Zaka zonse zapitazi ndi mkazi ali ndi metamorphoses, amakhala mtsogoleri kuntchito, m'moyo komanso mwachiyanjano. Amuna amasandulika kwathunthu kumbali inayo. Tsopano, nthawi zambiri timamva serenades pansi pa khonde, kuvomereza chikondi komanso osawona zamisala. Koma ndi chiyani chomwe chatsalira - akazi? Tiyenera kutenga zoyamba mmanja mwathu.
Chidziwitso chokongola kwambiri cha chikondi kwa munthu wokondedwa chikhoza kukhazikitsidwa ndi iyemwini. Pali njira zambiri zonena za chikondi chanu. Zimadziwika kuti mkazi amakonda makutu, koma anthu amayembekezera zochita zina kwa amayi. Choncho, kuvomereza chikondi popanda kutsimikiziridwa mwazochita sizingamupangitse munthu kumverera kulikonse. Kumbukirani, munthu amakonda maso poyamba.
Ngati mutasankha kugonjetsa mwamuna wanu wokondedwa ndi kuvomereza chikondi, ndiye pitirirani. Madzulo. Makandulo. Gome lokhala ndi mbale. Koma kumbukirani, muyenera kuphika zomwe muli nazo. Ngati mutumikira mbale yowonongeka, ntchito yanu yonse idzapita "ndi mchira" ndipo chakudya chamadzulo chidzawonongedwa molondola. Inde, ndizochepa kwambiri, koma kwenikweni, pambali pa maso, munthuyo ali ndi mimba, ndipo mwina mukukumbukira mawu achiwiri akuti "njira yopita kumtima wa munthu imakhala m'mimba". Ndipo izi ziridi choncho. Koma musadwale, mwinamwake mutadya chakudya chamadzulo inu ndi wokondedwa wanu simudzakhala ndi china chilichonse choti muchite, monga kugwa pa bedi ndikuwonera TV, ndipo mukukwaniritsa zosiyana.
Mwamuna mwachilengedwe ndi wokonda komanso amakonda utsogoleri, si chinsinsi. Yesetsani kukwaniritsa chilakolako chake. Pewani naye masewera omwe amakonda kwambiri, mwachitsanzo mabilididi, ngakhale ngati ndinu wotsutsa - wotsutsa kwa iye ndikumuuza yemwe ali wamphamvu komanso woyenera. Kuchita manyazi monyenga sikokwanira, koma ndi njira yogonjetsa.
Mwamuna wanu amakonda kuyankhula mwachilungamo ndipo sakonda kuyenda "kuzungulira chitsamba"? Ndiye chidziwitso chokongola kwambiri cha chikondi kwa munthu wokondedwa, inde, ndipo, mwinamwake, chopambana, chidzamuuza iye pamphumi kuti iye ndi munthu wamtengo wapatali kwambiri pa dziko, kuti chikondi chako pa iye sichimangokhala, ndipo iwe ukuyembekeza kuchokera kwa iye pa malingaliro omwewo.
Mwachikondi mulibe malamulo omwe amafunika kutsatiridwa, monga palibe zoletsedwa. Zodziwika bwino kwambiri zikhoza kukhala zophweka ndi zosavuta, koma zomwe zidzakumbukiridwa ndi wokondedwa wanu pa moyo, zomwe adzakumbukire kufikira ukalamba. Ndipo aloleni amunawo ali ndi khalidwe lamphamvu, akusamba amakhala osatetezeka, kotero chidziwitso chanu cha chikondi sichidzasiya mwamuna wanu wokondedwa. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kunena zoona, osakokera (ndipo ife-akazi nthawi zina timakonda kuchita izi), khalani nokha. Mwamuna wanu adzakuyamikirani zambiri ngati ndinu munthu wamba wokwanira, kuposa momwe mungamuthandizire tsiku lililonse. Zakachitika kuti munthu amafunika kukhazikika ndi mtendere mnyumba. Ndipo Mlengi wa mtendere ndiwe.
Ngati ndinu wophika, bwanji osapereka umboni kwa munthu wokondedwa wanu monga kake, mkate kapena "zina"? Amuna, monga wina aliyense, amakonda maswiti, ena enanso, osachepera. Koma, ndikukutsimikizirani, kuti mudutse mwadzidzidzi kwa munthu yekhayo padziko lapansi (ndiko, kwa iye, wokonda), palibe amene angathe!
Osalingalira mokwanira? Lankhulani ndi kampani kuti mupange maholide. Pakali pano pali akatswiri okwanira! Kumeneku mukhoza kuperekanso mabuloni, serenades, ndi kuyenda pa chirichonse, mpaka mabuloni, ndi zakudya zamakono komanso ulendo wopita kukaperekedwera osachepera zana. Koma, ndikuwoneka kuti zidzakhala zokondweretsa kwambiri kuchita zonse ndekha, ndiyeno munthuyo adzalandira zofuna zanu.
Kuvomereza kwa chikondi - nkhani yovuta, kusalekerera chisokonezo ndi kuzengereza, ndipo, komabe, mawu akuti "mwamsanga - anthu amachita nthabwala" apa akugwira ntchito yosafunikira. Kuzindikiridwa kulikonse, zochita zilizonse ziyenera kuyang'ana kuti munthu akukhulupirire kuti sakuganiza kuti zonsezi "zimagwedezeka" ndikuchitidwa "mofulumira" kuti amupatse, mwachitsanzo, ndalama za malaya atsopano! Choncho musamafulumire pazochita zanu. Sankhani njira yolankhulira kapena kuvomereza mosamala. Konzani zinthu zonse kumapeto, musamafune kulira misozi chifukwa cha mdima wowonongeka kapena, moipa, ubale woonongeka. Mau abwino ndi abwino kwambiri a chikondi amveka kuchokera kwa inu pamene mumakhulupirira moona mtima zomwe mukunena. Ndiyeno ngakhale mophweka "Ndimakukondani!", Anati kamodzi, koma moona mtima - adzamva ngati symphony wachimwemwe. Musaiwale kuti munthu, ndithudi, amakonda maso ndi m'mimba, koma izo sizikutanthauza kuti iye ndi wogontha. Adzamva bodza ndi mtima wake ndipo sadzakukhulupirirani. Ndipafupi kuti musapange zolakwa kusiyana ndi kuwongolera.
Chida chilichonse, valentine, postcard, kalata, mphatso iliyonse yaing'ono idzakhala yamtengo wapatali komanso yokongola kusiyana ndi zomwe mumakonda komanso zokometsera. Nthawi yochepa pamene munthu amakonda kuti adziwitsidwa ku dziko lonse chifukwa cha chikondi chake. Kawirikawiri iwo amajambula. Ndipo osachepera, simungadziwe kuti simungalandire zomwe mukuchita, kotero sikudzakhala zosangalatsa kuti theka la dzikolo lidzaseka pamayesero anu. Ndipo anthu athu ndi achinyengo kwambiri. Ndiye kodi ndi bwino kuchita zomwe mungachite popanda? Ine sindikunena kuti ngati mwamuna wanu amakonda chidwi chotere - musati muchite zimenezo! Ndikulankhula za kuti ngati simukudziwa zenizeni izi, ndi bwino kukana. Ndife akazi, timakonda zozizwitsa komanso zodabwitsa. Amuna pankhaniyi amakhalitsa bwino ndipo, ndikuyenera kuvomereza, mokwanira.
Ngati munthu wanu amakonda zachilengedwe, akuyenda pakiyala, pamisonkhano yozungulira pamoto kapena mtsinje, mumulimbire molimba mtima kupita ku picnic. Koma pikinikiyo iyenera kukhala yeniyeni, yokhala ndi shish kebabs, ndi mowa, ndi zodabwitsa. Mukhoza, mwachitsanzo, kuphunzira nyimbo zingapo za gitala, ngati inu, ndithudi, muli ndi lingaliro laling'ono ponena za chida ichi. Ngati muli mwana mukamwa makutu, simukufunika kuyamba kuimba. Izi mumangopseza munthu. Mwamuna ndi cholengedwa chamanyazi pankhaniyi. Choncho, ngati mwatsimikiza mtima kudzipatulira kumverera kwanu, ganizirani ngati kuli koyenera kachiwiri? Ndipo mwadzidzidzi, iye samvetsa izi ndipo sazitenga? Ndiye inu mudzakhalabe nokha ndi kusweka kwanu kumverera ndi mkwiyo wokwiya, onse pa iye ndi pawekha. Ndipo kumbukirani, maumboni okongola kwambiri a chikondi ndi omwe amalankhulidwa nthawi ndi moona mtima! Ndikukondani komanso chimwemwe!