Monga mukudziwira, maubwenzi onse kumayambiriro awo ali okhudzidwa ndi malingaliro, malingaliro, chidwi ndi chisangalalo. Pa gawo loyambalo, aliyense ali wokondwa ndipo amangofuna kukhala ndi wina ndi mnzake. Ndipo palibe mavuto konse - amakumbukira tsiku lanu lobadwa, maitanidwe, pafupifupi ola liri lonse, ndipo tsiku lililonse limakhala ndi chibwenzi. Mwa kuyankhula kwina: palibe madandaulo wina ndi mzake ndipo zonse zikupitirira, "monga ma clockwork." Koma m'kupita kwanthawi zosatheka kuchitika zingatheke, ndipo mudzayang'ana wokondedwa wanu mosiyana. Ndipo zonse chifukwa chakuti iye wasintha, ndipo maganizo ake atha. Nthaŵi zoterezi, amuna amayamba kuitana kawirikawiri, ndipo zimatsimikiziranso izi ndi kusowa nthawi kapena kutopa kuntchito. Ngati mukuyesera kuti mudziwe zomwe zikuchitika, mwamunayo nthawi zambiri amatha "kumenyana" ndipo mawonekedwe amanjenje amakufotokozerani kuti alibe nthawi ngakhale iye mwini, osatchulidwa. Mwa njira, kukutsutsani za kusamvetsetsa ndi chonde, koma kukambirana za mavuto anu kapena zomwe zimamuvutitsa kwenikweni si "bizinesi ya munthu". Chimene munganene, monga mukudziwa, mwamuna yemwe amakonda, nthawi zonse amafuna kulankhula ndi mkazi wake wokondedwa za "chinsinsi" chake ndi chowawa. Koma, ngati watenga yekha, pali mwayi wonse kuti maganizo ake athazikika. Zomwe mungachite ngati kumverera kwa munthu kwazirala ndi momwe mungakhalire pa vuto ili kwa mkazi?
Choyamba, sikofunika kuti tipeze ziganizo zapadera zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zopusa komanso zowonongeka m'moyo. Yesetsani kupeza mphindi yoyenera ndikuyankhulana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Mwa njira, pa zokambirana simukusowa kukanikiza wokondedwa wanu ndi kuyesa kupeza yankho lochokera kwa iye pa funso limene mwafunsidwa. Kumbukirani kuti amuna samazikonda pamene aphwanyidwa, kotero simungathe kukwaniritsa chilichonse mwa kufuula ndi chifuwa. Mukakhala kuti munthu amapewa kulankhulana ndipo sakukulankhulani, lekani kudzipanikiza. Amuna nthawi zonse amathawa akazi omwe amayesa "kukakamiza" kuti adzipangitse okha. Khalani odzikuza ndipo mudzidziwe nokha mtengo. Ganizirani za kuti munthu uyu si "woyamba komanso wosatha" m'moyo wanu komanso mochuluka kwambiri padziko lapansi. Choncho manyazi ndi kupempherera kukambirana - sizochita bizinesi ya amayi. Ndipo, ngati amapewa kukambirana, mpatseni nthawi. Mulole iye akhale pakhomo pakhomo, kulingalira, kumvetsetsa yekha ndi kumverera kwake, ndiyeno ayang'ane ndipo adzatuluka "kumalo ake" akumudziwa momveka bwino. Pumphani - iyi ndi njira yowonjezera yodzimvetsetsera nokha, kumbukirani zochitika zam'mbuyomu, ndipo zomwe simukuzidziwa, zimakhala zovuta.
Mwa njira, pamene munthu akuganiza za "kukhala kapena kuti asakhale," simusowa kupachika chithunzi cha mkazi wosungulumwa komanso wosasangalala panthawi ino. Yesetsani kutsogolera moyo wanu wamba. Ntchito, abwenzi, zokondweretsa zomwe mumazikonda ndizo zonse zomwe zingakuthandizeni kusokoneza kumverera kosasangalatsa kwa "kuyembekezera." Kuphatikizanso, chibwenzi chanu, mwadzidzidzi, muzikhala ndi chidwi ndi momwe mumakhalira panthawi ya "bata la ubale wanu". Ndipo mutaphunzira za momwe mumakhalira bwino pambali zonse ndi zochita, makamaka pakati pa anyamata ena, izi zimamumenya. Musaiwale kuti nthawi zina malingaliro a munthu akhoza kubwezeretsedwa, amamukakamiza kukhala ndi nsanje komanso chilakolako chokumenyerani nkhondo. Mpatseni mwayi umenewu, ndipo zotsatira zake sizidzatenga nthawi yaitali.
Maonekedwe ena ofunikira ndi mawonekedwe anu. Yesani kusinthira mwakuya kwambiri. Pitani ku salon yabwino kwambiri, solarium, makasitomala okwera mtengo ndi kungosangalala ndi chizoloŵezi cha tsiku ndi tsiku. Zingatheke kuti chithunzi chanu chatsopano chidzakupangitsani kumverera mumtima mwa munthu wokhala ndi moto wolimba kwambiri.
Ndipo tsopano mawu ochepa pafoni. Yesetsani kuti mumutchedwe ndipo musavutike ndi mafunso nthawi zonse momwe iyeyo ndi zomwe ziti zidzachitikire. Mukufuna_iye adzayitana! Ngati adayamba kudzidzimva yekha, ndiye kuti zonse zinayenda bwino, ndipo nthawi yake yovuta kwambiri pamoyo wake inadutsa. Koma chofunikacho chiyenera kumachokera kwa iye. Choncho, sikoyenera kuti muthamange msanga ndikufulumira. Muitaneni kuti akakomane nawo kumalo ena osalowerera ndale kapena, mwachitsanzo, paki pomwe mudakhala mutagwira dzanja lanu ndikuyang'ana kumwamba. Malo otere amatha kuthetsa kukayikira konse, ngati iwo, ndithudi, akhala ndi bamboyo ndikumukankhira pafupi.
Ndipo chinthu chotsiriza, ngati maganizo a munthu wanu akukhazikika kwa iwe chifukwa anali ndi mkazi wina pamutu pake, ndipo amangokhala wosokonezeka ndipo sakudziwa yemwe ayenera kukhala naye. Malangizo athu: thawirani kuchokera kwa munthu wotere komwe muli kutali ndipo musaganize za "koma mwadzidzidzi adzakusankha ...". Ndi chinthu chimodzi ngati mnyamata amadziwa chimene akufunadi pamoyo, ndipo winayo, pamene akuvutika ndipo sangachite kusankha. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, uyu si mwamuna. Ndi chitsimikiziro chotani kuti m'kupita kwanthawi, ngakhale atabweranso kwa inu, maganizo ake sadzataya tanthauzo lake chifukwa cha mkazi watsopano. Choncho zindikirani, amayi okondedwa.
Kujambula mzere pansi pa zonsezi, ndikufuna ndikuuzeni kuti kuti mumve kuti mulibe mphamvu komanso osatentha, nthawi zonse yesetsani kuchitirana chidwi kwambiri, musamaope kusintha, kuyesera komanso nthawi zonse kuti mutchule mawu okhudza chikondi. Pokhapokha pokhapokha pali chitsimikizo chokwanira kuti pakati panu "simungathe" kuthamanga, ndipo mudzasunga maganizo anu kwa zaka zambiri. Chikondi ndi kukondedwa, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kumayamikira mwamuna wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu adzayankha chimodzimodzi, kukupangani kukhala munthu wokondwa kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi. Mbuye wabwino kwa inu!