Poyamba, ikani zolinga ndi zolinga zooneka bwino, zomwe ziyenera kusokoneza makompyuta anu akumkati. Kodi simukukhulupirira kuti simudzamupeza kalonga mmodzi pa kavalo woyera? Kotero izo zidzachitika. Ndi zophweka bwanji kuyamba chibwenzi ndi anyamata? Ingosintha maganizo anu enieni. Tengani mwatsatanetsatane mwatsatanetsatane kuti ndinu munthu wokondweretsa komanso wosangalatsa kwambiri kuti simungathe kukomana ndi munthu weniweni ndi wachikondi. Kudzidalira kwanu kokha kudzakhala khadi lanu. Gawo lachiwiri lidzakhala kubwezeretsedwa kwanu kwakunja. Kufuna kalonga, khalani bwino ngati mfumukazi. Mukufuna kumumenya pansi ndi mawonekedwe anu osasunthika. Kuti amukwiyitse mwa kupha mtendere ndi zonsezo. Mukamawoneka mochititsa chidwi kwambiri, mumakhala ndi mwayi wosiya zozizwitsa zomwe simungaiiŵale mumaganizo ake. Musaiwale, anyamata amakonda maso. Kumbukirani kuti kukongola ndi mphamvu yoopsa. Choncho, gwiritsani ntchito njira zake mokwanira. Mulungu mwazifukwa zabwino adatipatsa ife atsikana mphatso yamtengo wapatali, ndipo tifunika kuyamikira ndikutha kusindikiza izi. Mayi ayenera kukhala wokongola muzonse - kukongola kwake, chithumwa ndi kudzikongoletsa ndi chizindikiro chachikulu chomwe chimakopa munthu. Kotero, musati mulepheretse kusamalira kwanu maonekedwe mu ngodya yayitali. Khalani okonzeka kuchoka pamtima wosaiwalika wekha. Choncho, tsitsi lanu ndi maonekedwe anu, ziyenera kukhala mabwenzi anu apamtima, pamene mudzapita "kumsewu wofunafuna munthu." Nkhondo zanu zonse "zopanda pake" zidzakhala zophatikizira zanu zosaiŵalika. Onetsetsani izi ndi chovala choyenera. Mwina mukukumbukira mawu oterewa, pamene amakumana pa zovala, akukutsatirani m'maganizo. Choncho, yesani, kupita kumudzi wokondedwa wanu kuti muvale monga mwa mafashoni atsopano: ovulaza, owala, osakumbukira komanso okongola. Zovala zanu, choyamba, ziyenera kufotokoza dziko lanu lamkati ndi mkhalidwe wa moyo wanu, ndipo pokhapokha mutsimikizire ulemu wa chiwerengero chanu. Mwa njirayo, ngati chakumapeto - ngati muli otsimikiza kuti inu, maloto a podium iliyonse, musabisike. Iwe ndiwe wamng'ono ndi wokongola - amatanthawuza, ndi kuvala molingana ndi izi. Komabe, tsitsi, tsitsi, zodzikongoletsera, mtundu wa varnish komanso ngakhale milomo nthawi zonse ziyenera kukhala zogwirizana ndi zovala zanu. Simukupita mu suti ndi masewera achikondi. Anyamata amakonda atsikana omwe ali ndi kukoma kwabwino ndipo nthawi zonse amatha kugwiritsa ntchito bwino. Ndi maonekedwe anu ndi malingaliro anu, talingalira, tsopano tiyeni tiganizire za kumene ndi kosavuta komanso kosavuta kudziwana ndi anyamata angakhoze kuchitidwa mwakuchita, motero. Kodi mungapite kuti? Yankho la funso ili ndi lophweka - pitani kumene ambiri mwa amunawa. Ngati mumayesetsa kuti mumvetsetse, kupeza munthu, muyenera kuzindikira kuti mnyamatayo angapezeke ngakhale kumalo ake a tsiku ndi tsiku (gulu), mwachitsanzo, sukulu, yunivesite, ntchito. Pano ife tikutchula mapaki, malo ndi ngakhale kuyendetsa. Mwa njira, ngati njira yotsiriza, musayimire, koma ganizirani moyenera momwe mungathere. Anakupatsani inu malo, akuyamika, anapempha kuti mutengere ndalama ku tikiti kapena mutangodya mu kanyumba kanyumba ndipo malo ake sali abwino kuposa anu. Lankhulani naye, muyankhe womuthandizira, mutuwo udzakhalapo nthawi zonse, ndipo mutha kulankhula. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi ndizochitika. Zidzakhalanso zoyenera kuchita nokha, kuyenda kuzungulira midzi kapena paki. Kutukwa kwanu ndi kuyamba koyambitsana koyankhulana kungathe kuchita zambiri.
Komanso mukhoza kuyendera magulu a chidwi, masewero olimbitsa thupi, omwe mulidi gawo loti amayi azikhala olimba. Komabe zingakhale cafesi, masewera, masewera osiyanasiyana. Mwa njira, monga magulu, ndi zophweka komanso kosavuta kudziwana ndi anyamata. Mlengalenga ndimasangalala, odziwa bwino, ndipo motero anyamata nthawi zonse amakhala okonzeka kulankhula ndi mtsikanayo. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kuti simukuyenera kukhudza anyamata ambiri. Ndi bwino kubwezeretsa ndi kutenga nambala zambiri za foni momwe zingathere, ndiyeno mutha kusankha nokha kuti mndandanda umenewo udzakhala wosankhidwa wanu. Mwachidule, pa nthawi yoyamba pachibwenzi sungakhoze kutsegulira kwathunthu, kusonyeza ubwino wawo. Choncho nthawi zonse mumupatse mwayi wachiwiri. Komabe, maonekedwewo nthawi zambiri amanyenga - samatsogolereka pamtengo wokongola, kumbuyo kwake kawirikawiri akhoza kubisala molakwika.
Pa nthawi ya chibwenzi, musazengereze ndipo musamavutike. Khalani otsimikiza, otseguka, okhudzidwa ndi odzidalira nokha, musaganize kuti wina adzatsutsa zochita zanu. Inu munaganiza zopanga sitepe yoyamba - bwanji mukudzidetsa nokha ndi opusa "koma mwadzidzidzi ...". Khalani okondwa, osayiwala za kumwetulira. Onetsani zosangalatsa, anyamata ngati atsikana okongola. Onetsani munthuyo pokambirana kwanu koyamba makhalidwe anu onse abwino. Ndipo pamwamba pa zonse, tsimikizirani kwa iye kuti ndinu munthu wokondweretsa, wanzeru ndi wanzeru. Anyamata samakonda atsikana opusa, omwe, ayi, choti akambirane. Mukhoza kumusangalatsanso ndikusiya malingaliro abwino ponena za inu nokha - mungathe kuganiza kuti zonse zakuthandizani.
Ndipo potsiriza, kumbukirani mfundo yofunika kwambiri, yani yemwe mukufuna kwenikweni kukumana naye. Inde, kalonga pa kavalo woyera ndi ana onse, akukankhira malotowo. Muyenera kumvetsa kuti chithunzi chabwino cha mnyamata amene simukumufuna - zolingalira sizipezekapo. Ndicho chifukwa chake musakwiyitse ngati osankhidwa anu sakugwirizana konse pansi pa chizindikiro cha ungwiro wanu, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mumamvetsetsana, ndipo zina sizingakhale zofunika.