Kawirikawiri zimayambitsa mkangano zimaonekera pamene okwatirana sakulemekeza. Simukuzindikira momwe mukukhumudwira, kukhumudwitsa ndikunyalanyaza kudzidalira kwanu. Komanso, ngati mutayamba kudalira wina ndi mzake, mumayamba kuyendetsa zochita za munthu pafupi ndi inu ndipo mumakhala nsanje nthawi zonse popanda chifukwa.
Nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa mkangano ndi kusowa chikondi pakati pa chibwenzi. Pamene mudayamba chibwenzi, nthawi zonse mumakonda chibwenzi chanu, koma patapita kanthawi zinayamba kutha. Mukuiwala kuti kukopa ndi chiyani, lekani kumanga maso anu kwa mwamuna wanu, samakupatsani chidwi chomwe poyamba. Mutha kuyang'ana maonekedwe anu ndipo simungamvetsere kuti mumapita kunyumba mwinjiro wonyansa.
Aliyense ali ndi malingaliro okhudza moyo wa banja. Ndipo pamene iwe, kulowa m'moyo wa banja, umapeza chisokonezo chenicheni cha zomwe mumayang'ana pa moyo wa banja. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake mumakangana. Komanso kusowa chifundo, kumvetsetsa, kusamalira, zonsezi zimabweretsa mavuto m'banja mwanu.
Komanso, mkangano m'banja ungathe kuchitika chifukwa cha zofuna zomwe abwenziwo amapanga.
Pamene okwatirana amathera nthawi yawo yopanda phindu osangalatsa komanso osasamala, popanda maganizo omveka bwino. Ndipo ngati atenga nthawi yawo yocheza, izi zingachititsenso kukangana m'banja.
Ngati muli ndi mkangano m'banja, yesetsani kuti muthe kutsutsana nawo. Pambuyo pake, mtsutso, uwu ndi ubale wolemekezana wina ndi mzake. Koma mulimonsemo, musapite kumvekedwe kwa munthuyo. Cholinga chachikulu cha mkangano ndizochititsa manyazi mnzanuyo, i.e. kuswa chifuniro chake. Ndipo pakutsutsana kumeneku sipadzakhala wopambana, koma awiri okhawo amakhala otaika. Choncho, muyenera kuphunzira kukangana, osati kutsutsana ndipo mudzawona m'mene mungakhalire moyo wanu wa banja.
Yesetsani kupeŵa kugonjetsedwa. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amatha kudziwa kuti okwatirana omwe ali osakondana amakhala osangalala kwambiri kuposa omwe sakhala chete ndipo samauzana maganizo awo.
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