Kodi mumakonda ntchito zakunja ndi makampani akulira? Kapena panopa, kumapeto kwa tsiku logwira ntchito ndi okondwa kuti mupita kwanu, ndikuti mwamuna wanu ndi kamba wanu wokondedwa akuyembekezera inu? Kodi ndinu "owulu", "lark" kapena "nkhunda" -arrhymic? Zambiri mwazinthu zathu zimagwirizana kwambiri ndi zamoyo.
Makhalidwe apamwamba omwe amawunikira maziko a chikhalidwe cha munthu ndi chikoka chake pa ubale waumwini - chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe ndi zaka.
Kusiyana kwa zaka
Ndili wamng'ono tidzakhala mabwenzi, timayankhula ndi makampani akuluakulu, timathandizira odziwa ambiri. Ndipotu, dziko lapansi ndi losangalatsa kwambiri! Ndipo pali zambiri zoti muphunzire! Choncho, mgwirizano pakati pawo ndi momwe zimakhudzidwa ndi zinthu zomwe zimayambira monga chiyambi cha munthu, ndizokulu.
Ndili ndi zaka, timakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri pazomwe timadziwana nawo komanso maubwenzi omwe alipo kale. Timakonda kusankha yemwe tingayankhulane naye ndi m'njira iti. Ndi ogwira nawo ntchito - osamvetsetsa pang'ono, ngati kuchokera m'mawu ovuta kumadalira ntchito yathu. Ndi mabwenzi akale omwe asintha khalidwe lawo - mwachangu, ngati pali chinachake chokamba.
Kukalamba, sitidzakhala ndi chidziwitso komanso nzeru, koma, mwatsoka, timataya msanga. Ndipo akatswiri a zamaganizo mu ubalewo adasankhiranso mtundu wa "akazi" ndi "wamwamuna" momwe amamvera uthengawo.
Akazi ndi amuna
Biology ya kugonana, ndithudi, imakhudza kwambiri momwe timalankhulira. Momwe mungakhalire ubale weniweni. Pachifukwa ichi, kuyankhulana kwa "amuna" ndi "akazi" ndikowonetsa. Ngati mnzanu sanaitanidwe miyezi isanu ndi umodzi - kwa mwamuna uyu sichifukwa chake "nkhondo" ndi "ziwonetsero." Ndipo kwa mkazi - chizindikiro cha mavuto omwe alipo kale mu chiyanjano ndi chifukwa chokhala "chowopsa" mu liwu, ngati mtsikanayo akuyitanabe.
"Ndinathyola msomali chifukwa cha iwe!" - akudandaulira mkaziyo ndi mawu ake achipongwe. Mwamuna amupereka iye kuti adzidulire kutalika kwa kutalika kwa nthawi yosweka kapena (ndi mantha) apereka ndalama kukachezera manicurist. Msungwana adzakhumudwa ndi "popanda mgwirizano", pohahat kapena mosiyana - m'maganizo amakondwera mawu akuti "Lolani izi zikhale tsoka lalikulu lomwe lidzakuchitikirani sabata ino!"
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amagwira ntchito ndi makasitomala a amuna ndi akazi onse akhala akudziŵa kuti maziko a munthu ndi chikoka chake pazoyanjana ndizofunikira. Mu ubale ndi mwamuna, ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro enieni, kugwiritsa ntchito bwino pafupifupi tanthauzo lamasanthawuzidwe. Kufotokozera molingana ndi malingaliro anu ndi uthenga wanu.
Chifukwa chake, amuna amamva chisoni kwambiri ndi "malingaliro" omwe amauzidwa ndi mkazi. Ndipo ndi zovuta kuti amayi azizindikira kuti alibe kusowa kofunika kwambiri kwa iwo - osati pa ntchito (kubweretsa, kupeza, kukonza, kukonza), koma m'mawu. Azimayi amasowa malingaliro awo kuchokera kwa amuna awo, thandizo lofotokozedwa m'mawu, manja, zizindikiro, malingaliro okhudza maganizo a amayi ...
Inde, ndipo mitundu ya maubwenzi osiyana ndi omwe amasiyana nawo malinga ndi maziko a munthu, ndipo chikoka chake ndi chodabwitsa. Mitundu ya "Amuna" ndi "akazi" yotengera kwa akatswiri a maganizo - osati zopanda pake, komanso ngakhale kusangalatsa kumasulidwa kwa malingaliro awa, palibe amene wasintha.
Choleric ndi manyowa, sanguine ndi phlegmatic. Ndiponso "ziphuphu", "Yesenin" ndi zina zomwe zimayimira umunthu
Munthu ndi wapadera kudzikweza. Kufotokozera mwachidziwikire kusiyana pakati pa anthu ndi kosavuta ndi thandizo la mitundu yonse. Kotero panali anthu osiyana siyana, anthu a nthawi zosiyana za tsiku ndi zina zotero. Koma kufotokozera chifukwa chake abwenzi athu akutiitana mosangalala m'mafilimu, koma tikufuna kukhala ndekha, chifukwa chake mwamuna wina amasangalala ndi zosangalatsa, ndipo zina ndizowawa, ndizovutabe.
Choyambirira - chikhalidwe chimene chimakhazikitsa "kutsatira" zinthu ndi zikhalidwe, kapena mikhalidwe yomwe imapangitsa kukhala ndi mtima wabwino? N'zovuta kunena mosaganizira. Koma tayang'anani pa anawo. Ngakhale pa nthawi yomwe thupi lawo liripo okha kwa iwo ndi amayi - chilengedwe chonse chomwe chimathandizira ntchito yake ya moyo, ena amalingalira, ena ali ovuta, ena alibe mpumulo. Kotero, biology imagwira ntchito yake, ndipo ife poyamba ndife osiyana - kuyambira kubadwa kapena ngakhale kale.
Kodi "mitundu" yosiyanasiyana imagwirizana bwanji?
Khalani pamodzi ndi kumanga maubwenzi osiyanasiyana kwa anthu osiyana siyana nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta. Makamaka ngati iwo ali banja limodzi, ndipo amakakamizidwa kuti azilankhulana tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma mosamalitsa wina ndi mzake, tsiku lililonse kulingalira za chilengedwe, ndipo chotero kusiyana kwakukulu kwa wina ndi mzake, timatha kukwanitsa bwino. Popanda kuyendetsa "okondedwa" komanso kulemekeza munthu aliyense, tikhoza kumanga bwino maubwenzi athu tsiku ndi tsiku - kuti tithandizane komanso kuti tisangalale.