Mumoyo wamba, nthawi zambiri kumvetsa ngati muli ndi mwayi kapena wopanda mwayi kwa inu kumadalira kokha mbali ya malingaliro. Mmodzi amayenera kugwira ntchito tsiku lomwelo, ndipo lina liri kunyumba ndi maloto okhudza ntchito. Koma iwo omwe alibe mwayi mu moyo, samakhala ndi nsanje. Mukutheka, simungakhulupirire kapena osamvetsera, koma padziko lapansi, mosakayika, palinso anthu omwe ali osowa kwambiri kuposa ena. Anthu oterewa amatchedwa "masoka 33" kapena "ngozi ya munthu."
Osakhutira ndi osauka
Pali anthu omwe amachititsa mavuto ndi zithunzi zomwezo. Anthu oterewa sali ndi mwayi konse chifukwa chakuti alibe mwayi. Iwo amangotenga zomwe iwo amayembekezera.
Mwachitsanzo, mukafika pa malo ogona bwino ndikukhala mu hotelo, padzakhala banja lomwe likukhumudwa poyamba pakuwona zonse ndi nukes zonse. Anthu oterewa amachokera kumalopo akuti akukumana nawo moopsa, kuti otsogolera ndiwongolenga, basi imakhala yowonongeka, amawaika m'masamba ophwanyika, kulikonse kumene anthu onse amakhulupirira. Ndipo pazifukwa zina, ngati kuti ali ndi cholinga amapeza nambala yochulukirapo, pomwe mpweya wabwino sagwira ntchito kapena matepi amathamanga, nthawi zonse amaiwala kusintha thaulo ndipo amaba makamera kapena kanema.
Ngakhale anthu okondwa, olemekezeka komanso okonda dziko lonse lapansi, popanda khama lawo amapeza zipinda zabwino kwambiri mu hotela, kukapeza madokotala osalongosoka, madokotala odziwa bwino, atsogoleri olemekezeka kapena oyandikana nawo oyandikana nawo omwe amabwezeretsa mphete ya diamondi yomwe imatayika ku staircase.
Koma pano palibe chiwonongeko kapena chiwonongeko, monga zikuwonekera kwa ine, sichigwirizana kwenikweni ndi zomwe zinachitika.
Ngati mulibe mwayi pamoyo wanu, ndipo mumakhala ndi madalitso osasamala, ndiye:
- mwinamwake, inu simukuzindikira izi konse;
- Ngati zidazindikirika, ndiye ichi ndi chigonjetso;
- chotsani nokha zoyembekeza zoipa; simunayambe, mutakonzeratu kuti "musakhetse mwazi", musapange chitsimikizo (palibe chabwino, choipa);
- kuphunzira, kulankhulana ndi anthu, kuti awayesere chifundo chachikulu kwambiri;
- ndi kungomumwetulira nthawi zonse, ndipo dziko, pamodzi ndi ilo, lidzakutonthozani.
Mnyamata wosauka Lucky
Pali anthu amene akukumana ndi mavuto ndi mbali imodzi ya njira ya moyo. Ilo limaphatikizidwa mu umunthu weniweni wa munthu. Ngakhale kuti nkhani za zovuta zawo ndi mavuto ochokera kunja zimveka ngati saga zokhudza kusalungama kwa chilengedwe, palibe chodabwitsa mu kusalungama kumeneku.
Izo sizinali mwayi, si mwayi, iwo amanena za anthu oterowo. Ndinapita kunyumba-ndinaziika pamutu. Ndinangoyendetsa sitimayi kuchokera kuntchito, ndikudziletsa kwambiri - ananditengera ku polisi ndipo sindinadziwe zomwe adalembera zabwino. Ndinabwera ku tsiku la kubadwa kwa bwenzi langa ndipo ndinathyola dzino langa. Ndipo chirichonse sichili ndi mwayi kwa iye, onse a iye akugonjetsedwa ndi kuponderezedwa, akulipidwa ndi kuthamangitsidwa.
Ndipo chifukwa chiyani? Inde, chifukwa ndicho chikhalidwe. Osauka. Ayi, mwinamwake, sindinangopita kunyumba, koma ndinakwanitsa kuledzera ndikumenyana. Ndizo zomwe ndapeza. Ndinakwera sitimayo ndipo sindinawonetse tikiti kwa wotsogolera, chifukwa chakuti sananene basi. Nkhondoyo inasanduka pang'onopang'ono nkhondo. Choncho apolisi anazitenga. Ndipo kotero mu moyo.
Palinso atsikana apadera omwe amakhala ndi mavuto osiyanasiyana. Nthawi zonse amawopsyeza amunawo, amayesa kumuchotsa pagalimoto, chifukwa cha nsanje wina yemwe amamupha mnzake amaphera, ndiye ali ndi amisala ndi mpeni kapena chinachake. Ndipo iwo samamvetsa moona chifukwa chake cha mwayi woterewu.
- Ndinangoyendayenda masana pamsewu wapansi. Mnyamata wachifundo anakhala nane, anayamba kulankhula, anakumana. Tinapita ku cafe, tinakhala ndi kumwa khofi. Ndiye kaminkhu kakang'ono. Ndiyeno iye adzalanditsa menja ... mapazi! Tiyeni tipite pakhomo ndi ine, akuti. Ndipo ndani akanaganiza kuti munthu uyu anali woipa kwambiri ?! Ndani kwenikweni?
Kotero, ngati muli osauka mu moyo, ndiye:
- mwinamwake, inu mukudziwa izi, koma inu simukudziwa momwe mungagonjetsere izi;
- Zimatheka, chifukwa musanayambe kuvutika, nthawizonse mumaganiza kuti: mwangokhala kwa theka la ora; mudzamwa galasi limodzi; fotokozani maganizo anu, kambiranani ndi munthu wokondwa, ndi zina;
- onetsetsani mndandanda weniyeni, zomwe simukuyenera kuzichita ndi kuziphunzira ngati pulogalamu yanu ya khadi la banki, nthawi zonse muzimutsitsimutsa. Ndipo musachite izi popanda zosiyana.
- Funsani anzanu (ngati alipo) kuti awathandize, monga akunena, mu "njoka za njoka" ndipo, ngakhale mutatsutsa, iwo asungidwe kuti asaloĊµe kumangidwe.
Onse otaya
Kulankhulana ndi otaika, sitimakonda ndipo nthawi zambiri timakakamiza kuti mavuto awo onse - ndizolakwa zawo zokha.
"Munamva kuti Manet anali wosauka!" Anandichotsa pantchito yanga, popanda kulipira kwa miyezi itatu. Panali mmodzi wa ana atatu, ndipo anali ndi ziphuphu zodzaza ndi ziphuphu!
Kenaka ife timakhala chifuwa, timapumula pang'ono, ndipo timanena kuti Manya mwiniwake ndiye amene akuimba mlandu, chifukwa kuvomereza kuti si chifukwa chake ndikuvomereza kuti zikhoza kuchitika kwa wina aliyense. Koma anthu osayamika omwe ali ndi kalata yaikulu samachotseratu muzovuta zawo zonse. Kuyankhulana kulikonse ndi anthu osauka ndi madalitso osasangalala sikuwatsogolera pa zabwino. Choyamba chosowa chithandizo ndi chithandizo ndikukweza aliyense ku mavuto awo. Thandizo ndi kuthandizira anthu oterowo nthawi zambiri amatenga chinthu china. Ndipo ndi nthawi yoti muime ndi kusiya anthu okha musaganize. Otsatirawa amachititsa kuti tisakhale ndi maganizo oipa.
Unlucky weniweni ndi yopanda phindu komanso wokoma. Komanso, amabweretsa mwayi. Izi ndizo sitizunchiki, zomwe mavuto awo sangathe kuzimvetsetsa. Anthu oterewa ali ngati ankhondo a Pierre Richard. Iwo nthawi zonse adzasankha mosayenera mpando ndi mwendo wamphongo.
Anthu "zopweteka 33" zimakhala zosangalatsa, zokondwa, zogwira mtima komanso zokhutira, osati zosangalatsa konse. Ndipo mavuto omwe ena amapeza ndi omwe amakhala okwiyitsa kwambiri, amawoneka kuti ali moyandikana kwambiri ndi anthu oyandikana nawo. Kuyankhulana ndi anthu oterowo kumabweretsa chisokonezo. kuponya ngozi zowopsa kwa munthu wina, panthawi imodzimodziyo akuchotsa mwachangu anthu omwe, popanda kutaya chiyembekezo, adzatha kuthetsa mavuto awo ndi mavuto onsewa, komabe, zimakhala kuti zawonongedwa chifukwa cha ife.
Ngati muli othawa kwathunthu, ndiye kuti mulibe kanthu kwa inu ndi malangizo. Samalani, pempherani, kuti mutenge.