Moyo ukusintha
Posakhalitsa atsikana ambiri amakwatira. Pambuyo pa kulowa mu moyo wanu, wokondedwa amakhala ndi zofuna zatsopano za banja. Mu bwalo la anzanu abwenzi anu ndi atsikana awo adawonjezeredwa. Mukupanga maulendo a chilimwe mu kayaks. Fry shish kebabs m'nkhalango yozizira yosasinthika ndi chisanu ndi mulu waung'onoting'ono. Limbikitsani kumakampani omwe mumawakonda kwambiri - mu kampani yosasamala ndi yosangalatsa komanso yokondweretsa - onse awiri, awiri ndi amphamvu.
Ndipo apa inu mukuyembekezera mwanayo - kusintha kwatsopano, kuyembekezera ndi mosayembekezeka pa nthawi yomweyo. Nkhawa ndi kukaikira, kusintha kwa ubwino ndi thupi, zolepheretsa zachibadwa za kulingalira ndi zokayikitsa zachikhalidwe. Zonsezi zimabweretsa kusintha kwina mu nthawi yoyamba yopangira chiyanjano ndi bwalo lolankhulana. Kuvina mpaka m'mawa mumagulu odzaza utsi, okondwa kwambiri pa rink ndi zosangalatsa zina zosangalatsa tsopano akuthawa kwa kanthawi.
Inu simungakumane nawo mochuluka, mu moyo wa mabwenzi akale a pachifuwa, zochitika zikuchitika, zomwe simusakhalenso phwando. Kudzidalira kwanu kumakhumudwitsidwa, amakhumudwa ndi kukayikira kwanu ndi kukhudzidwa kwambiri. Kukubwera kuzizira kosayembekezereka pazochitika zoterezi. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Momwe mungasungire zakale ndi kupeza anzanu abwino atsopano kuti amvetsereni ndi theka-mawu? Ziphuphu mu mndandanda waubwenzi wokhazikika, chifukwa cha kusintha kwa kanthaŵi kochepa mu umoyo, zofuna ndi mwayi, mantha, kukhumudwa ndi kufuna kubwezeretsedwa. Kusintha kulikonse kumudzi komweko sikungathe koma kumvetsa chisoni.
Ndipo pachabe. Musakwiyitse ndipo potsiriza muike malire okondedwa anu kamodzi pamtima. Izi sizidzatha nthawi yaitali. Ambiri omwe kale anali abwenzi anu, pokhala nawo ofanana, adzamvetsera mwatsatanetsatane malangizo anu. Adzabwerera kachiwiri, koma ndi amuna awo ndi ana awo. Pakalipano, ndi bwino kuyang'ana zokhudzana ndi zosinthika pazoyankhulana - abwenzi atsopano, omwe, monga momwe akudziwira, samachitika zambiri.
Kodi ndingapeze kuti anzanga ndi anzanga?
Mabwenzi ndi mabwenzi angapezeke kulikonse kumene mupita. Ndipo njira zanu zasintha. Kotero, tsopano muli pa nthawi, inu mukuyamba, mukufunsana kwa amayi. Malo atsopano. Pano iwe umakhala kamodzi pachaka kwa kafukufuku wa zamankhwala ndipo sunakhale motalika. Tsopano chirichonse chiri chosiyana. Simukumva kuti muli ndi chidaliro chachikulu, yang'anani pa makoma oti "kusokonezeka maganizo" kwa mchitidwe wina wojambula ndi kuyembekezera nthawi zosangalatsa zowunika. Siyani njira zosasangalatsa nthawi yawo. Yang'anani pozungulira. Samalani ndi anzako - muzithunzi za chibwenzi zimamangiriridwa pa mosamvetsetsana. Nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi nthawi yopita kunyumba, koma mabwenzi omwe akudziwa akufunika kuti awoneke. Ndipo chifukwa cha zokondweretsa, ndi chifukwa cha "kusinthanitsa nzeru", ndi kuwathandiza pa makhalidwe, ndi kungosokoneza. Mwinamwake, nkhani zambiri poyamba zikuwoneka ngati zochepa makamaka m'nkhani zamankhwala. Chochita, iwe kuchipatala. Koma izi ndizo poyamba. Phunzirani wina ndi mzake pang'ono (ndipo mudzayenera kukumana kangapo), mudzapeza mitu ina ndi zosankha zoyankhulana. Mwachitsanzo, mu chipinda chodyera chapafupipafupi kuti mupange tiyi.
Timapitirira. Ali kuti? Inde, ku sitolo. Malingana ndi ambiri, kutenga mimba ndi kubereka kwa mwana wam'tsogolo ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri wogula zinthu zokoma. Tchulani maadiresi a masitolo apadera ndi mahoitere apafupi kuti mudziwe komwe mungatulutse. Ndipo_pitirirani! Pano mudzathandizidwa ndi anzanu akale, ndi atsopano. Ndipo m'masitolo mudzapezadi akazi abwino kwambiri. Pakati pawo padzakhala zotheka kukambirana osati zowonjezera zokhazokha zovala zachilimwe zatsopano kapenanso kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa bandage ya firm firm. Ndani adanena kuti kugula sikokusangalatsa, ngati mukuyandikira, mwachidwi ndi kampani yabwino?
Nthawi yambiri yodziwa anzanu idzakupatsani kuyenda koyenda usiku. Ngati kale zoyendayenda zanu zinkangokhala pabwino ndikuyenda ndi wosewera m'makutu ndi ulendo wamsika, tsopano mukuyenda mofulumira madzulo. Yang'anani mosamala kwa oyendayenda pabwalo, paki. Osati kokha kwa iwo omwe ali nawo ofanana, koma kwa amayi omwe ali ndi ana aang'ono, amayi okondeka akale pa mabenchi. Kuwonekera kwa kumvetsetsana kwachikondi, mawu ochepa ochepa oyenera kuti ayambe kumvetsetsa kolemetsa. Ngati chidziwitso chatsopano chikuwoneka ngati chosafunikira, mukhoza kusintha nthawi ndi nthawi. Kuti mudziwe bwino anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi inu mumalingaliro, mukhoza kulikonse.
Intaneti ikukuthandizani
Palinso kulankhulana kwachangu pa intaneti. Musalole kuti mukacheze anthu apadera, komabe zozizwitsa zomwe zimakambidwa ndizo. Khalani ololera, kudziyesera nokha kapena wina wotchuka pa lingaliro la anthu pa intaneti. Sakatulani malo ena otchuka. Chotsatira pa zotsatira zazomwe mwasanthulazo komanso mutadziwa zoyenera za iwo omwe anafufuza maganizo atsopano, yesetsani kuganiza. Tengani mfundo zambiri zomwe zimakuyenderani bwino, komanso nokha - monga munthu wapadera komanso wodalirika.
Samalani osati malo okha a amayi oyembekezera. Komanso pagululi pamitu yokhudza maganizo a banja kapena banja. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zokondweretsa kulankhula ndi omwe ali ndi inu "m'boti lomwelo." Kodi sizosangalatsa "kusamba miyala" pamodzi ndi apongozi anga? Kapena kuti mukambirane zomwe mungachite kuti muzisunga, kusinthana mapepala ndi zolemba zong'onong'ono, kuti muthandizane? Ndipo, pokhala ndi chidwi chokambirana pamsonkhano wapadziko lonse pano kapena nkhaniyi, musaiwale za midzi ya mzinda wanu. Kuyankhulana ndi dziko lalikulu ndi kokondweretsa komanso kulangiza. Koma ndibwino nthawi zina kutuluka mu "Webusaiti Yonse" ndikukumana "mumoyo weniweni" ndi anzanga atsopano.
Musamangidwe!
Musaiwale za zofuna ndi zokopa zam'mbuyomu, za kukulitsa msinkhu wa ma qualification. Onani nkhani zazikulu ndi nkhani zotsalira pa nkhani zomwe mukuzifuna kale. Mwinamwake, kutangoyamba kwa nthawi yobereka ndi nthawi yovuta pa kuchoka kwa makolo, zochitika zonse zam'mbuyomu zikuwoneka ngati zopanda ntchito ndi kutali. Khulupirirani, komatu, kuti izi siziri choncho. Ndipo nthawi imatha msanga. Ndipo kusintha kuchokera ku mtundu wina wa ntchito kupita kumalo kumathandizira kuti asokonezedwe ndi nkhawa zosafunikira zomwe ambiri a ife timachita nthawi ino. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kudzidzimangira nokha mu phunziro la ana, muli ndi chimwemwe ndi kudzidalira ndi manja anu omwe mumapanga "khola" limene mudzayesa kuthawa.
Kodi ndizofunika kuti mukhale ndi moyo wosamala? Kumbukirani za zokondweretsa zomwe nthawi zonse sizinali ndi nthawi yokalamba. Gwiritsani ntchito kusintha kwa moyo wanu ndikupanga maloto akale kuti akwaniritsidwe. Osachepera pa msinkhu wokonzera chidziwitso chokhudza ntchito ya maloto anu, kaya akukoka ndi ng'anjo, kusewera gitala kapena kuthetsa vutoli. Mfundo sizowonjezera, koma podzipulumutsa tokha. Ndipo izi zimathandizidwa kwambiri poyankhulana ndi anthu okondana omwe ali pafupi ndi inu mu ntchito yawo. Mu moyo mulibe zinthu zodabwitsa zambiri, ndipo kutenga mimba kumalimbikitsa moyo wanu. Kodi kuli koyenera kugwiritsa ntchito ngati chifukwa chovomerezera flamayi yachikhalidwe ndi chizoloŵezi chosiya chirichonse chabwino m'moyo "kwa mtsogolo"? Ndipo, monga mukudziwa, zosangalatsa zatsopano ndi abwenzi atsopano.
Musadalire mwayi wamuyaya. Amzanga sitingapeze nthawi zambiri nthawi iliyonse ya moyo ndipo timafunikira nthawi zonse. Zotheka ndi zovuta ndi zokhumudwitsidwa, komanso kupezeka kwa mphatso zodabwitsa mwa mawonekedwe a kulankhulana kosawerengeka ndi anthu amalingaliro. Ndi bwino kuyesa kukhala ndi ubale wolimba ndi anzanu akale. Mu moyo padzakhala kusintha kwambiri. Ndipo mabwenzi enieni amakhalabe ngati mumawasamalira pang'ono. Mwina simumasankhidwa kawirikawiri pamodzi pa concert ya rock kapena picnic. Komabe, mukhoza kuitanira abwenzi anu madzulo kuti tiye kapena tiyi yapadera malinga ndi choyambiriracho. Yang'anani filimu yatsopanoyi, mukasonkhane kuwonetsero watsopano, zomwe mwazimva, ndikuyankhulana momasuka.
Mutu wapadera ndi momwe mungasunge mabwenzi anu, omwe ali okondedwa kwa inu, koma pakali pano, kapena ayi, sadzapeza ana? Samalani! Musamapangitse abwenzi omwe alibe ana omwe akukuthandizani masiku ano. Mafunso awa mudzakambirana mndandanda wina. Funsani zokhazo zomwe bwenzi lanu ali nazo komanso zomwe munagwirizanitsa kale. Mufunseni za mavuto ndi zokondweretsa. Koma musalole kudzifunsa nokha mafunso monga: "Chabwino, ndipo liti?" Ndipo ndemanga zomwezo. Ndizomveka kuti chilakolako chanu kwa chibwenzi chake chiri chodzaza ndi chimwemwe monga inu. Koma malingaliro anu pa chisangalalo sikuti nthawi zonse amafunika kuti mupirire. Simungakhoze kukana, ndipo inu mukuitanidwa, "mwachitidwa"? Modzichepetsa ndi kumwemwetulira kupepesa chifukwa chosadziletsa, pamene mutha kuyima. Tsogolo la bwenzi ndi bizinesi yake, ndipo mulibe ufulu womuuza. Koma mnzanu ayenera kupatsidwa kuti azindikire zosayenera za mau a mzimu: "Chabwino, nchifukwa ninji mudachifuna?". Kulemekezana ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera ubwenzi mu nthawi iliyonse ya moyo.
Ngati mkhalidwe wa thanzi sungakupangitseni mavuto apadera, pitirizani njira yopezera moyo mu kampani yamba. Ngati chibwenzi chomwecho sichibweretsa chimwemwe cha kuyankhulana - musadandaule! Ngati muyesa, mudzapezanso anzanu abwino ndi anthu ambiri omwe mumadziwana nawo. Kusunga anzanu achikulire ndikudziwana ndi atsopano, moyo wanu udzakhala wolemera kwambiri ndi chisangalalo komanso kulankhulana kwabwino kwa anthu.