Nthawi imasintha anthu osati anthu okha, komanso anthu, nthawi yambiri imakhudza komanso kugonana pakati pa awiri. Kumbukirani 2001: kodi alipo aliyense amene angaganize kuti a Hollywood Brad Pee ndi Jennifer Aniston adagawana kwathunthu ndi osasintha? Ndipo Liam Gallagher wa Oasis wotsutsana kwambiri ndi wojambula zithunzi Nicole Appleton adakali pamodzi? Ambiri aife, timayesayesa tsiku ndi tsiku kuti tiwone bwino chiyanjano chawo ndi chibwenzi kuti tidziwe: koma kodi tidzakhala osangalala pamodzi? Koma kafukufukuyu amachokera pa zinthu zooneka bwino monga: kodi amalemekeza malingaliro athu, ali okonzeka kuthandizira pa nthawi yovuta, kaya amakonda kukonda agogo athu ndipo akufuna kukhala ndi ana. Koma sitidziwa zomwe zili zobisika, ndipo zitha kukhala ndi gawo lalikulu pa tsogolo lathu. Inde, tikuwoneratu kuti ukwati, kubadwa kwa ana ndi ntchito idzasintha kusintha kwa mphamvu m'banja lathu laling'ono. Komabe, izi sizidzakhudza.
Zowonongeka ndi adrenalineKodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Gwirani mwamphamvu! Zaka khumi zapitazi moyo wanu udzakhala wozungulira. Ndipo izi ndi zomwe mukufuna nonse: aliyense wa inu amakhulupirira adrenaline pamwamba pa bata. M'malo mosiya ndi kuyamba kuthetsa mavuto, mumasankha njira yothetsera mavuto: aloleni kuti azidzivutitsa okha, kapena ... Ndi bwino kutentha kusiyana ndi kuwombera - Mawu a Kurt Cobain amagwiritsidwa ntchito mwachikondi.
Chifukwa chiyani inu mudzakhala limodzi? Mudzakhala wotanganidwa kwambiri ndi zochitika zazing'ono: kupita kuchigwa cha phirili. Kuthetsa mkangano, kuima pamphepete mwa phirili, kumangapo, kuima pamphepete mwa phirili, kugonana pabwalo lachitetezo ... Ngati kupatula kudalira adrenaline mumagwirizananso ndi chikondi, kupsa mtima sikungathe kutha. Ndipotu, chilakolako chanu chokangana chidzakhala chikhumbo chachikulu choyanjanitsa.
Nchifukwa chiani mungathe kuphwanya? Ngati chinachake chomwe chimabisika ndi chilakolako champhamvu, chosalimba, ubale wanu uli pangozi. Mavuto omwe simudzawasamalira adzabwerera mobwerezabwereza. Ndipo chiyeso chachikulu kwambiri ndi nthawi yomwe mmodzi wa inu, atakula, adzakulira, wodwalayo adzafunabe kusangalala.
Kodi mungasunge bwanji chikondi chanu? Poyambirira mumayankhula zinthu zovuta, bwino. Aliyense wa inu alembe mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe simungathe kuziganizira. Onetsani miyezo ya moyo - ana, ukwati, mapulani a ntchito. Khalani owona mtima, musati muziganiza mozama. Ndiye yerekezerani makalata anu. Inde, lingaliro la ana ndi mavuto omwe akukhudzana nawo lingasokoneze maganizo. Koma ngati mukufuna kukhala moyo wanu ndi mwamuna uyu, muyenera kuphunzira kuti mutseguka.
Maganizo ndi malingaliro
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Pumulani, zaka 10 zotsatirazi mu kampani zidzamuyika munthu uyu bwino. Choyamba, ubale wanu ndi maziko olimba kwambiri: mumatha kukambirana ndi kukambirana, musawope kukambirana nkhani zazikulu. Chachiwiri, pakati panu palibe mpikisano ndi chikhumbo chowonetsa wina kuti ali bwino, ndipo ndi zabwino basi.
Chifukwa chiyani inu mudzakhala limodzi? Thandizani kuwona mtima ndi kuona zinthu moyenera: mumayang'anitsitsa mavuto omwe angatheke, choncho sangakuchititseni chidwi. Kuwonjezera apo, mafupa a fosholo mumalowa, monga maanja ambiri amakonda kuchita - osati njira yanu.
Nchifukwa chiani mungathe kuphwanya? Chilakolako chanu chokonzekera chingapangitse kumverera kuti moyo wapambana, kuti palibe chinthu chodabwitsa chimene mungachite, ndipo chifukwa chake, inu kapena mnzanuyo mungapandukire kusemphana maganizo.
Kodi mungasunge bwanji chikondi chanu? Mudzadabwa, koma ... muyenera kuphunzira kukangana kwa kanthawi. Chitani chinachake mwachangu, chitani popanda zopanda pake, ndipo zinthu zina siziyenera kuyankhulidwa (payenera kukhala chinsinsi mwa mkazi). Kumbukirani kuti anthu awiri sangathe (ndipo sangawononge) miyoyo yawo yonse pamlendo - zosayembekezereka zomwe sizingakwaniritsidwe kwa mnzanuyo sizidzakukhumudwitsani. Ndipo phunzirani kukhala wodzichepetsa kwa inu nokha. Inu nonse mukuzoloŵera kupeza zomwe mukufuna, ndipo mgwirizano wanu ndizo zomwe munkafuna nthawizonse. Zonse mwa inu ndizolemekezeka kwambiri, ndipo izi ndizo zomwe zimakupangitsani inu kuyesetsa kuti banja lanu "lozizira" lichitike.
Nchifukwa chiani mungathe kuphwanya? Mumatha kuganiza za zolakwa zambiri. Koma siwe genie wochokera mu botolo osati mulungu wamulungu, kotero mmalo mobwereza nokha: "Sindilola mavuto aakulu", nenani izi: "Ngati mavuto awoneka, tidzathetsa mavutowa."
Kupaka ndi mphamvu
Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Kuwala, kupambana, ndinu wanzeru ndipo mumodzi, koma palimodzi ndinu mphamvu imene palibe zopinga. Ndipo ngakhale mmodzi wa inu atagonjetsa mzake, samasula vutolo kwachiwiri.
Chifukwa chiyani inu mudzakhala limodzi? Anthu awiri amphamvu kwambiri - ndi okongola, koma ovuta. Mmodzi wa inu tsiku lina adzatopa kwambiri powonetsa zina kuti nayenso samasula nsalu, zomwe angaganize: kodi sitiyenera kupeza mnzanu wothandizana naye m'moyo? Palinso ngozi yoti ngati wokondedwayo atenga chilichonse chimene akufuna.
Kodi mungasunge bwanji chikondi chanu? Muyenera kukhala gulu: phunzirani kuvomereza, kuimilirana pa phiri, ngati kuli koyenera, musawone panthawi yomweyo, koma panthawiyo. Ndipo kumbukirani kuti ndinu mkazi - zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mukufuna kutetezedwa, kuthandizidwa, nthawi zina mumamuuza munthuyo zachindunji. Phunzirani kusonyeza kufooka, musayesere kukhala mkazi wachitsulo. Simukufuna zaka khumi kenako kuzindikira kuti wokondedwa wanu wasokoneza chikondi ndi kuyamikira? Ngati mutha kuchotsa chigoba cha wopambana, mudzawona kuti simukukondedwa chifukwa cha zomwe mukuchita, koma zomwe muli.