1. Zosokoneza zowononga zidzakuchititsani mantha;
2. Ola loyamba la kubadwa lidzakuopsezani kuti mudzafa;
3. Mudzamva kuti simungathe kupirira, ndipo monga mukuwonekerani, zopweteka zopanda malire.
Ngakhale, ngati mutayesa kubwezeretsa zosiyana siyana za momwe kubala kwabweraku ndikugwirira ntchito mwakhama kuti mukonzekere tsiku lino, ndiye kuti zidziwike kuti zosokoneza zosasangalatsa zidzatha, ndipo nthawi zovuta zidzachepetsedwa ngati momwe zingathere.
Choncho, kukonzekera maganizo kwa amayi apakati pobereka kumafunika kuyamba ndi matumba. Zikuwoneka ngati pali psychology, koma ndondomeko yokonzedwa bwino ya khalidwe lanu ndipo msonkhano wonse wa zinthu udzakhudza kwambiri maganizo anu, monga momwe mudzadziwira kuti zonse zakonzeka kubereka. Yambani kusonkhanitsa thumba ayenera kukhala pafupi mwezi umodzi usanafike tsiku la kubadwa, lomwe likuyenera ndi madokotala. Palibe amene anganeneratu molondola tsiku la kubadwa, ndi mwana wanu yekha amene amasankha nthawi yobwera padziko lapansi.
Ndikofunika kulemba mndandanda wa zonse zofunika kuchipatala. Musaiwale kutenga limodzi: thumba la zodzoladzola ndi galasi, chovala chovala chovala, zovala za usiku ziwiri kapena zitatu ndi zovala zapadera, pepala lamaliro, tsitsi la tsitsi, pepala la chimbudzi, zovala zomwe muzivala mukapita kunyumba ndi mwana wanu.
Pasanapite nthawi ndikofunikira kulembetsa mndandanda wa maadiresi ndi manambala a foni a anthu omwe mungapemphe thandizo.
Zizindikiro zazikulu zokhudzana ndi ntchito kwa onse zimadziwika, ngakhale kuti zimadziwika payekha mwa amai aliyense. Azimayi ena amatha kuchokera kumapeto kwachiwiri kuti adziwe kuti ayamba kugwira ntchito, ndipo ena amangokhalira kukumbukira maola angapo kenako, posachedwa kwambiri kupita kuchipatala. Nthaŵi zambiri, zizindikiro za kubereka zimatha kudziwika kudzera mu thanzi ndi chikhalidwe cha amayi. Kupwetekedwa m'mbuyo ndi kupwetekedwa nthawi ndi nthawi m'mimba pamunsi, kumverera kovuta - zizindikiro zonsezi zimatha kunena za momwe ntchito ikuyendera, ingakhalenso kuchotsedwa mwadzidzidzi kwa madzi.
Ngati simukuzoloŵera kapena mukudzimva, koma simungadandaule makamaka pa chilichonse (mwachitsanzo, kupweteka), mutenga foni ndikuitanira dokotala wanu. Ngati mwadzidzidzi mumapuma mpweya, chizunguliro ndi zofooka zikuwonekera, ngati nkovuta kuti muimirire kapena mutadzuka msanga usiku, muiwale za dokotala, ndipo muyitane oyandikana nawo, abwenzi, m'mawu, omwe angakhale pafupi ndi kukuthandizani panthawiyi. Musawopsyeze pamene madzi achoka. Ndikofunika kuyesa kusunga kudziletsa kwa nthawi yaitali.
Gwiritsani ntchito thaulo kuti mapazi anu asambane, ndipo konzekerani kuti masentipu anu ndi mathalauza azikhala akuda. Musaganize ndi zomwe anthu ena angaganizire za inu pamene mukuyenda m'chipatala chakumayi, ndipo kumbuyo kwanu pali njira yamadzi. Mukuyembekezera kubadwa kwa mwana wanu - palibe amene akuganiza kuti akukukhalani wodekha, wodalirika, wokoma mtima komanso wokongoletsedwa!
Malangizo ochepa okhudza kukonzekera maganizo kwa kubereka:
- musagwirizane ndi zenizeni;
- musataye mphamvu, yesetsani kugawa mphamvu zanu, kuti mutha kufika kumapeto kwa kubadwa;
- auzeni mzamba kapena dokotala momveka bwino zomwe zikukuchitikirani;
- funsani mafunso onse omwe amakukondani;
- Yesetsani kuchita mwamphamvu, zonse zomwe dokotala kapena mzamba amanena;
- Mvetserani mtima wanu ndi thupi lanu;
- musaiwale kwachiwiri momwe mukufuna kuti mwana wanu abadwe wathanzi, ndi momwe adzakondweretsereni mtsogolo!
Bwino! Ndiwe mkazi wamphamvu ndipo udzapambana!