Tsiku la okondedwa onse ndi chizindikiro cha mtima weniweni, chikondi ndi chisamaliro. Patsikuli, okwatirana okonzekera akukonzekera pasadakhale, kupanga ndi manja awo enieni okongola, olemba ndakatulo zachikondi komanso ochita mantha kwambiri poganiza pulogalamu ya chikondi chamadzulo. Ndithudi mumadziwa kuti tsiku la Valentine likukondwerera, koma nthano yachisoni ya holideyo siinamveke. Ngati simukudziwa bwino liwu lachikondwerero kwambiri la chaka, onetsetsani kuti mukukumbukira tsiku limene likugwira ntchito pa kalendala, kuti musaiwale kusangalatsa anthu okondedwa ndi mphatso zosadabwitsa ndi zodabwitsa.
Kodi tsiku la Valentine likukondwerera liti ndipo kodi mwambo umenewu unachokera kuti?
Chaka ndi chaka m'mayiko ambiri padziko lonse lapansi amakondwerera holide ya okondedwa onse pa February 14, koma m'madera ena, chifukwa cha zifukwa zachipembedzo, Tsiku la Valentine likuletsedwa kusangalala. Mwachitsanzo, ku Saudi Arabia chifukwa chophwanya oletsedwa omwe akutsutsana ndi katundu wawo.
Kumapeto kwa sabata lachiwiri la mwezi wa February, Tchalitchi cha Katolika chimalemekeza Saint Valentine, Martyr Wamkulu, amene Kalaudiyo Wachiŵiri anam'patsa chilango cha imfa. Mfumu ya Roma inali ndi lingaliro lakuti amuna okwatira angakhale akukana kulowa nawo gulu lankhondo ndi kumenyera wolamulira wawo, ndipo chotero anapereka lamulo loletsa oimira amphamvu kuti azikwatirana. Wansembe, mmalo mwake, adasamalira bwino kulengedwa kwa banja - iye ankakonda okwatirana mwachinsinsi, zomwe analipira.
Ndizosatsimikizirika ngati nkhaniyi ili yoona. Koma zoona zake ndizo: Lero la tchuthi la okondedwa onse limakondwerera m'mayiko ambiri padziko lapansi. Ili ndilo tsiku limene mungathe kufotokoza momveka bwino malingaliro anu mothandizidwa ndi kuwonetsera kokoma, kosafunika. Komanso pa February 14 mukhoza kuthokoza abwenzi Valikov omwe amatchulidwa masiku. Pa tsiku ili ndi tsiku la Valentine.
Mphatso zachikhalidwe za tsiku la Valentine
Kuwonjezera pa maluwa ndi maswiti, chinthu chofunika kwambiri, kuwonetsera tchuthi pa February 14, ndi khadi labwino mu mawonekedwe a mtima, wotchedwa valentine. Chiwerengero cha mauthenga ake a mapepala otchuka afika m'zaka za zana la 18, ndipo wolenga "mtima" woyamba akuonedwa kuti ndi mphukira wa ku France, yemwe analemba za mauthenga achikondi kwa mkazi wake.
Kukongola kwa holide ndikuti sikofunikira kupereka mphatso yamtengo wapatali kwa wokondedwa. Onetsetsani kuti khadi lamtengo wapatali kapena khadi lopangidwa ndi manja lidzakhala loposa mtengo wanu wa magawo makumi awiri, osati mphatso ya banki yochokera ku sitolo.
Kuphatikiza pa okondwerera patsikuli palinso otsutsa ake amphamvu, omwe amatcha chikondwerero "chachikunja", opindulitsa kokha kwa mabungwe amalonda: mafakitale a chokoleti, masitolo ogulitsa maluwa, eni ake ogulitsa chakudya (kutsindika). Anthu okhala ku Kazakhstan ndipo nthawi zonse amaganizira kuti zochita za sukulu zomwe zimaperekedwa ku chikondwererochi, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti achinyamata azigonana.
Pa February 14, mutha kuchiza mosiyana, koma ambiri a m'banja komanso achikondi omwe sali okondana sangakumbukire tsiku lina la chaka kuti azikondana. Pa holide imeneyi, kudziwidwa mwachikondi sikuwoneka ngati nkhani, komabe ngati chisonyezero chenicheni cha chikondi. Ngati simunadziwepo kale, tsiku la Valentine, ndi nthawi yoganizira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito tchuthi chaka chino.