Momwe mungasinthire moyo wa kugonana m'banja. Ndi zophweka, mukusowa kuganiza pang'ono ndipo mudzapambana. Pang'onopang'ono konzekerani mnzanuyo, mufunseni ngati angakonde zatsopano mu ubale wanu wapamtima. Mukayamba kusewera nawo mochititsa chidwi, zikhoza kukhumudwa ndi khalidwe lanu. Ndipo izo sizikuchitirani inu zabwino, koma kungovulaza izo. Zowonongeka kwambiri mu ubale wa pabanja ndizochita masewero. Iwo anabwera nthawi yathu kuyambira nthawi zakale, mu nthawi ya anthu oyendayenda ndi wamaluwa, magazi olemekezeka a amuna, okondedwa kwambiri ndi azimayi ndi akazi. Ndipo awo okwatirana amakonda plumbers ndi wamaluwa.
Mwamuna yekha ali wopambana, ndipo akufuna kuti agonjetse chirichonse ndi chirichonse. Mpatseni iye mwayi uwu, msiyeni iye ayambe kukugonjetsani inu, ndipo inu mumutsutse iye. Tangoganizirani kuti ndinu msungwana yemwe akufuna kunyengedwa ndi mwamuna. Iye akhoza kukhala mu udindo wa mtsogoleri, ndipo inu mu udindo wa mpainiya. Mwina iye ndi msuweni wanu yemwe adachokera kutali, ndipo ndinu mdzakazi wabwino. Angakhale maso ozizira, ndipo ndiwe mtsikana wodzichepetsa kwambiri amene ali ndi nkhumba. Ngati mukufuna nthano, ndiye kuti akhoza kukhala kalonga, ndipo ndinu Cinderella.
Mukhoza kuchita zosiyana, mutha kuyamba kunyenga mwamuna wanu. Tangoganizani kuti ali ndi gawo la pulogalamu yamakono ndi magalasi otambasula omwe anadza kwa inu kuti mukhale ndi antivayirasi pamakompyuta, ndipo muli ngati kavalidwe kakang'ono m'zovala zowonongeka, mumasitomala, mumakhala pafupi ndi iye ndikuyamba kumunyengerera. Mwina ndinu mphunzitsi, ndipo ndi wophunzira wanu. Kapena njira ina, ndinu bwana, iye ndi wanu wodzichepetsa pansi.
Ndipo tsopano inu muli mu udindo wa mkazi wa ubwino wosavuta, amene amatenga ndalama kwa thupi lake. Tembenuzirani nokha mwapamwamba: nsalu yowala, chovala chofiira, chotsegula. Mudzakwaniritsa malamulo ake onse pabedi, kuti muthe kuwulula zokhumba za mnzanuyo. Mwina munapatsidwa ndalama ndi apolisi apamtunda chifukwa cha kuphwanya malamulo, ndipo mulibe ndalama zoti muthe kulipira. Kotero iwe uyenera kuyamba kunyenga wapolisi wa magalimoto.
Kawirikawiri amayi omwe ali ndi chidziwitso amafuna kukhala ndi mphamvu. Mvetserani manja amphamvu a amuna akukupirirani inu ndi kugonana musanayambe kutsogolo, koma pafupi ndi chibadwa cha nyama. Mwamuna amafunadi kumva udindo umenewu wa munthu yemwe ali ndi nkhawa, ndipo mkazi amamukana. Pachifukwa ichi, chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kusewera, kapena mungathe kudzimva nokha ndipo choonadi ndi chozunzidwa.
Pambuyo pa chisankho chanu chachikulu (Ndikufuna kumvetsera mawu oti "onse") kuti muchite masewero owonetsera, mumakonzekera bwino. Ganizirani za maonekedwe, zamkati, ngati muli ndi ana, ndi bwino kuwatumizira kukachezera agogo anu, choncho zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mutenge nawo mbali. Chotsani mafoni ndi kuuza anzanu onse kuti simungasokonezedwe madzulo ano.
Kotero, mwakonzeka kusankha masewerawo, kuyambitsanso ntchito, samangokonzekeretsa mawu onse pachiyambi, mwinamwake kudzakhala kosangalatsa komanso osasangalatsa, monga mafilimu otsika mtengo, kapena mafilimu achiwerewere achi German. Sinthani nyimbo zabwino, nyani makandulo, mukhoza kudzaza chipinda chokhala ndi zokondweretsa zokondweretsa. Ndipo mukhale ndi madzulo abwino!
Mutha kusewera mozungulira ndi mwamuna wanu mwanjira ina, kubwereka chipinda cha hotelo, kumunyengerera pamenepo mothandizidwa ndi SMS yovuta. Ndipo kumeneko mukamukonzekerere tsiku losaiŵalika, ndipo mukhoza kuchita ngakhale nthawi yamasana, kotero zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri. Sewani gawo lanu mpaka mapeto, osamvetsera maganizo ake okhumudwa ndi mafunso ambiri.
M'tsogolomu masewerawa adzakondweretsani kwambiri. Adzachita zambiri pa moyo wanu wapabanja. Ngakhale mikangano yomwe mungathe kuthetsa mothandizidwa ndi masewerawa ndi masewera ena. Tangoganizirani ngati, pambuyo poyipa, mumakumana ndi mwamuna wanu ndi nkhope ya mtumiki. Chomwe chiri chokonzekera chirichonse, ngati mwiniwakeyo amamukhululukira.
Mverani kwa mwamuna wanu, pamene akufotokoza kuti sakufuna kuchita chirichonse. Ngati akunena kuti watopa ndi kupota ngati gologolo mu gudumu, koma akungofuna kugwa osasuntha. Choncho khalani mkango wamphongo pabedi, ndipo mulole kuti aname ndi kusangalala.
Mwina amagwira ntchito ngati mkulu, ndipo watopa ndi chifaniziro chake cha tsiku ndi tsiku.
"Pansi" iye ali muutumiki, akhale womvera.
Iye anali atatopa ndi zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku mnyumba, kumukonzera iye chipinda cha hotelo mnyumbamo.
Ngati iye ali ndi zovuta kuchokera ku zomwe iwe unali nazo anthu asanakhalepo. Dziyesere kukhala namwali, akunyengeni inu.
Koma chirichonse mu moyo uno chikhoza kuwonongeka, ngakhale nthawi zachikondi zoterozo. Kumbukirani malamulo ochepa kotero kuti izi sizichitika:
- Musadzidzimangirire nokha ndipo musamatsinthane mnzanuyo; - Pezani malingaliro ake pa zosiyana za kugonana kwanu ndi zosangalatsa; - Musamaseke pa masewera osewera; - Musadzitsutse nokha kapena zake; - Khalani opanda pake; - Galamukani mwana, wamphongo komanso nthawi imodzi, wopanda chilema; - Dulani zonse zovuta.