetsatane zomwe pulogalamuyi ikupereka, mwinamwake musankhe sukulu ndi maphunziro pazovomerezedwa ndi anzanu ndi anzanu.
Eya, musaiwale za chizolowezicho . Pambuyo pake, lingaliro la chidziwitso chanu, pamene iwo ali pamutu mwanu. Pangani zolinga zanu, malota ndi kuziganizira mu mitundu yonse. Kumbukirani, sitepe yofunikira kuti mupambane ikubweretsa nkhaniyo kumapeto. Ndipo kulola zofooka zing'onozing'ono zisakulepheretseni inu, iwonso ndi ofunika panjira yopambana, mtundu wa cheke, kaya muthe pang'ono. Ndipo patsogolo! Yambani lero, pakalipano, musaimire IT kwa mawa, chifukwa "mawa ali ndi mphamvu zachilendo kuti asayende". Kuyambira panopa, mutenga njira yoyamba yopita patsogolo. Bwino ndi zotsatira zazikulu!