Masiku ano, nthawi zambiri mumakhala makampani atsopano. Ndipo ndani, ngati si mtsikana wabwino, amadandaula za chibwenzi chomwe chikubwera? Ngati muli mndandanda wa alendo ndipo mukufuna kutengeka bwino, komanso kuti muyandikire kwa anthu, muyenera kuwerenga zina. Chinthu chachikulu kukumbukira kuti ndinu mtsikana ndipo muyenera kukhala ndi ulemu nthawi zonse.
Yang'anani nokha ndi maso a anthu ena
Choyamba, muyenera kuyesetsa kuyesa khalidwe lanu moyenera. Ndibwino kuti muchite izi ngakhale musanafike nthawi yomwe muzindikira kuti pali chinachake cholakwika ndipo ndi nthawi yosintha. Ngati wina mwa anthu atsopano akuwonani inu mu gawo limeneli, ndiye kuti mtima wabwino ukhoza kutchulidwa "chabwino". Chabwino, ziribe kanthu zoopsa, zosasangalatsa, ndi zina zotero, muyenera kudziyang'ana nokha kuchokera kunja ndikuzindikira kuti zolakwa zanu ndizo, posiya kupita kunyoza, kudzikuza ndi kudzidalira. Kenaka dziwani kusintha: zomwe zingakonzedwenso mofulumira-choyamba: bweretsani maonekedwe anu, muwerenge mtundu wina wa zolemba zolemba, lembani mawu ndi mawu oyenera ndi zina zotero. Ndipo zomwe simukuzidziŵa panthawiyi, zingathe kuzisiya pambali. Koma musaiwale za izi ndipo yesetsani kubisala zolakwa zanu, ngati simukulimbana ndi chinachake, musayambe kukambirana zomwe zingakulowetseni kumalo awa: Mwachitsanzo, mulibe kuseketsa ndipo simukudziwa kuseka, koma kenako anasankha kumeta - osati phindu!
Chitani anthu momwe mumawafunira kuti akuchitireni
Chinthu chachiwiri ndizofotokozera pamwambapa. Yesetsani kukhala ndi chidwi ndi chidwi kwa anthu ena. Popanda luso loyenera, nthawi zonse mukumva zovuta kwambiri ndipo mavuto anu onse adzakhudzana ndi mfundoyi. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuphunzira momwe mungalemekezere maganizo a ena kuti anthu alemekeze maganizo anu.
Sungani nokha pakati pa anthu osamvetsetseka - mumasuka. Ngakhale mutabwera ndi abwenzi amodzi kapena awiri, ndipo adatayika pa nthawi yovuta kwambiri ndipo sadziwa momwe angakhalire, gwiritsani ntchito mwayi wawo ndikuwonetsa luso lanu lonse. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuphweka komanso kumasulidwa mwachinsinsi. Kondani kuyankhulana ndipo kudzakukondani.
Kwa mtsikana ndi bwino kudziwana bwino ndi anyamata kapena alongo pogwiritsa ntchito maulendo anzeru. Kulankhulana kulikonse kumapatsidwa talente yolankhulirana, mumangofunika kuti mukhale ndi malire oyenera ndipo amuna onse mu kampani yanu yatsopano ndi yanu. Choncho, werengani mabuku angapo abwino ndikuyankhula pa nkhani zomwe zidzakhala pafupi kwa onse awiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ngakhale anthu omwe ankasemphana nawo omwe sanawerenge mabuku apadera akhoza kuthandizira mutuwo. Mvetserani kuti ndi mabatani ati omwe mukufunikira kuti muwapatse nthawi.
Dziwani mnzako
Mukafika ku kampani yatsopano, ndiye kwa amayiwo mutha kukhala "otsutsana", ndi amuna, nyama yomwe mukufuna. Choncho, kuyambira nthawi yoyamba muyenera kunena kuti ndinu ndani, koma khalani bata. Nthawi zonse muzimvetsera omvera anu ndipo ngati pali chosowa, samvetsani chifundo kapena zosiyana-siyana.
Makhalidwe a akazi
Pansi pa lingaliro la mkazi gizmosmozhno kuganizira zochepa zinthu zomwe zingakupangitseni mulungu wa madzulo ndi bwenzi wabwino mu mtundu wosiyana.
Lamulo loyamba ndi "Kuwonetsera"
Musanapite ku kampani yatsopano, onetsetsani kuti mukukonzekera maganizo anu. Yesani kulingalira kuti mumamva bwino kwa anthu awa. Musamamve chisoni, koma mosiyana ndizo, kuti inu ndi iwo muli ophweka komanso ophweka, poyankhula komanso m'chipinda chomwecho. Tangoganizani kuti mumakhala okondwa ndi anzanu atsopano ndipo amanyamula zovuta. Onetsetsani kuti mwapeza bwenzi kapena munthu wamalingaliro pazowona. Mwachidziwikire, mukhale ndi chidaliro.
Lamulo lachiwiri: "Khalani oyenera mwachibadwa"
Inu munalowa mkati ndipo munalowa umo, ndipo tsopano inu mumalowa mkati. Pano pali-inu mumawona anthu atsopano: abwenzi atsopano ndi abwenzi! Simukusowa kuganizira za amene akuyang'ana kapena amene mumakonda, koma yemwe sali. Kumbukirani, amaganiziranso ngati mumakonda kapena ayi. Kumbukirani kuti muyenera kukhala nokha ndi kusayesa kukondweretsa wina. Inde, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kusonyeza "mwini wake" kuyambira nthawi yoyamba , komanso sikoyenera kukhala okoma bwino - izi zidzasamala ambiri. Ngati wina akumva luso lanu labwino, ndiye kuti mungagwiritse ntchito mwayi wanu phindu lanu.
Ayi. 3 "Fufuzani zabwino mwa munthu aliyense"
Mukamalowa, mukhoza kuyamba kuyang'ana anthu ndi khalidwe lawo mopepuka. Sikofunika kuti nthawi yomweyo tiganizire zolakwa za anthu, m'malo mwake, yang'anani ubwino. Ngati mukuona ulemu, ndiye kuti mutha kulankhulana momasuka ndi munthu uyu mosavuta.
№4 «Pa zabwino»
Lamulo lotereli silikuwonekera, muyenera kulimvetsera, chifukwa limathandiza kwambiri. Chirichonse, monga inu, chiri cha zinthu zabwino zokhazokha komanso kulankhulana bwino, ndipo zoipa zonse zimakanidwa.
№5 «Popularity ndi thandizo la munthu mphamvu ndi kudziwa»
Mvetserani mosamala. Musanayambe kukamba za inu nokha ndipo muzinena zambiri, mvetserani, anthu amawotcha: ndi mawu ati omwe amagwiritsa ntchito, zomwe amanena, zomwe amanena, mau a mtundu wanji, zomwe amalankhulana, zolankhula ndi zina zotero.
Kulankhulana bwinoko kusiyana ndi wanu wothandizira pazinthu zosavuta musasokoneze, makamaka ngati inu nokha mungathe kulimbana ndi chirichonse. Adzakuyamikirani komanso ngati mumalankhula. Khalani odziimira ndipo muli ndi udindo ndipo mudzapambana.
Kukambirana kumathandizidwa bwino ndi mayankho osaneneka kwambiri. Lolani kulankhula kwanu kutembenuzidwe, koma osati ora lachitatu. Zidzakhalanso zovuta kugwiritsa ntchito mayankho a syllable.
Ngati msungwana samasonyeza manyazi komanso amasonyeza chidwi kwa ena payekha, ndiye ichi ndi khalidwe labwino.
Pali zinthu pamene zinthu zonse zikuyenda bwino, kenako kukambirana kumayima. Musakwiyitse, nthawizonse n'zotheka kupeza njira yothetsera vuto, kapena kuti mutu watsopano wa zokambirana. Ngati mukulankhulana kale mutha kupeza zofanana, ndiye kuti mavuto sawuka.
Ngati pali mkangano, khalani chete. Musagonjetsedwe kumverera, mvetserani ku malingaliro anu. Kudzikonda nokha ndi khadi lanu lapamtima mu kampani iliyonse yomwe simukudziwa.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti mupange chisokonezo?
- Poyambirira, mwezi kuti muwerenge ambiri achikatolika a Russia ngati n'kotheka.
- Penyani nkhaniyi, dziwani zochitika zonse, dziwani za nkhani zamasewero zofunikira: mpira, volleyball, bokosi, kusambira ndi ena.
- Kumvetsetsa nsomba, kusaka, magalimoto. Sikoyenera kukhala Ass, koma kawirikawiri ndikofunikira.
- Tsatirani zochitikazi, kotero muli ndi chinachake chokambirana ndi atsikana ena.
- Nthawi yoyamba ndi bwino kuvala sizitsutsa komanso zimakhala zoyenera.
- Dziwani malamulo a khalidwe labwino ndi khalidwe mdziko. Mwachitsanzo, mumapita ku zisudzo, ndipo malo ambiri atha kale ndipo muyenera kudutsa ndi anthu angapo kuti mufike kumalo anu. Pankhaniyi, yang'anizani kuti mukhale pansi, kuti musawapweteke, komanso kuti musakhumudwitse.
Ulamuliro waukulu mwa anthu onse atsopano ndi kutseguka, kudziletsa, kukhala wochenjera komanso kudzidalira.