Pamapeto pake, matendawa sakhala oopsa kwambiri. Cholinga cha HIV sikutanthauza kuti munthu akudwala ndi AIDS. Munthu yemwe ali ndi kachirombo ka HIV akhoza kukwatira ndi kukhala ndi ana abwino. Choncho, vuto lalikulu la HIV ndilolumikizana ndi ena.
Poyanjana ndi anthu omwe ali ndi kachilombo ka HIV, mavuto amalingaliro angagawidwe m'magulu awiri. Mu gawo loyamba padzakhala mavuto a kudzidalira kwa munthu, maganizo ake payekha ndi malo ake atsopano. Poyamba, anthu nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi mavuto aakulu. Iye sakudziwa yemwe angapite kwa iye kuti amuthandize ndi kumuthandizira, iye sakudziwa momwe achibale ake ndi abwenzi angachitire. Panthawi imeneyi, aliyense amene ali ndi HIV ali ndi nkhawa. Mwinamwake, wina wa achibale amadziwa kale matendawa. Pankhaniyi, ayenera kuthandizira, kusonyeza kuti ubale sunasinthe, ndipo munthuyo adakondedwa komanso amamukonda.
Mavuto mu maubwenzi ndi anthu oyandikana nawo amayamba chifukwa cha mavuto a mkati. Kumbali imodzi, munthu akhoza kukhumudwa kapena kupsinjika maganizo. Mavuto a maganizo pa nkhani yokhudzana ndi kachilombo ka HIV ayenera kuchitidwa mosamala pa nthawi yoyamba yowonzanso, pamene munthu sadayambe kuganizapo za malo ake atsopano. Panthawiyi, akhoza kukhala woopsa kwa iye yekha komanso kwa ena. Zomwe zingatheke ponena za kudzipha, kubwezera kwa wolakwa. Muzochitika izi, nthawi zonse muzifunsira kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo. Mwina, kuyankhulana ndi anthu omwe atha kale kugonjetsa mavuto a m'maganizo a nthawi yoyamba ndipo adzatha kugawana nawo zomwe akumana nazo kudzathandiza.
Maganizo a anthu omwe sali pafupi kwambiri komanso osakonda kwenikweni ndi mbali ina ya funsolo. Apa, monga n'zosatheka ndi njira, mawu akuti "Bwenzi amadziwika muvuto" ndi enieni. Inde, matendawa - mtengo wamtengo wapatali kwambiri, kuti mudziwe mtima weniweni kwa ena. Zingamvetsedwe, mwachitsanzo, pochita chinthu china chimene sichikugwirizana ndi zomwe ena akuyembekeza. Choncho zimakhala kuti pambuyo pa chikwati kapena chisudzulo, kusintha kwa malo ogwira ntchito ndi munthu kumangokhala anthu omwe satsutsa malingaliro ake ndipo samayesa kudzipangira okha. Zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni kuti enafe timayamikira maonekedwe awo pamaso pa ena kuti sazindikira m'mene iwo amachitikira maganizo awo. Mwinanso pali matenda ena omwe amadziwa bwino - adzasiya okhawo omwe amakupatsani bwino.
Munthu yemwe ali ndi kachilombo ka HIV ayenera kupeza malo atsopano m'moyo. Chofunika kwambiri kuthetsa mavuto a maganizo ndi kuvomereza udindo wa munthu. Povomereza kufunika kwa moyo wa munthu ndi umunthu wa munthu. Zikhoza kukhala kuti munthu mpaka pano sanazindikire chifukwa chake akukhala, chifukwa chake akuchita izi kapena chinthuchi. Matendawa ndi ovuta, ndipo kuyitanidwa sikungasiyidwe.
Zoonadi, muyenera kusintha malo anu antchito, mwinamwake kusuntha. Koma musabise. Inu mukhoza, ndithudi, kuthawa kwa anthu, koma simungathe kuthawa nokha ndi vuto. Ena akhoza kukhala nkhanza pokhala ndi kachilombo ka HIV, koma nkhanza izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala ndi umbuli. Anthu ambiri omwe anapezeka kuti adalowa mu ntchito yowunikira. Iwo sanawope kulankhula pa televizioni, mu nyuzipepala, pa intaneti ndi kulengeza poyera vuto lawo. Zomwe zinachitika, sikuti aliyense adasokoneza chodabwitsa ichi. Ndi kuzindikira kochulukitsa pakati pa anthu, kumvetsa kukukula. Pambuyo pake, vuto lalikulu la kukanidwa ndi ena ndikuti matendawa amawoneka ngati chizindikiro cha khalidwe losasokonezeka, zolakwitsa, kugwiritsira ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Pamene ena amvetsetsa kuti pafupi ndi iwo muvuto anali munthu wamba, mofanana ndi iwo, kukana kumapereka njira yowomvera.
Mavuto a maganizo m'magwirizano ndi anthu omwe ali ndi kachilombo ka HIV amapezeka osati chifukwa cha maganizo oipa pa matendawa. Mukhoza kukhala ndi moyo woposa moyo umodzi kusintha malingaliro a ena, mwinamwake, ngakhale pokhudzana ndi nkhani yovuta kwambiri. Koma muyenera kuyamba nokha poyamba. Kutsekedwa mu vuto lawo ndi kuvutika maganizo ndi zotsatira za mantha. Munthu amaopa kudzititsidwa manyazi ndi kutsutsidwa. Izi zikuwonetsanso momwe munthu amadalira maganizo a anthu ena kwa iye. N'zotheka kuthana ndi vuto loopsya pokhapokha pozindikira kudzikwanitsa kwa umunthu wanu. Nthawi zina mumayenera kuganiziranso maganizo anu pazinthu zambiri ndipo mumaganizira zambiri. Mmodzi ayenera kukumbukira kuti ngakhale matenda opweteka kwambiri si mapeto a moyo. N'zotheka kuti moyo umangopatsa mpata kuti awone mbali zake zatsopano.