Koma kawirikawiri izo zimaphatikizapo ndi zovuta zosiyanasiyana, zomwe sizikhala zotsutsana ngakhale zotsutsana, ndipo zitha kusocheretsa zambiri. Nthawi zina kusakhulupirika kwa mwamuna kungabweretsere mkazi wake kuvuto, kapena mavuto ena akuluakulu a dongosolo la manjenje.
Pali malingaliro ambiri amalingaliro, momwe mungakhalire m'banja lomwe muli ndi wotsutsa, kapena momwe mungapulumutsire kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna. Kuti mupewe zotsatira, nkofunikira kupeza mphamvu kuti muchite masitepe angapo omwe angakuthandizeni kudalira kusakhulupirika mosavuta.
Kotero tiyeni tiyambe.
Maganizo anu.
Kawirikawiri, maganizo athu osasinthika amakhala olakwa pa zochita zathu zonse, kapena mosiyana, pamene timakhalabe mwaife tokha, ndipo nthawi zambiri timakumbukira zomwe zinachitika popanda kupereka maganizo.
Mukakhala ndi maganizo owonjezeka, muyenera kudzipereka nokha. Ngati mukufuna kufuula - kufuula, ngati mutathyola chinachake - kugunda. Kusiyana kwakukulu kwa mawonedwe a mtima ndiko kulenga, mungathe kulembera ndakatulo, kujambula zithunzi, kujambula, kujambula, ndikupanga zonse zomwe zingakuthandizeni kutaya zochitika zanu zonse. Mukhozanso kugwiritsa ntchito "kalata yopanda ponse". Ambiri amakonda kulemba popanda kuletsa zilonda zonse, ndiyeno sawerenga kuti awotche, kuwang'amba kapena kutaya zolembedwa.
Osati mawonetseredwe a maganizo kuphatikizapo matenda a maganizo angakhale ndi zotsatira za thupi. Choncho, nkhawa yamantha nthawi zonse ingakhale chifukwa cha chitukuko cha zilonda, matenda a mtima, matenda a msana ndi zinthu zina zambiri. Kotero, mu zovuta zoterezi, musazengereze kukwaniritsa zomwe moyo wanu ukufuna. Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kubwezera kukhumudwa kwanu, mkwiyo ndi misempha kwa ana ndi achibale. Mulimonse - palibe malamulo, ndi makadi omwe muli m'manja mwanu.
Pambuyo pazochitika zotero mungathe kuganizira mozama za zomwe zikuchitika, yesetsani kumvetsetsa, ndi kudzipangira nokha ziganizo zofunika zokhuza momwe mungakhalire m'banja lomwe muli ndi wotsutsa.
Kutalikirana.
Pamene malingaliro apeza njira yotulukira, ndipo mantha oyamba anali kudzipangira nokha malingaliro, zomwe mungathe kuzipirira posiyana ndi zochitikazo. Mwinamwake, nkofunikira kudzipatula nokha kwa mwamuna wake, osati malingaliro chabe. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti musamangokhalira kukumbukira nthawi zonse ndikumakumbukira, komanso malingaliro oipa. Kuchita izi ndi zofunika mpaka zinthu sizidzataya mphamvu pa iwe. Ingokumbukirani mfundo yakuti mwamuna sali chinthu chokha m'moyo wanu. Onetsetsani kuntchito, zokondweretsa, ngati mulibe chilakolako, ndiye tsopano nthawi yomwe muyenera kukhala nayo, monga momwe muli ndi anzanu, achibale komanso mwina ana. Ndikhulupirire, ngati mutayamba kumvetsera zonsezi, posachedwa kukwaniritsidwa kwa mkwiyo kumasiya kukupangitsani inu kukhala ndi maganizo apadera, ndipo mutha kukambirana momasuka ndi mnzanuyo ndi kusankhapo.
Kufufuza.
Ngati simunakonzekere kukambirana momveka bwino, ndiye kuti mumayenera kumvetsetsa nokha. Tsopano ndi nthawi yomwe ili nthawi. Fufuzani moyo wanu, muyese zolemera zonse ndi zowonongeka, komanso kuyang'anitsitsa bwino chiyanjano chanu ndi mwamuna wake chingakhale chodziimira komanso mothandizidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chiwonongeko chimakhalanso ndi khalidwe losiyana, ndipo zingakhale mwangozi. Kwa munthu, kuopsezedwa kuwonetseredwa, ndi lingaliro la kuthetsa ukwati kungakhalenso kupanikizika pang'ono. Choncho, musanaweruze chilichonse pazokhulupirika zanu ndi chisoni chanu pa omwe mwakhala zaka zanu zabwino kwambiri, dziwani izi. Kawirikawiri chifukwa chachikulu chosiyira mwamuna "kumanzere" ndi kusowa chikondi, kutentha ndi chidwi m'banja. Mwina ndiwe amene munamuuza mwamuna wake kuti atengepo kanthu. Cholinga cha kusanthula ndikupita kudera lachisangalalo ndikukonzekera kukambirana ndi mwamuna. Ndikofunika kuti maganizo anu alankhule, osati maganizo.
Gome la zokambirana.
Musanayambe kuyankhulana ndi mwamuna wanu, bwerezani nokha kuti simukusowa kokha kulankhula, komanso kumvetsera, komanso kumva zonse zomwe zidzanenedwa ndi wotsutsa. Kubwereranso kwa ubale wakale m'banja ndi wolakwira, ndondomekoyo ndi yochuluka komanso yowonjezera nthawi, choncho ndikofunikira kuti mudziwe ngati muli okonzeka kugwira ntchitoyi. Ngati ndi kotheka, khalani ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. Kawirikawiri, pambuyo pa kulankhulana kotero, okwatirana amadziwa kuti, poyerekezera ndi momwe adayendera, chiwembu ndi chinthu chochepa kwambiri. Mungathe kuganiziranso zochitika ngati filimu. Ndiponsotu, ngati nkhani yaikulu ndi yabwino, kuwombera kosapindulitsa sikungasokoneze maganizo anu. Pambuyo pokambirana momasuka, pali mwayi wopitilira, kukhala m'banja lomwe muli ndi munthu wosakhulupirika, pamene mukuchita khama. Ngati kumvetsetsa sikukwaniritsidwa, ndipo mwatsimikiza kuthetsa chiyanjano chanu, chitani modzichepetsa ndi mwanzeru. Ngati izo zikusiyana, ndi bwino kufalitsa mtendere, popanda zopanda pake zosafunikira ndi mikangano. Pambuyo pake, pambali iyi, moyo wanu sukhalitsa, ndipo njira yabwino ili patsogolo.
Mobwerezabwereza.
Ngati kusakhulupirika kwakhululukidwa, banja limodzi ndi wopandukirayo liyenera kuyamba kukhalapo kuyambira pachiyambi. Pitirizani kuyanjana bwino pang'onopang'ono, popanda kupanga zida zamphamvu, ndi kusaiwala chifukwa chake mukuchitira izo. Gwiritsani ntchito siteji yatsopano ya ubale wakale, muyenera kutero, ndikupatsani ndondomeko yofanana. Musagwire ntchito yochitidwa nkhanza, ndipo nthawi zonse mukakumbutse mwamuna wanu amene anakhumudwitsa. Pezani mphamvu, ngati musayiwale, ndiye musangokumbukira zomwe zinachitika.
Kukhazikitsidwa kwa malamulo amenewa kudzakuthandizani kuti mupitirize kukhala pamodzi, ngakhale kuti mukuperekedwa. Bweretsani mtundu wakale ndi zokopa, ndikukonzenso zolakwa zonse zomwe mwakhala mukuchita. Pambuyo pake, banja silitha kuchitika, limodzi ndilo kulakwitsa, nthawi zonse zifukwa zikuluzikulu zimakhudza onse awiri. Ndipo kumbukirani - kukonda ndiko kumvetsa. Popanda kumvetsetsa, ubale sungangokhazikitsidwe mwatsopano, koma umangosungidwa. Ngati malingaliro anu ali enieni, mudzatha kulimbana ndi mayesero onse okonzedweratu.