Bwana wamkazi. Si chinsinsi chimene anthu amayesa kukhala nacho - kutali ndi akazi amphamvu ndi odzidalira. Ngati mkazi alibe zofewa ndi zokometsera, sangamukope kanthu.
Kodi mungatani kuti muthane ndi vutoli? Muyenera kuphunzira kuyendetsa mitsinje. Muloleni munthuyo adziwe kuti ndi wamphamvu kwambiri kwa inu, ndipo ziribe kanthu, ngakhale siziri.
Wokondedwa ndi cutie. Pali amayi omwe amatha kuwonetsa bwino tsiku loyamba, koma izi sizili choncho. Ali ndi atsikana ofanana, oimira chilakolako chogonana amakhala okondana, koma osati monga chiyanjano chachikulu. Zizindikiro zikuluzikulu zosonyeza kukhala azimayi oterewa ndizo: nthawi zonse kuvomereza kwa munthu yemwe samatsika mukumva kulimwetulira ndi zina zonse zomwe zingasonyeze kuti palibe maganizo a mkazi.
Ngati zizindikirozi ndizodziwika kwa inu nokha, muyenera kusintha chinachake mwa inu nokha, paliopseza kuti mukhale ndodo ya mphezi kwa munthu, ndi theka lachiwiri.
Momwe mungakhalire mumkhalidwe umenewu? Sintha! Musalole pomwepo osati mwachabe, koma mozama komanso mosadziletsa. Sankhani nokha maganizo anu, phunzirani kulira ndi kuteteza. Sungani zovala, sungani kuchuluka kwa nsalu ndi bianchi pa zovala zachikazi ndi zokongola. Mudzadabwa m'mene kusintha kwa malo kungasinthe maganizo a munthu!
Iye ankadziwa. Azimayi oterewa amasiyana ndi kudzikonda. Izi sizovuta, koma zonse ndi zabwino! Sizimveka kudzipaka nokha pamaso pa munthu, makamaka ngati zomwe akuwona zidzatsutsana ndi zomwe wanena. Muzochitika izi, pali kuthekera kuti malonda adzabweretsa zotsatira zabwino, koma pakapita nthawi, mwamunayo akuwona kuti chirichonse sichiri chokongola ndi chokongola monga chinalonjezedwa.
Kodi ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati choncho? Musayese kubisala zofooka zanu, ndikuwongolera mozama zomwe mudachita ndi ulemu. Choyenera ndikuti, sikofunika kukwiyitsa maonekedwe a zovuta zosiyana ndi munthu. Kumbukirani, munthu aliyense ali ndi ubwino umene ungalepheretse zofooka zawo.
Mkaziyo ndi mfumukazi. Zizindikiro zazikulu zomwe zikuwonetsera umembala wa azimayi oterewa zimaphatikizapo zopempha zowonjezereka, osati muzinthu zakuthupi zokha, koma ndi ndege ya makhalidwe omwe munthu woyenera kukhala pafupi ndi chisanu ayenera kuvala.
Kodi munganene chiyani kwa akazi oterewa? Ino ndi nthawi yosavuta!
Mkazi akuwomba. Mndandanda umadziwonetsera wokha! Sichikugwirizana ndi chilichonse, moyo suma, nyengo ndi yoopsa, ena samayamikira, ndi zina zotero. Munthu wamba sangalekerere chinthu chotero, ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti ndi chiwerewere chanji!
Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe chingakulangizeni? Kuti muyang'ane kumbuyo ndikuyesa kuona chilichonse padziko lonse chabwino, ichi chidzakhala sitepe yoyamba kusandulika, chifukwa zambiri zowonjezera.
Mkazi wamkazi. N'zachidziwikiratu kuti chilichonse ngakhale chinsinsi chachikulu chimaonekera, koma sizowonjezera kukakamiza zochitika. Azimayi a mtundu uwu, nthawi yomweyo azidziyerekezera kuti ndinu mwamuna ngati kavalidwe, kuganizira momwe angakhalire mwamuna. Sizoipa, koma sizothandiza kupereka malingaliro onse omwe amabwera m'malingaliro anu pamene mukuyang'ana munthu.
Kodi mungakonze bwanji vutoli? Sungani malingaliro anu a tsogolo lanu losangalala limodzi ndi inu, mwinamwake anthu adzathawa.
Vulgar madona. Pali amayi omwe sawona mzere pakati pa kavalidwe ka kugonana, ndi achiwerewere ogwira ntchito. Komanso, amakonda kulankhula za okondedwa awo onse tsiku loyamba mwatsatanetsatane. Ndipo kwa akazi amtundu uwu, yachiwiri n'zotheka popanda yoyamba.
Momwe mungakhalire? Ngakhale kuti cholinga cha msonkhano ndi gawo lotsatirali, simuyenera kukhala womasuka, sangathe kungopseza munthu, akhoza kungokunyengererani. Osati aliyense akufuna kukhala pamsonkho wanu. Choncho, chinsinsi pang'ono chidzakuthandizira zambiri kuposa momwe mukudziwira pa moyo wanu wogonana.