Koma, ziribe kanthu momwe mumakhalira ndi chidaliro chokhudza momwe mumamvera, kusaganizira kwa nthawi yaitali kungakhudze mkhalidwe wonse wa chiyanjano, ndipo kumapangitsa kudziona ngati kosafunika pamaso pa mnzanuyo. Chifukwa cha izi, nthawi zambiri m'banja mumakhala mikangano ndi mikangano, okwatirana amasankha kuchita zionetsero, ndipo mwachidule, kamodzi kokha ndi moyo wowala, amakhala amvi ndi osasamala.
Choncho musaiwale za maonekedwe anu, ndikudziwa momwe mungasonyezere chikondi kwa mwamuna wanu, ngakhale mutakhala pamodzi kwa nthawi ndithu.
Si zophweka kufotokoza zachilendo kukhala mgwirizano, chifukwa simungapeze chinachake chimene simunayese. Koma ngakhale ndi luntha lalikulu, pali zosankha, ndipo palibe ochepa mwa iwo. Ndipo kotero, ife timayamba kuchita.
Timaganizira za maganizo.
Ndikoyenera kukumbukira chinthu chimodzi chimene amuna akuyenera kunyengedwa, nthawi zonse komanso popanda kuima. Ndipo mungathe kuchita izi mwa njira iliyonse, koma malingaliro anu adzakhala chinthu choyenera pazochita zanu zonse. Njira yosavuta komanso yodalirika yoti mudziwe za chikondi chanu ndi kungoyankhula za izo. Kuyankhula mophweka mawu atatu akuti "ndimakukonda" ndi kophweka, makamaka ngati kumverera kukuwonekera. Mukamachita zimenezi, samalani momwe mumalankhulira, tanthauzo lanu, mawonekedwe a nkhope ndi manja muyenera kutsimikizira zomwe zanenedwa, ndipo musakane. Ndikhulupirireni, patatha zaka zambiri zomwe mutero ku kuvomereza kwanu kuchokera kwa mwamuna wanu zidzakhala zofanana ndi pamisonkhano yoyamba. Sonyezani chikondi kwa mwamuna wake, ingomvetserani izi - njira yabwino kwambiri, yomwe ingakhale yododometsedwa kuti ndi "yopusa, koma yabwino."
Timakumbukira makalata.
Ambiri aife tinapezanso nthawi yomwe njira yaikulu yolankhulirana inali makalata ndi malo otsetsereka. Inde, ndi mndandanda wamakumbukiro a mkazi aliyense, ndithudi pali kalata imodzi yachikondi, kapena cholembera chaching'ono. Inde, kulembera makalata kwa munthu yemwe ali pafupi, palibe nzeru, koma zolemba zing'onozing'ono zingathe kukhala chida chanu chinsinsi. Gwiritsani ntchito pamene mukufuna kulankhula chinachake kapena kusiya pempho, popanda kuiwala kulemba chinachake chofatsa ndi chosangalatsa. Amayi ambiri amatsutsa kuti zolemba zoterezi zimakhala zogwira mtima kusiyana ndi kufotokoza kowuma kapena pempho. Komanso, sizingakhale zopanda mwayi kugwiritsa ntchito mwayi wa sayansi ndi zamakono, ndikusankha SMS yanu yokongola kwambiri.
Kumbukirani zomwe foni yapangidwira.
Ndipo foniyo sinapangidwe kokha polumikizana ngati n'kofunikira, komanso pofuna kusonyeza chikondi kwa mwamuna wake. Ndipotu, kawirikawiri zomwe timapeza mu foni yam'manja: malo a omwe timawaitana, nthawi yomwe adzakhala kunyumba, mndandanda wa zofunika, kapena mayankho a mafunso oyenera. Kulankhula ndi amuna, akazi amaiŵala kawirikawiri, chifukwa cha mavuto ambiri a pakhomo, amangopempha momwe zinthu zikuyendera, kusangalala ndi mavuto ndi kutamandidwa kuti apambane. Onetsani chikondi chanu, mutha kuitananso wokondedwa wanu kupuma kwa masana, ngati alola malo a ntchito, kapena kuyenda pamtunda. Nthawi zoterezi ndizoyandikira kwambiri, ngakhale patatha zaka zingapo.
Ndipo mwamuna wanga amakonda ...
Kodi ndizitanthawuza kangati pamene timayankhula ndi abwenzi, ndipo timayika bwanji izi "ndi chikondi changa" mu moyo. Koma ndithudi, njira iyi idzakhala yowona ndi yowona powonetsera chikondi chako. Pewani kukumbukira kwanu, ndipo kumbukirani mndandanda wa zomwe mumawakonda kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, sankhani zinthu zoyenera kwambiri, zomwe nthawizonse zimakhala zosowa, ndikuwonjezera chosowa chaching'ono ichi. Konzani wokondedwa pa mlungu wabwino, pamene amatha kudzipereka kwathunthu ku ntchito yomwe amakonda. Chabwino, ngati mumaganizira zofuna zanu, ndiye kuti sabata imeneyi sichidzakondwera ndi mwamuna wanu, komanso kudzakupatsani chisangalalo chachiwiri.
Thupi likugwira ntchito.
Thupi ndi chida chokongola komanso chokongola kwambiri chomwe tapatsidwa mwachibadwa, bwanji osachigwiritsa ntchito? Makamaka, ngati mutatha zaka zambiri mwaphunzirapo zokwanira munthu wanu, ndipo ndithudi mumadziwa momwe mungam'patsire chisangalalo chokwanira. Komanso, nthawi zoterozo zidzakhala zabwino zokonzanso moyo wanu kukhalapo kwa chikondi, chifukwa chokhala nokha, komanso kudzipangira nokha ndi zovala zatsopano. Ngakhale pambuyo pa tsiku lovuta kwambiri la ntchito, mwamuna wanu sangalephere kukumbatirana mwachikondi, kuphweka mosavuta, ndi kupitirizabe mwachangu. Ndi momwe mungasonyezere chikondi kwa mwamuna wake, bwino kusiyana ndi chilankhulo cha matupi anu? Musazengereze kutenga choyamba, ngati mukufuna kuwonjezera zachilendo kwa moyo wanu wapamtima, kapena tiyeni tichite zimenezo kwa munthu wanu, zotsatira zake zingakhale zosangalatsa kwa inu nonse.
Njira yopita ku mtima wa munthu ...
Inde, inde, iyi ndi njira yomwe ikugona mmimba. Ndi chokoma kudyetsa mwamuna wanu wokondedwa - chimodzi mwa zinthu zoyamba, ntchito zapakhomo za mkazi aliyense. Koma nthawi zina mumatha kudya chakudya chamadzulo. Madzulo oterewa amatha nthawi, kuchitika kofunika kwa inu, kapena kukonzekera mwachidule, popanda chifukwa chapadera. Kukonzekera koteroko kudzakhala kokondweretsa kwa inu, mwayi wokhala ndi malingaliro, monga pokonzekera mbale, ndi kukongoletsa tebulo ndi chipinda. Ngati mwamuna wanu alibe chidwi ndi khitchini (inde, zimachitika), musamupatse mpata woti aziphika nanu, makamaka ngati mndandanda umene mumasankha ukufuna kukhala achangu. Kuphika ndi kudyedwa palimodzi, chakudya chidzakondedwa ndi wokondedwa wanu ngati chidziwitso choona cha chikondi. Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti, mutatha kudya chakudya chokoma, musaiwale .., koma za izi kale mu gawo lotsatira.
Tamandani .
Chinthu chachikulu ndi kusaiwala kutamanda mwamuna wanu ngati adagwira nawo kuphika, kapena akuyeretsa mbale zonyansa. Ndipo ngakhale, musaiwale kutamanda amuna anu, chirichonse chimene iwo akuchita. Ngakhale ngati chinachake sichikuchitidwa momwe inu mungafunire, chimodzimodzi, choyamba kupeza chinachake chothokoza, ndipo pokhapo nenani zina zonse "koma". Mwamuna amene amawona kuti ndi wofunika, wodalirika komanso wapadera, adzakhala wokonzeka kutembenuzira mapiri.
Kondani amuna anu, ndiyeno mudzapeza njira zana ndi imodzi momwe mungasonyezere chikondi.