Ndipo ngati zili choncho, ndiye kuti funso likutuluka momwe mungapewe nsanje ndi kusakhulupirika, chifukwa, monga mukudziwa, thupi la munthu liri lofooka. Ndipo tonsefe tiribe uchimo. Ndipo muzochitika izi, uphungu wakale umabwera populumutsa, ngati simungathe kusintha mkhalidwewo, sintha maganizo anu. Ngati tigwiritsira ntchito mwambi uwu kwa ife, tingakulimbikitseni kuti muyese ubale.
Choyamba, muyenera kuyesa kuti mupeze mgwirizano wotseguka. Kuchokera kumbaliko kungawoneke kuti aliyense amagona ndi yemwe akufuna komanso pamene akufuna, koma zoona zake zonse ndi zovuta komanso zochepa. Pambuyo pa zonse, ngakhale zili zovuta zokhudzana ndi ubale wawo, ufulu wawo umakhala ndi malamulo komanso malamulo awo. Choyamba, ndiko kulemekeza ufulu umenewo wina ndi mnzake, koma muyenera kukumbukira kuti mumakondana, ndipo ntchito yanu sikuti mugone ndi anthu ambiri, koma kuti mukhale ogwirizana. Kuchokera pa izi zikutsatira kuti zisankho zokhudzana ndi ubale uyenera kutenga pamodzi, ndipo zonsezi ziyenera kukhala zokonzeka.
Chachiwiri, ngakhale kuti mumaloleza wina ndi mzake kukhala paubwenzi ndi munthu wina, pamene mukuyenera kukhala pachiyanjano choyamba. Ndipo ngati ndi zofunika kwa wina wa inu kuti muli pafupi nthawi ino, muyenera kukhala pamenepo ndikuyika okondedwa onse pambali.
Chachitatu, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti simungaloledwa kukumana ndi wina aliyense, komanso mnzanuyo. Ndiye ganizirani ngati mungathe kupita.
Kotero, titatha kuzindikira kuti maubwenzi aufulu amakhalanso ndi malamulo, tiyeni tiyang'ane ndikuyesa, kuyeza komanso kusagwirizana. Kodi ndi momwe mukufotokozera? Choncho, choyamba ganizirani zabwino.
Kuwonjezera 1. Palibe zoletsedwa, palibe chotsutsana.
Monga Chibuddha chimatiphunzitsa ife, chisangalalo cha munthu kuchokera ku zilakolako zosadziwika. Buddhism yeniyeni imatiphunzitsa, imachotseratu zilakolako, timaperekanso, kuchotseratu zoletsedwa zomwe zimalepheretsa kukhazikitsidwa kwa zikhumbo. Ngati mumakopeka ndi munthu, koma mumamvetsetsa kuti izi ndizomwe zimapangitsa kuti thupi lanu likhale labwino komanso kuti simukumvera, komanso kuti simungapite nawo limodzi. Mu chitsanzo chokhazikika cha khalidwe lokhalira limodzi, zokopa zoterezi zingayambitse mavuto aakulu mu ubale ndi wokondedwa. Mu ubale waulere, mungathe kugonana popanda kudzipereka ndi munthu amene mumakonda, ndipo izi sizidzadandaula ndi mavuto.
Kuwonjezera 2. nthawi zonse zatsopano.
Monga momwe chiwonetsero chimasonyezera, maanja nthawi zambiri amatha kuchoka ku mfundo yakuti zibwenzi zimakhala zotsutsana wina ndi mzake m'mawu ake. Ndipo moyo wawo wa kugonana suwatsutsana nawo konse. Mu maubwenzi ogwirizana, izi nthawi zonse zimabweretsa mavuto, osati nthawi zambiri misozi. Mu ubale waulere, vuto ili limathetsedwa mosavuta, kugonana pang'ono kumbali kumabweretsa mtsinje watsopano komanso moyo wanu wapamtima.
Mphindi 1. Magulu a anthu.
Ngati munagwirizana pachibwenzi, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ndithudi mu malo anu pali wina amene angatenge lingaliro limeneli molakwika. Ndipo ndi zabwino ngati ndi amodzi kapena awiri apamtima. Ndipo ngati ali makolo kapena abwenzi apamtima, komanso ngakhale oyandikana nawo pakubwera kwake, mudzafunanso kuganizira ngati kuli koyenera, chifukwa chosasangalatsa pakhomo ndikuganiza kuti mukuyenda. Inde, mukhoza kubisala kapena kulavulira maganizo a anthu, koma nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta komanso zosasangalatsa.
Minus 2. Mpata wotaya wokondedwa.
Ndipotu, monga timvetsetsa, mu ubale waulere, sikuti tili ndi ufulu, "kumanzere," koma okondedwa athu. Choncho, nthawi zonse timakhala ndi chiopsezo kuti ife tokha timakankhira m'manja mwa scatterer. Choncho, musanayambe kugwirizana, muyenera kuganizira mozama ngati mwakonzeka. Monga momwe timamvetsetsa, pachibwenzi, tilibe ufulu, kumanzere. Moyenera. mabwenzi apamtima. moyo.