Zachibadwa, thupi lamaliseche la mtsikana wotchuka, mosakayika, zingakondweretse mwamuna aliyense yemwe ali pafupi. Koma pali atsikana omwe amatchula thupi lawo kutali ndi ungwiro weniweni. Kotero pali mavuto mu moyo wogonana. Mmene mungagonjetsere manyazi pa bedi, mukakhala ndi zaka zakubadwa kapena mutabereka, mimba ya mdzakaziyo imapachikidwa, kapena kodi imachita masewero a cellulite ndi mimba?
Thupi la mkazi mu mawonekedwe awa silingakonde mwamuna! Ndipo ndi zoona! Chiwalo chofunika kwambiri ndi ... ubongo wazimayi. Kodi ubongo umatha kuzindikira kukongola kwenikweni kumene kulipo? Choncho, mu ubale padzakhala chilakolako. Ndiye palibe chimene chingakhoze kuchikaniza icho.
Kulephera.
Chofunika kwambiri ndi kugonana. Chiwonetsero chotseguka cha zopanda ungwiro za thupi lanu lamaliseche ndi njira yosonyezera chikondi chenicheni, kapena chidaliro, komanso chiyanjano, ndipo mwachibadwa, chikhumbo. Kuzindikira za zofooka zomwe zilipo ndi chiopsezo china. Ndi chimene chimapangitsa mkazi kukhala wamphamvu, womasuka komanso wokongola kwa mwamuna. Theka lachikazi limakhudzidwa makamaka ndi zolakwika m'thupi lake. Malingana ndi ambiri, anthu amakhulupirira zambiri pachithunzichi, ndipo hafu yazimayi nthawi zambiri amadziwa izi. Imodzi mwa maudindo apamwamba imasewedwanso ndi chikhalidwe chamakono, chomwe chimayimira ndi kufalitsa, molingana ndi iye, thupi loyenera. Ngakhale sizingakhale choncho.
Ndani ayenera kudzudzula.
Azimayi amatha kumverera kuti ndi opanda ungwiro kapena oipa, pamene chiwerengerocho sichiyang'ana nzeru zake, osati malinga ndi momwe angafunire. Thupi lomwe liri la mkazi, pokhala wamaliseche, silingagonjetse manyazi ndi ukalamba, chifukwa ilo limasintha. Kawirikawiri zolephera zomwezo sizovuta monga zikuwonekera. Kugonjetsa pamabedi awo osatsimikizika, kuwoneka maonekedwe, sikofunikira, mungathe kukwaniritsa zotsatira zolakwika pa chiyanjano cha chikondi cha banjali. Wogonana naye, wosadziŵa thupi lake, mu kukongola kwake, kawirikawiri amaganiza kuti wokondedwa sayenera kumuwona pamene akuchifuna kwenikweni. Pano moyo wawo wokhudzana ndi kugonana udzakhala wowawa, womwe sumafunikira konse.
Kusakhulupirira.
Zonse zokhudzana ndi mnzanuyo wosankhidwa amene akutsutsa za thupi la osankhidwa ake, ndikugogomezera zolephera. Amuna, nthawi zambiri, sazindikira momwe zolakwitsa za mnzanuyo, komanso zolakwitsa za thupi lake, zomwe iye mwini ndi nafantazirovala. Palibe mathokozo omwe angapangidwe chabe sangathe kuthandiza mkazi ngati sakukhutira ndi zomwe adaziwona pagalasi. Taganizirani moona mtima pa ntchito yododometsa, ndizo zomwe zingakhale zovuta kwambiri. Akazi a Libido mu nkhaniyi adzatsikira pansi, komanso kukupangitsani kuti musamakhulupirire mnzanuyo.
Kuyanjana.
Ndipo simukudziwa chomwe chingachitike pazochitika zoterozo. Amayi ambiri samaganiza kuti thupi lawo ndi chitsanzo chabwino, komanso zaka zambiri. Imodzi mwa njira zabwino kwambiri zothetsera vutolo ndi bwino kupereka chiyanjano pakati pa awiriwo. Kodi simukumva bwino mu chigamu cha shopu la kugonana, kapena pafupifupi wamaliseche? Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti mukuyenera kudzipangira nokha pazinthu zomwe mumazikonda bwino, zoperekedwa monga mphatso kuchokera kwa agogo anga. Ndi bwino kutenga chovala cha usiku, kapena zovala zapansi, zomwe zidzabisala zolephera. Iwo adzatsindika ubwino wonse wokhala ndi chidwi ndi mnzanuyo. Wogonana naye adaganizira zosonyeza chidwi? Wogonana naye ndibwino kuti asonyeze zofuna zabwino, ngakhale kuti palibe zabwino.
Chakudya chimabwera ndi kudya.
Pali amayi achichepere omwe amanyazidwa ndi thupi lamaliseche, osatetezedwa, koma samasiya kumvetsera zovuta zawo panthawi yopitilira kugonana. Polola kuti mnzanuyo akhudze ziwalo zawo za thupi, ena onsewo sakhala ofunika. Munthu wokondedwa sayenera kudandaula ngati akufuna kugonana ndi wokondedwa wake. Poyambirira, mwachiwonekere, sakufuna, koma chisangalalo chikhoza kubwera mwadzidzidzi. Kusangalala, kuyembekezera chikondi popanda zovuta, komanso zoletsedwa, zingakhale zosavuta ngati mutadzipereka nokha monga momwe zimakhalira ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kuwona kuti ndikusowa chidaliro, zidzakhala zophweka kwa wokondedwa kuti athe kupereka zosangalatsa zomwe mukufuna.
Ntchito yogwirizana.
Amuna, mwa njira, amatha kukhala ndi mavuto a thupi. Patapita nthawi, "otsogolera" a amuna ndi akazi onse amasintha. Amuna amavutika chifukwa cha mabotolo, kapena khungu lake limapachika. Chifukwa chabwino chingatengedwe pa ntchito zonse ziwiri zokhudzana ndi kugonana, moyo wapamtima. Zakudya, kapena thupi, ndi mgwirizano, zidzakuthandizira kuthetsa zolakwitsa zowonjezera, komanso kulola thupi kuchepetsa, kusintha khungu kukhala lokhazikika komanso zotanuka. Maphunziro a masewera, kuthamanga, kapena maulendo akunja ndizo zabwino zomwe zimathandiza kulimbikitsa maubwenzi. Izi ndi zomveka, chifukwa mwapeza chifukwa chofanana!
Chisokonezo pa kama sichiyenera kuchitika mu chigonjetso cha okondedwa omwe amakondana. Yesani, momwe mungathere, musangokumbukira za kusokonezeka kwa moyo wanu. Kuda nkhawa kwambiri pa nthawi ina. Mwachitsanzo, ndi chani chomwe chingakupatseni, kapena momwe mungakoperezereni kachiwiri mwamuna wanu wokondedwa.