Pezani ntchito kupyolera mwa anzanu - njira yamasiku athu ndi yofala komanso yofunidwa, komabe nthawi zambiri, imabisika. Ndizosatheka kuti abwenzi adziwone bwino motere, osagwira nawo ntchito kuntchito. Lingaliro la kukhala ndi malo okondweretsa popanda kuyesayesa kosafunikira kumapangitsa mitima ya anthu ambiri opempha. Pambuyo pake, simukuyenera kusintha, kudandaula, ndipo mwina, kukana musanapeze ntchito yodalirika. Ndipo komabe kufika kuntchito kudzera kulankhulana kumapereka osati ubwino wokha, komanso kuipa kwake.
Munthu yemwe mwachitsanzo, mungamugwire ntchito kuchokera ku gulu, mwinamwake iye akujambula kale chikhalidwe chonse ndi zomwe zili mu gulu, komanso amapereka uphungu wothandiza, angathandizepo kanthu, ndipo nthawi zina amadzibisa kwa akuluakulu a boma. Ndipo ngati munthuyo ali mwini wa mabwana, ndiye kuti izi ndi zabwino kwa inu, chifukwa mungathe kuwerengera zinthu zina zomwe mukuzidziwa komanso mudzadziŵa zambiri zothandiza zomwe sizinaululidwe kwa aliyense, makamaka ngati munthuyo sali mnzanu chabe, koma mnzanu. Ngati mutayesetsa, ndiye kuti panthawiyi, kupita patsogolo mofulumira pamakwerero akutsimikiziridwa.Ndiye kodi pangakhale zotani? Ubwenzi wanu ndi munthuyu ukhoza kuyesedwa. Choncho musayese kuzunza miyambo. Ngakhale mnzanu woleza mtima komanso wapamtima angakwiyire, choncho yesetsani kuchita momwe mungagwirire ntchito, ngati muli bwana wanu kunja. Ndipo ngati pali kusamvetsetsana kapena nkhani yofunika kwambiri, ubwino wa ubale wanu ndi iye udzadziwonetsera okha, komanso kupatula kuti simunagwiritsepo nkhanza ubwenzi wa bwana wanu.
Pakati pa anzako, mungatengedwe osati omvetsa chisoni, chifukwa palibe amene angakonde kuti amagwira ntchito yofanana ndi mnzake, koma alibe mwayi. Ngakhale izi siziri choncho, antchito anu adzakayikirabe izi. Izi ndi zina, zomwe muyenera kukhala okonzeka.
Ngati mwatsimikiziridwa, muyenera kutsimikizira kuti mungakhulupirire kuti mumakhulupirira, kuyang'anitsitsa nthawi zonse, zomwe sizili zokondweretsa. Nthawi yoyamba, mukugwira ntchito yanu, mudzamva momwe ikuyesedwa mozama kwambiri kuposa ntchito ya antchito ena, kuganiza "kodi ndikofunika kapena ayi?" Mwina sikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse mtima wabwino umene suli wabwino, ndipo chitani ntchito yanu, ngati simukuzindikira kanthu kali konse, komabe kumbukirani kuti mukuweruzidwa. Poyamba, simungakwanitse kuganiza kuti mukulephera kugwira ntchito zochepa zomwe anzako amadzilola. Koma potsiriza inu mudzasiyidwa mmbuyo.
Ngati mtsikana athandizira kuntchito, amatha kuwombera kunja ndipo aliyense adziŵa zambiri za iwe zomwe iwe sukufuna kuziulula. Choncho, ndi bwino kuchenjeza bwenzi pasadakhale.
Mwatsoka, ubwenzi sikuti umakhalapo kwamuyaya, ndipo ngati mumakangana, umakhudza kwambiri ntchito yanu. makamaka ngati bwenzi ndi bwana. Kupsinjika maganizo kuntchito, ntchito yothandizira idzakhala yovuta kupirira. Ndipo ngati mnzako akudzudzula, konzekerani kuti akhoza kuyesa kuchotsa. Yesetsani kuchita zinthu mosagwirizana ndi ntchito, ngati izi zimachitika modzidzimutsa, popanda kuyang'ana kosafunika kosafunika ndi kunyalanyaza. Ntchito ndi maubwenzi anu amayesayesa kusasakanizana ndi abwenzi, koma mu udani kwambiri. Ndipo musamafulumire kuti mutuluke nokha, mwinamwake mukupangabe. Ngakhale ngati ubale woterewu, monga poyamba, pakati panu sulipo, mtsogolo kuntchito zonse zikhoza kuyenda bwino kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri kamtunda kakang'ono kamene kamathandiza.
Komabe, chiyanjano mwa mgwirizanowu chingathe kubweretsa zotsatira zabwino, kokha maonekedwe abwino ndi kutsogolo ndizofunikira.