Kupambana ndi chinthu chosasangalatsa, koma chimakhalanso ndi malamulo ake ndi malamulo ake. Chimodzi mwa izo chikukhudza kugwirizana kwa mapangidwe ndi mawonekedwe ake. Zirizonse zomwe mumalota - phunzirani kuvina rumba kapena kupanga maloto anu, kupanga ntchito kapena kulera ana abwino kwambiri padziko lapansi - muyenera kulingalira lamulo limodzi lofunikira. Ganizilani padziko lonse lapansi, chitani malo amodzi - kulangizani anthu opambana ndikutsatira malangizo awo.
Pamene anthu amaganiza za kuchita chinthu chofunikira, chachikulu, chofunika pamoyo wawo - kodi maloto amakhalabe maloto kangati? Kukayikira, kusamvetsetsana - komwe mungapite ndi choti muchite - musalole aliyense kukhala Gates kapena Plisetskys ... Maganizo - ndili ndi zomwe ndakonza paphewa langa? Kukana - ayi, sindiri zimenezo, sindinayambe konse ...
Zinsinsi za kupambana ndi zophweka ndi zomveka, koma zimayenera kutsatiridwa tsiku lililonse, osati zofunikira. Ndipo kuti muyambe kukhala ndi Lolemba, popanda kuthandizidwa ndi mawonekedwe ndi luso lokhazikitsa zolinga zanu - zazikulu ndi zazing'ono - ndi zopanda phindu.
Momwe ikugwirira ntchito
Maphikidwe opambana nthawi zina amatha kuwatsatira. Koma chimodzi - "maganizo padziko lonse, chitani m'deralo" - akuyenera kuyang'anitsitsa. Kodi chinsinsi cha kupambana n'chiyani? Ndi kuchuluka kwa ntchito, ngakhale ngati ntchito "kwa amalume" kapena "ntchito yodzinokha" yodabwitsa kwambiri?
Nthawi zambiri mabungwe opindula amalandira amalonda ochuluka omwe akhala akuyesera "kuchita malonda" kwa zaka zambiri. Mphunzitsi waluso akhoza kukhala wotetezeka katatu kuposa wolemba mapulogalamu apakati akugwira ntchito mu kampani yotchuka.
Ndani amasankha bwino? Cholinga, kuwerenga - kupukuta khoma ndi mphumi yako? Kapena amatha kuyembekezera mwayi wawo (iwowo ndi "office plankton", omwe kwa zaka zambiri akhala akukula pamtunda womwewo)?
Poyamba, palibe chofala pakati pawo ndipo sichikhoza.
Komabe, onse ogwira ntchito ku ofesi, amalonda ndi anthu olenga amatha kukwaniritsa bwino bizinesi yawo. Ndipo iwo akhoza kukhala pa malipiro aing'ono, chiwerengero chochepa ... Zonse zimadalira zolinga zomwe amadzipangira okha komanso ngati amaziika.
Cholinga ndi chachikulu, ndondomeko ndizochepa
Mfundo ya "kuganiza padziko lonse lapansi, imachita" ikusonyeza kuthekera kolekanitsa kamphindi ndi kofunika kwambiri. Pali chinachake chokhudza NLP pa izi, koma kwenikweni ndi wamkulu kwambiri, ngati ndi choncho, "njira". "Gawani ndi kugonjetsa" ndi chidziwitso chodziwika bwino?
Pamene munthu ayang'ana cholinga chachikulu, watayika. Zowopsya za chiyembekezo, kusintha kwakukulu. Mantha kuti kuyesetsa kukwaniritsa zofunikila ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito - o-zoy-zoy zoyenera. Ndipo palibe amene angatsimikize zotsatira zake, ngakhale iye mwini.
Koma pamene munthuyo akuwonekera momveka bwino kuti akwaniritse cholinga chake - zimakhala zosavuta. Pambuyo pake, mukhoza kupita ku "mthunzi" wotsatira, ikani "Mafunso" ndikupita ku gawo lotsatira. Choncho, zochitika zing'onozing'ono, zochita zomwe zikuchitika zimachokera kuntchito zomwe zikuchitika komanso zomwe zilipo panopo ndi njira yabwino yopambana. Dzifunseni nokha: Ndingatani tsopano?
Chotsani chizindikiro
Mfundo ya "kuganiza padziko lonse, kuchita mderalo" imatanthawuza chinthu china chofunika kwambiri - kukhala ndi mutu m'maganizo nthawi zonse. "Tikupita kuti?" Inu mukudzifunsa nokha, kuchita tsiku lililonse.
Mwa njira iyi simungaiwale kuti kumbuyo kwa mbewa ya tsiku ndi tsiku pali cholinga chachikulu, chokongola, chofunidwa. Pokha pothandizidwa ndi "nyenyezi kutsogolera" - cholinga - mutha kuchotsa mkangano wosafunikira, kumverera kupondaponda pomwepo. Mukuchita, koma mumayesa ntchito zanu mothandizidwa ndi cholinga chapatali, kumene onse ali pansi.
Mtundu uwu wa "kuvina ndi moyo"
Kuti tikwaniritse, ndithudi, ndi zabwino - makamaka motsogoleredwa ndi mfundo ya "kulingalira padziko lonse, yesetsani kuderalo." Koma njira yopita ku cholinga iyenera kukhala yosangalatsa. Pambuyo pake, mphindi ya kupambana - ndi yochepa kwambiri! Bwanji ngati palibe wina akutamandani? Ndipo ngati mphotho imodzi ya zakuthupi sikukwanira kwa iwe?
Choncho musaiwale kuti mutsimikizidwenso - onetsetsani cholinga chanu chomwe mukufuna. Mukakhala ndi nthawi pang'ono patsiku, mukalumpha pamubedi ndi lingaliro "Ndikufuna kuti ndichite" -cho ndi cholinga chanu. Ndipo kudzikakamiza ndichabechabechabe. Amanena kuti zochita zomwe simukufuna kuchita ndizochepa mphamvu zowonjezera mphamvu - ndipo izi, mukudziwa, zimadzaza ndi ...