Musangothamangira kukayankha "ayi!" Izi zidzakhala bodza lina. Akuti anthu ambiri achikulire omwe amakhala ku megalopolis amakhala pafupifupi kawiri mkati mwa theka la ora. Malinga ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, luso loyankhula zabodza ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri za munthu monga mitundu yamoyo yomwe imasiyanitsa iye ndi zamoyo zonse. Popanda kupita patsogolo pa chisinthiko ndikukhala ndi chiyankhulo, munthu wanzeru mwamsanga adaphunzira kugawa mosiyana ndi chithandizo chachinsinsi. Ngakhale, ngati mumakonda kwambiri, mukhoza kuganiza kuti bodza linaphunzitsidwa ndi njoka yosaoneka yomwe inanyengerera Adamu ndi Hava. Koma zoona zatsalapo: munthu wakhala akunama kuyambira pamene adakhala mwamuna. Ndipo inu? Kodi mumakonda bodza - mundiuze moona mtima? ..
Eya, koma sichoncho? Ndipo simunapite konse tikiti mu moyo wanu? Kodi sananene kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu sakukhala pakhomo pomwe akugona pabedi patsogolo pa TV? Kodi simunawafotokozere akuluakulu anu kuti mukupempha tsiku lokha chifukwa agogo anu akudwala? Kodi simunauze mwana wamwamuna yemwe wangoberekera kumeneyo mkulankhulidwe kamene kamene kali kofiira kofiira kofiira ndi maso osasangalatsa ndi mwana wokondweretsa kwambiri omwe mwamuwonapo? Ndipo mwanayo za Gray Wolf ndi Amalume ndi thumba, nayenso, sanauzidwe konse? Mwinamwake, pakati pathu, pali amodzi kapena awiri oimira pangozi ya anthu okonda choonadi amene anayankha moona mtima kuti "ayi" ku mafunso onsewa. Iwo omwe amayankha funso lakuti "Kodi muli bwanji?" Mwa tsatanetsatane za zovuta zonse za moyo wake wovuta; moona mtima ndi kudzipereka mwaufulu akuluakulu a boma pa mavuto onse a kampani; kuchokera pansi pa mtima wake amamvera chisoni bwenzi limene iye sanawonepo kwa nthawi yaitali, kuti "akulamba"; Fotokozerani mnzako momveka bwino kuti asankhe kavalidwe kake, kamene kali koyenerera kwa miyendo yabwino; sadzabisala kwa amayi ouma omwe, mosiyana ndi mawu a dokotala, osati gastritis nkomwe ...
Zoonadi, omenyera nkhondowa chifukwa cha zifukwa zina sakhala ndi chikhalidwe chabwino, amawatcha iwo mosamala, osasangalatsa, achipongwe, amodzi. Koma osati za okonda choonadi tsopano, koma za ife, anthu okha, omwe, amatembenuka, sangathe kukhala ndi moyo kwa theka la ola popanda kukhala bodza. Timathera nthawi ndi makolo ndi ana, ogwira nawo ntchito komanso ogonana nawo, oyang'anira ndi oyendayenda anzawo. Komabe, bodza lamatsenga ndi losiyana: lingakhale losalakwa komanso lokhululukidwa kwathunthu komanso lokhalitsa, ndipo lingawonongeke, ndi loopsa kwa munthu mwiniyo komanso kwa ena. Koma mzere pakati pa wina ndi mzake ndi wochepa kwambiri moti ndi wopanda pake kuwoloka. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti mzerewu uli pati, kumbuyo komwe kumachokera ku njira zowonongeka za kulankhulana kwa anthu kumakhala zinthu zowonongeka.
ZOYERA NDI ZINTHU.
Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa zinyama zapakhomo - chikhumbo chochepetsera malo awo aumunthu kuchokera ku nkhondo yomwe sinaitanidwe. Kusiyana ndi zonse zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wathu, ziyenera kukhala za anthu omwe ali pafupi kwambiri. Bwanji ndikuuzeni amayi anga za kukangana ndi okondedwa anu? Pokhapokha kuti mudzamvekanso: "Pambuyo pa zonse, ndakuchenjezani inu .. ..?"? Kodi sizomveka kunena kuti chirichonse n'chodabwitsa? Uwuzeni mnzanu za chikondi chachisokonezo kumayambiriro kwa anyamata ovuta? Ngati zolinga zanu sizikuphatikizidwa pazokangana kuti muzimvera zotsutsana pankhaniyi - zilizonse. Iwo sankakonda aliyense, iwo ankafunafuna moyo wawo wonse, iwo ankadikira ndi kuyembekezera.
Chikhumbo chathu chokhalira chowoneka chokongola, chaching'ono, chochepa kuposa momwe ife tiriri, kwenikweni, sichinthu china choposa chikhumbo chofuna kumanga mtundu wa fuko. Eya, ndani amasamala, tili ndi zaka zingati, tili ndi imvi bwanji komanso kuti chiuno chathu chidzakhala chotani, timalephera kudziletsa ndi zakudya?
Nthaŵi zambiri, munthu amangoyenera kukhala yekha, osagwirizana ndi kayendedwe ka moyo. Kuntchito, nenani kuti mukudwala, mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu - kuti kuntchito sikuli ntchito yaikulu. Kotero kuti palibe wina yemwe akudziwa komwe iwe uli, zamtengo wapatali zomwe sizingatheke ndi moyo wa lero wa moyo. Kuchokera m'mawa kwambiri kuchokera kunyumba, chotsani mafoni ndi ... kupita ku cinema, cafe, kumsika, kugula m'misewu, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti palibe amene amadziwa komwe ife tiri. Kodi simukuganiza kuti zikuwoneka kuyesa? Ndipo palibe chifukwa chozunza chikumbumtima chanu kuti mwamuna wodalirika ndi bwana wankhanza agwa mwachinyengo! Ngati mwatenga kale nthawi yosavomerezeka - funani moyo wanu wonse. Koma malire a malo anu osungirako amatetezedwa osati inu nokha: kumbali yina - mlonda woopsa, dzina lake ndi khalidwe lachiyanjano. Kuntchito, tonsefe timakakamizika kudziyerekezera: kusekerera kwa anthu osasangalala, kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zinthu zosangalatsa, kunena zabwino, osati zomwe mukufuna, kuvala zomwe zikuvomerezedwa, osati zomwe mumakonda. Kaya tikufuna kapena ayi, tikukakamizidwa kumvera lamuloli, komanso chifukwa cha zomwe tikulimbana nazo, komanso chifukwa cha ntchito yathu. Kowona mtima kungathe kudalira udindo wa azimayi okha.
KHALANI KUPULUMUTSA.
Ayi, ayi, sitikuyankhula za membala wa Komsomol Zoya, amene adapulumutsa dziko lawo. Ife tiriponso za ife okondedwa. Kuiwala za foni, titha kukambirana za batri yomwe yakhala ikuchedwa, posachedwa ntchito, tinene kuti sitinayambe kupanikizika. M'malo movomereza kuti iwo amangopitirira. Tikataya makiyi kapena malemba, mwinamwake, tidzakhala akudandaula kwa mayi wa nyumba amene tamukoka. Chifukwa chiyani? Inde, kotero, kuti musasokoneze ntchito yanu (kupanikizana kwa magalimoto mumzindawu ndi chifukwa chomveka chochedwa, ngati sichizunzidwa). Musakhumudwitse mnzanu kapena bwenzi lanu labwino: ndani akukondwera kumva kuti mulibe chidwi ndi nkhaniyi, yomwe mukuyenera kuyitanira, kuti muiwale za izo? Ndibwino kuti musakayikire nkhani yonena za batri yomwe yatayidwa, Pamapeto pake, kuti asakhale chinthu chotonzedwa ndi chitonzo: Uyu ndiye mnyamata, kachiwiri anataya kachikwama!
Kodi mukuganiza kuti ichi ndi mantha wamba? Inu mukhoza, ndithudi, kunena choncho. Koma chidziwitso cha kudzipulumutsa chimakhala ndi zinthu zonse zamoyo, ndipo munthu aliyense, podziwa kuti ali m'mavuto, amayesa kuwapewa mwa njira zonse. Pali zochitika pamene mumayenera kunama komanso kuthandiza achibale anu. Kodi mukuwona kuti mwanayo akugwira ntchito mwakhama kusukulu ndipo akufuna kukhala tsiku kapena awiri kunyumba? Inde, amayi amodzi nthawi zonse amakokera mwanayo pa tchuthi yotere. Ndiyeno, popanda kukhumudwa kulikonse kunama, amalembera mwatcheru kalata kwa aphunzitsi anga: Mwana wanga wamphonya maphunziro chifukwa cha mutu. Mwinamwake mphunzitsi amadziwa kuti wanena zabodza: Ali ndi ana omwe amafunanso kusambira nthawi ndi nthawi ... Ngati mwamuna wa bwenzi labwino akufunsa madzulo, ngati mulibe iye, mwangozi, ife, ndithudi , mwamsangamsanga anathamangira kukapulumutsa chimwemwe chake, ndikufuula kuti: "Inde, ndithudi! Anangokhala ndi utsi pakhomo! Tsopano bwereranso! ", Tidzathamangira kukaitana mnzanu pafoni.
PAMENE PASSAGE IN LIE.
Pa nthawi iti, mabodza osokoneza bongo, kuyendetsa nyumbayo komanso kuchepetsa mikangano, imakhala bodza lenileni? Mwinamwake, pamene munthu ayamba kukamba mwadala kufunafuna phindu ndi kupindulitsa, pamene mabodza ake amatha kuvulaza ena kapena kuvulaza ena. Kodi mukuganiza kuti izi ndizonso anthu osayanjidwa omwe sali m'gulu labwino? Mukulakwitsa! Si zachilendo kwa anthu amene amadziona kuti ndi olemekezeka komanso olemekezeka, nthawizina amagwiritsa ntchito "chida" ichi pazinthu zonse zamalonda ndi zaumwini. Pewani miseche yokhudzana ndi bwenzi lanu kapena mpikisano, perekani lonjezo losadziwika kuti mutha kupeza phindu, "kukopa" lingaliro la wina, kukopa ndalama, podziwa kuti sangathe kubwezeretsa, kungobwereza pang'ono ndi zolemba zachuma - ambiri amabwera kotero osati kamodzi, pamene akupitiriza kusangalala ndi mbiri ya anthu oona mtima, abwino. Pali zenizeni zenizeni zomwe zimatha kutsogolera ngakhale kawiri koma moyo katatu: zimakhala pamodzi ndi zibwenzi zambiri, zimagwira ntchito ku makampani opikisana. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, anthu ambiri onama amatha kukhalabe mbiri yawo kwa zaka zambiri komanso zaka zambiri. Kugwira wabodza koteroko sikungatheke: m'mutu mwake, zikuwoneka ngati makompyuta omwe amadzimanga omwe amawerengera mpikisano wake wonse. Ngati mutakumana ndi khalidwe ngati ili panjira, khalani kutali ndi iye, ndipo yesani kugwiritsa ntchito njira zotere nokha. Ngakhalenso kunja kwabodza-virtuosos amawoneka mokondwa kwambiri, samakhala otonthoza mkati. Kudziimba mlandu nthawizonse (ndipo wonama aliyense amadziwa bwino kuti amalephera malire a zomwe zimaloledwa) ndipo mantha owonetseredwa amachititsa kuvutika, maganizo. Ndipo pamene cholinga chokhumbacho chikukwaniritsidwa, sichidzabweretsa chisangalalo kapena kukhutira.
ANA A KU VRUNGEL.
Ana omwe tiri, osadziwa ngakhale chifukwa chake timachita izi. Chifukwa chakuti aliyense amachita izo. Chifukwa ndi zophweka. Chifukwa chiyani mukukakamiza, kusokoneza, kukopa, pamene mungathe kubisa pang'ono! "Sizitipweteka," timauza mwanayo m'chipinda cholandirira dokotala, ngakhale kuti tikudziwa motsimikiza zomwe zidzachitike. "Ndibwerera posachedwa!" - timalonjeza ndikuthawa tsiku lonse. "Mudzaphunzira bwino, ndikugulitsani galu!" - timalengeza molimba mtima. Ndipo pamene mwanayo akuwonetsa mwatsatanetsatane diary ndi "zisanu", timayamba kufotokozera mwadzidzidzi kuti galu adzayenera kuyembekezera nthawi zonse: mwanayo ndi udindo wake. Timamuopseza Baba Yaga ndi Agogo ndi thumba, timauza nkhani za mtsikana pansi pa mbale ndi Stork yomwe imabweretsa ana. Ndipo sitingaganize kuti pa tsiku lopanda tsiku langwiro mwanayo amvetsetsa kuti amakhala mu malo abodza. Mayi anga amatha kupita ku masitepe kuti asatenge zonyansa, koma amasuta kuti agogo asapite kumzinda wina, koma adamwalira, kuti Santa Claus ali ndi ndevu pa chingwe, ndipo sitiroke siibweretsa ana konse.
Sizowononga ngakhale kuti mwana, wozoloŵera kuyambira ali mwana kubodza, adzabwezeretsa gulu lankhondo la akuluakulu abodza ndi nthawi. Choipa ndi china. Mwana akhoza kumva kuti ali otetezeka pokhapokha atakhala ndi chikhulupiriro kuti makolo ake sangakhulupirire. Ngati amayi akunena zabodza, ndiye kuti akubisa chinachake kuchokera kwa iye. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, kuchokera pambali ya mwanayo, pali moyo wake chinthu chobisika, choletsedwa, chochititsa manyazi. Kwa mwana, izi sizongotonza, koma zoopsa, chiwonongeko cha chilengedwe chonse, chifukwa chirichonse chikugwa, komwe kuli dziko laling'ono laling'ono. Choncho, njira imodzi yochokeramo: kuti musachoke pa zovuta ndikumvetsera zonyansa za ana akuluakulu, musamanamize ana. Ngakhale ngati mumalankhula momveka bwino. Ngakhale simukudziwa momwe mungalankhulire zoona. Ngakhale mutadziwa kuti choonadi chimamupweteka mwanayo. Chifukwa ngakhale bodza laling'ono kwambiri limavulaza maulendo zana kuposa choonadi chowawa kwambiri.
Ndine wokondwa kuti ndikunamiza ndekha ...
Koma mabodza amodzi owopsa ndi owopsa ndi abodza kwa inu nokha. Sitimathera nthawi yochuluka ndi wina aliyense. Nthawi yomwe timakonda njira yathu ya moyo, ntchito, chiwerengero. Kuti bwana amatisamalira, ndipo ngati ayi, sikuti tikugwira ntchito molakwika, koma chifukwa ndi wopusa ndipo sangatiyamikire. Kuti mwamuna wake anapita kwa wina chifukwa chachinyengo komanso chilakolako cha amuna kuti akwatire mitala, osati chifukwa cha usiku uliwonse kuti amanyansidwa ndi zibwenzi komanso kugonana kamodzi pamlungu. Kodi chida chachisomo chomwecho pansi pa mkono wanu chinali chiyani kwa ife nthawi zonse ndipo sichikulire mwezi watha. Pofuna kuti mabodza awawoneke bwino, timauza ena, timawafotokozera mwatsatanetsatane, timadza ndi zifukwa zatsopano zowonjezera mavuto athu, timapeza anthu ochimwa kwambiri m'masautso athu.
Koma bodza liri ngati mankhwala. Kunama kumapweteketsa mitsempha, imakhalabe muchisangalalo, kumalimbikitsa kumasulidwa kwa adrenaline, yomwe imakhala yofanana ndi zinthu zowononga. Ndipo amakhalanso osokoneza. Pakapita nthawi, munthu sangathe kuchita bodza ngakhale kuti zimamuvulaza. Amayankha munthu wina aliyense, mnzake, bwenzi lake, woyandikana naye dokotala kumayendedwe ka mano - ndipo amayamba kumujambula momveka bwino za moyo wake wosakhalapo, wochulukirapo mu dziko lake lopusitsa ndipo pang'onopang'ono ataya mtima. Zotsatira zake, bodza silinakhale lachiwiri, koma mtundu woyamba, kuwononga umunthu ndi kupweteka psyche. Amzanga amamvetsera mwachidwi, kenako osakhulupirira ndipo, potsiriza, ndi chifundo. Ndipo patapita kanthawi munthu amapezeka kuti akutsuka kwathunthu: abwenzi ake amachoka kwa iye, achibale ake amanyazi, akuluakulu amaleka kukhulupilira zinthu zina zofunika. "Mwachibadwa," amaganiza kuti, "Pali zinthu zambiri zopanda pake, palibe amene akufuna kundiyamikira komanso kundimvetsa, wokongola, wokoma mtima, wanzeru!" Mulimonsemo muyenera kudzilolera kugwera mumsampha uwu, chifukwa palibe njira yotulukira. Choncho, tidzaphunzira kukhala oona mtima ndi ife enieni. Timavomereza kwa ife tokha kuti sizinthu zonse m'miyoyo yathu zili zotetezeka, ndipo poyankhira sizinatipangitsa ife, koma tokha. Koma sitidzawaza mitu yathu ndi phulusa, koma tidzakhala ndi ntchito yeniyeni yothetsera zovutazo: Kulemba mapepala, kupatsa lipoti, kupita kwa dokotala wa mano, ndikupanga amayi anga ndi mwamuna wanga, kuyamba kupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuleka kunama. Ndipo choyamba - kwa ife tokha.