Kwachiwiri munthu wachilendo kwathunthu adakhala bwenzi ndi amodzi. Ziribe kanthu kuti izi siziri mtundu wanu: ngakhale mawonekedwe kapena khalidwe sichita udindo wapadera ...
Kukhalapo kwa chikondi poyamba pakuwona ndi nkhani yotsutsana. Ambiri amakhulupilira kuti mumasekondi ochepa chabe pali chilakolako ndi kukondana, ndi chikondi - chodziwika, choyesa nthawi. Komabe, monga tawonera, palibe okayikira ambiri. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi a Russian-All Center for Study of Public Opinion, 59% a ku Russia amakhulupirira kuti alipo chikondi poyamba, ndipo 45% ali m'chikondi panthaŵiyo. Ambiri mwa zibwenzi pakati pa achinyamata ndi okwatira ndipo, mwachilendo, anthu a zaka zapakati pa 45 ndi 59. Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti chikondi ndi chinthu chimene amai amaganizira nthawi zambiri. Zivomerezani, mafilimu onse, mndandanda, zomwe zimakondweretsedwa ndi kugonana kwabwino, zimachokera ku nkhani zachikondi. Koma, monga zanakhalira, amuna athu achiwawa nthawi zambiri amakhala achikondi, ndipo oposa theka la amayi (52%) amanena kuti sakukumverera. Komabe, kukhalapo kwa chikondi pakuyang'ana koyamba kumadziwika ndi chiwerengero chofanana cha amai ndi abambo.
Izi ndi zathu. Ndipo akuganiza chiyani pa nkhaniyi m'mayiko ena? Odziwika chifukwa cha kulimbika kwawo ndi kulekerera kwawo, a British, omwe amakhulupirira kuti amayi ndi abambo enieni sayenera kusonyeza malingaliro awo, ndithudi, akutsimikiza kuti chikondi poyamba pakuwoneka palibe. Iwo anafufuza mabanja oposa 100 a ku Britain ndipo adalengeza ndi udindo wonse kuti pamisonkhano yoyamba pamakhala chifundo kapena chilakolako. Malingaliro awo, chikondi ndi nthawi ya kuyesedwa ndipo imawoneka kokha pamene okwatirana amadziwana bwino. Izi ziyenera kutenga osachepera chaka. Koma a Chingerezi amatsimikiziranso kuti amuna ali ndi chikondi cholimba komanso chotalika kuposa akazi.
Ndalama yamakono ya ku Amerika nthawi zonse imakondwera ndi mafilimu omwe banja limakondwerera ndi "paradaiso m'nyumba". Zikuwoneka kuti palibe mtundu wachikondi ndi wachikondi. Koma, si chinsinsi kuti dziko la ma cinema ndi dziko lenileni silingakhale lofanana. Komabe Achimereka ndi anthu achi pragmatic, ndipo 51% a iwo ali otsimikiza kuti palibe chikondi poyang'ana poyamba. Amakhulupirira kuti izi n'zotheka, 47%, ndipo amamva zokhazokha 28%. The Washington Post inanena kuti Ammerika, monga ife, amakonda kuganiza kuti chikondi choterocho chiripo, makamaka achikulire - kuyambira zaka 45 mpaka 54. Eya, achinyamata achinyamata osachepera onse amakhulupirira nthawi yomweyo zakumverera kotereku. Koma asayansi m'dziko lino adziwonetsa kuti sayansi imakhalapo poyamba. Ofufuza ku Chicago akutsimikiza kuti masekondi pang'ono ndi okwanira kuti munthu azikonda kwambiri. Ndipo kumverera uku sikokwanira konse, ndipo ngakhale kuti kunabadwa mu mphindi zochepa, iyo ikhoza kukhala kwa zaka zambiri.
Vomerezani, chikondi ndi chocheperako chotheka kuganiza. Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti maukwati amapangidwa kumwamba. Izi zimachitika kuti anthu kwa zaka zambiri amadziwonetsera okha ndi ena kuti chikondi chimakhala chowopsya, chodziwitsidwa ndi amayi amodzi owongoka. Koma, tsiku lina amataya mitu yawo, ndipo sangathe kukana kukhalapo kwake. Chikondi poyang'ana ndi mphatso yochokera Kumwamba, sikuti anthu ambiri amatha kuchidziwa. Choncho, ndikugwirani maso, musachedwe kuthamanga. Mwinamwake ichi ndi chomwe inu mwakhala mukuchifunafuna, amene mumakonzekera kupatula moyo wanu wonse. Mwina, chikondi ndi chinthu chimene munthu sangathe kukhala nacho basi. Apo ayi, chifukwa chiyani mabuku ndi nyimbo zambiri zalembedwera, n'chifukwa chiyani mafilimu onsewa amanena za chikondi, ndipo amayi ambiri amasungulumwa ngati palibe munthu wachikondi komanso womvetsetsa pafupi. Choonadi chakuti chikondi chimakhalapo poyamba ndikupatsa ufulu wokhulupirira kuti tsiku lina sipadzakhalanso munthu wosungulumwa, pambuyo pake, kuti mupeze moyo wanu, nthawi zina zimatenga kachiwiri.