Kupyolera mu Galasi Yoyang'ana

Kodi munayamba mwawonapo chithunzi chotere: pali atsikana awiri, omwe amodzi ndiwopindulitsa kwenikweni. Komanso, zikuwonekeratu kuti ndi ndani komanso amene ali pachiyambi, ndi ndani - ndizobodza chabe. Mtsikana wina amakhala momasuka, amaganiza ndi kuchita momasuka, wachiwiri - amatsanzira ndi khama, ndikumvetsa chisoni. Mu psychology pali mawu otere - chifundo. Kumvera chisoni kumakhala kochititsa chidwi, anthu ozindikira omwe amatha kukhala magalasi omwe anthu ena amatha kuchita, maluso, zochita, malingaliro awo. Bwanji ngati mukuchita galasila? Kodi mungachotse bwanji chikhulupiliro chimenechi?


Pezani kusiyana kwakukulu.
Choyamba, muyenera kuvomereza kuti simuli ake, ziribe kanthu kukongola kwake. Chitsanzo chotsanzira chidzakhala nthawizonse kutali. Kodi tsogolo la munthu amene ali ndi chidziwitso cha wina - ndizo zonse zomwe mumayenera?
Atsikana ambiri amaganiza kuti: "Sindine wokongola, osati wochenjera, osati wopambana, ndilibe chithumwa, miyendo - miketi." Inde, koma payenera kukhala chinachake chomwe fano alibe.
Ndi bwino kuti muziyang'anitsitsa nokha ndi kuyang'ana zosiyana zomwe mumayankhula.
Mwachitsanzo, pa iwo nthawizonse amamvetsera, ndipo pa inu - mochuluka kwambiri. Inde, koma simukusowa kupeza mgwirizano nthawi zambiri, mumasokonezeka ndi mayina, masiku, mafoni. Ndipo sizowona kuti oimira oyipa kwambiri a kugonana "amakugwedezani."
Fufuzani zopindulitsa mwa inu nokha. Mwinamwake muli ndi luso lambili ndi luso limene mukufunikira kulipanga kuti liwonekere.

Pitani mosiyana.
Yesetsani kukhala osiyana ndi bwenzi lanu. Inu ndi-anthu osiyana, koma, popeza ndinu abwenzi, ndiye kuti muli ndi chinthu chofanana. "Chinthu" ichi chikuwoneka kale, choncho ntchito yanu ndiyiyikitsani kusiyana. Sankhani kavalidwe kosiyana, sintha khalidwe lanu, musaope kuti muwonetse kukoma kwanu ndi zizoloŵezi zanu.
Ngakhale mutakhala ndi chidwi chofanana ndi chirichonse, osati kuti zinthu, zizoloŵezi, amuna ndi ofanana ndi inu.

Sinthani maudindo.
Izi zikusonyeza kuti mpaka pano inu munali mtsogoleri mu ubale wanu. Mwa ichi palibe choopsa, zimachitika. Anthu ambiri amakhala moyo wawo pazitsulo zachiwiri ndipo izi sizisonyezo za otaika. Koma mu chiyanjano, pamene mukujambula ena mwachindunji, ndibwino kusintha zinthu zofunika. Mulole mtsikana wanu akhalebe wabwino mwa zomwe anali nazo mpaka tsopano. Yesetsani kuti musamayesedwe ndikukhala ndi zinthu zoposa zokonda zake.
Ngati mutadziwonetsera nokha, mudzalola kuti muchite chinthu china, kupatula chomwe chimakumangitsani, muli ndi mwayi wopambana. Kupambana kopereka kudzidalira, ndi munthu wodzidalira - uwu ndi umunthu wodziimira, womwe suyenera kukhala wolemba woipa chabe.

Zochita zoopsa.
Zili choncho kuti, ngakhale kuyesayesa konse, sikutheka kuthetsa kudalira koteroko. Kapena mnzanuyo, poona kuti mukuchoka pansi pa chikoka chake, ayamba kusonyeza ntchito zodabwitsa kuti asunge pafupi popanda kusintha.
Konzekerani izi. Ngati chibwenzi chikutsutsana ndi inu kuyesera chinthu chatsopano, adziwonetsera yekha kuti mungachite bwino kuposa iye, ngati avomereza mawu otukwana, akunyoza pa adiresi yanu, amaganiza, koma muli ndi abwenzi? Kodi mumasowa munthu woterewa?
Nthawi zina ndibwino kuthetsa maubwenzi onse nthawi imodzi, kuchoka ku chikoka chotero ndi kuyamba moyo watsopano wozunguliridwa ndi anthu atsopano.

Kawirikawiri, kudzipatula pazinthu nthawi zonse kumakhala kovulaza, kaya ndi ntchito, munthu, malingaliro, malingaliro. Moyo ukhoza kupereka zambiri ngati muyang'ana zosiyana zake zonse ndi maso otseguka. Muyenera nthawi zonse kukhala ndi mwayi komanso mwayi woyerekeza, koma pokhapokha mutha kupeza mfundo zolondola ndikumasuka ku zochitika zina za anthu ena.