Kodi amuna amakhumudwa bwanji ndi akazi?

Pali zinthu m'makhalidwe a amayi omwe amakhumudwitsa kwambiri amuna. Ngakhale izi, ife timakhalabe kwa iwo theka labwino la umunthu, koma kuchitira nkhanza amuna kuleza mtima sikuli koyenera. Chowoneka cha mkazi chifukwa cha izi kapena khalidwe limenelo kumatsogolera chikhalidwe cholimba mwa iyemwini. Kuti musadzutse "chirombo" ndibwino kukumbukira zinthu zochepa zimene simuyenera kuchita.

Mercantile.

Ngakhale mutakhala ndi umbombo mumtima, ndipo mumakumana ndi munthu chifukwa cha ndalama zake, musati muwonetsere ayi. Ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu chomwe chimaponyera kwambiri. Sikofunikira pachiyambi cha chiyanjano chanu kukonzekera kufunsa mafunso, komwe amagwira ntchito ndi omwe amagwira ntchito, komanso, mochuluka kwambiri, momwe amalandira. Inu simungathe kuwona munthu kachiwiri.

Amuna ngati akazi odziimira. Iwo amasangalala kupanga mphatso zamtengo wapatali, podziwa kuti inunso mumatha kudzipezera nokha. Ndipo iye adzatha kupereka zosangalatsa zazing'ono, ndikumverera ngati munthu weniweni wamphamvu!

Miseche.

Amuna samakonda kwambiri pamene mayi abwereza mabodza onse omwe anamva kuntchito, mumsewu wapansi panthaka, akuphunzira kwa abwenzi ake. Kulankhula za moyo wa wina ndizovuta. Chizoloŵezi chokhalira "chitonzo" cha anthu ena chidzazindikiridwa ndi munthu ngati kusowa kwa moyo waumwini komanso kuti mulibenso china chochita. Mukhoza kukhutitsa chikondi cha miseche ndi anzanu, amayi ndi wina aliyense, koma osati munthu!

Kusathandiza.

Amuna amakonda akazi amphamvu, odziimira komanso odalirika. Ngati nthawizonse "mumalira" kwa wotsutsa za mavuto awo, ndiye kuti, mosakayikira, adzapulumuka pa mwayi woyamba. Palibe amene akufuna kutenga udindo wawo komanso moyo wa wina. Anthu ena satha kuthetsa ntchito zosavuta: komwe angagwiritse ntchito tsiku, zovala, zomwe mungagule ndi zina zotero.

Khalani odziimira komanso olimba mtima, koma panthawi yomweyi, tiyeni timve mwamunayo kuti ndinu mkazi wofooka, yemwe amafuna chitetezo chake, thandizo lake ndipo nthawi zina amuthandize.

Kumvera.

Palibe choipa kuposa kupweteka. Amuna owonetsa nthawi zonse, ndemanga zowonjezereka, kutsutsidwa kwa chirichonse ndi chirichonse mwamsanga kumatsogolera amuna kuchokera mwa iwo okha. Sizosadabwitsa ngati mukunena kuti "Chabwino, ndiwe wobereka!" Mu adiresi yanu. Dzipangeni nokha ndipo zonse zidzakuyenderani!

Kusayamika.

Zikomo nthawi zonse chifukwa cha mphatso, zothandizira, madzulo abwino, chifukwa chomwe zilili ndi zina zotero. Pamene tikutamanda kwambiri munthu, timamangiriza kwambiri payekha. Kunyengerera pang'ono mwachinyengo sikunapweteke aliyense.

Amuna sakonda pamene zochita zawo zonse zimawoneka ngati zenizeni. Anataya nthawi yake, ndipo anayesetsa kwambiri kuti akukondweretseni. Ndipo iwe, mwatseka chitseko patsogolo pake. Phunzirani kuyankhula kumamangiriza ndi kumutamanda.

Nsanje.

Amuna ndi mitala mwachilengedwe. Musamamvetse ngati mnzanu akuyang'ana ena. Ichi ndi chikumbumtima, ndipo sizikutanthauza kuti simuli naye chidwi. Chilengedwe chiri monga choncho. Osakonza mafunso, kumene adakonzekera dzulo, chifukwa chiyani sanatchedwe kuti "Olya" mu foni yake.

Amuna samakonda kukhala achisoni, makamaka popanda chifukwa. Kukayikira kosagwirizane mungamukhumudwitse ndikumukankhira kutali.

Zakale.

Kumbukirani: musamuuze konse za chikondi cham'mbuyo! Musamulinganitse ndi mwamuna yemwe kale anali chibwenzi, ngakhale ngati kuyerekezera kuli bwino. Amuna amakonda pamene ali okhawo. Mfundo yomwe mumakonda kukumana nayo ndi munthu wina, kuti wina akupsompsone, adagwedezeka, kukukumbatira ndi kumanong'onongeka m'makutu anu asanakagone, palokha ndi zosasangalatsa kwa munthu. Nkhani zamakedzana zimathira mafuta mumoto. Kulankhula za maubwenzi akale, mungathe kunena mau ochepa chabe. Izi zikwanira.

Hysterical.

Amanyazi ndi anthu osasamala sakondedwa ndi aliyense, kuphatikizapo amuna. Ngati mumapanga zamatsenga ndi zapansi, nthawi zambiri mumasintha maganizo anu, ndikofunika kuthetsa vutoli. Mungayambe kumwa mowa kapena kumatchula kuti odwala matendawa.

Kusamvana.

Amuna samawakonda pamene akazi amalankhula zambiri. Kulankhula kopanda pake kwina kulikonse kumakhumudwitsa kwambiri kugonana. Ndiroleni ndikuwuzeni mnzanga za nkhani zake, zochitika. Mulole iye akugawane nanu za ntchito, za tsogolo ndi zina zotero. Phunzirani kumvetsera. Amuna amayamikira izi kwambiri!

Whining.

Nthawi zonse kudandaula za momwe zinthu zilili zoipa, kuti palibe chimene sungathe kuchita, ukhoza kutsogolera aliyense, ngakhale munthu wodwala kwambiri.

Kukhala mkazi weniweni ndi ntchito yovuta, koma mukhoza kuchita!