Ivan si wopusa
Wokondedwa shuga wa nkhani zaku Russia ndi Ivanushka the Fool. Ndi waulesi: amagona pa chitofu tsiku lonse ndipo amathawa ntchentche. Ali ndi lingaliro logwirizana: "Ngati kavalo ali ndi miyendo inayi ndipo tebulo ili ndi zinayi, ndiye tebulo ikhoza kuyenda." Koma pamapeto pake Ivan amapeza mwana wamkazi wachifumu komanso theka la ufumu kuwonjezerapo. Ambiri aife kale tili ana tinkaganiza kuti munthu woterewa ndi wopusa. Kapena osati - osati wopusa. Tsopano ayenera kuti anapeza kuti: Asperger's syndrome. Ichi ndi mtundu wa autism, pamene chikhalidwe cha anthu ndiivete chimasokoneza nzeru. Zikuoneka kuti matendawa anavutika ndi Albert Einstein ndi Isaac Newton. Kotero Ivan ndi wopusa pokhapokha ngati malo ake akuda. Ndipo ngati muyesa IQ, sizingakhale zambiri.
Ponena za akazi ochokera ku nkhani za Chirasha, ma duras (komanso ngakhale opambana) sapezeka mumasana ndi moto. Onse ndi anzeru kwambiri, anzeru-anzeru, amisiri, osatchula kuti onse ali ngati amodzi - okongola. Nthano za momwe Masha wopusa adakwatirana ndi kalonga wokwatirana, chinachake sichikukumbukira. Kotero musaganize kuti chikondi cha opusa ndi mwambo wa anthu athu ...
Mabwana amakonda ma blondes?
Kodi anecdotes za ma blondes amachokera kuti ndi lingaliro lakuti mkazi ayenera kukhala wolimba, popeza mwamuna akwatira kokha ndi wopusa? Iwo amati izo zinachitika mu zaka za makumi asanu ndi limodzi zapitazo, pamene Marilyn Monroe akuwalira pa zojambulazo. Anthu a ku America ankafuna kumutsanzira ndipo adagula malo osungiramo mankhwala osungirako mankhwala onse a hydrogen peroxide, kuti atsuke tsitsi. Kotero chifaniziro cha blonde chinakhazikitsidwa: chosasamala komanso chodalira, kuzindikira zonse - monga Ivanushka wopusa. Koma mosiyana ndi wolemba zamatsenga, yemwe alibe malingaliro kapena obisika.
Amati nthabwala za blondes zimapangidwa ndi brunettes pa nthawi yaitali zosungulumwa. Ndipotu, olemba a nthabwala zimenezi amakhala amuna. Zomwe zakhala zikuchitika m'dziko lathulo zaka khumi ndi ziwiri zapitazi, pamene mkaziyo adayamba kupanga mpikisano weniweni wa kugonana kolimba mu bizinesi. Ndipo pofuna kudziteteza tokha kuopsezedwa kuchotsedwa ku malo onse ofunikira, msaki wathu, wotetezera ndi wotsogolera chakudya anayamba kuganiza kuti: "Akazi onse ndi opusa." Ndipo chimene sichiri chopusa, ndicho chosowa komanso chosasangalala.
Ndi moyo wopusa
Koma kodi amuna amakonda akazi achilendo? Kodi amafunikira zimenezi kuti amvetsere, atsegule pakamwa, nthawi ndi nthawi poika mawu: "Chabwino, muyenera! Inde inu! Inde ukupita! "? Mu mwezi umodzi kapena awiri, poyankha, mukufuna kufuula, monga msilikali wa Raikin: "Tsekani pakamwa panu, wopusa, ndanena kale zonse."
Ayi, mwachiwonekere, pansi pa mawu akuti "wopusa" amuna amamvetsa chinthu chinanso. N'chiyani chimakopa wopusa? Iye akudziwiratu, malingaliro ake onse ali pa dzanja lake (kupatula ngati, ndithudi, izi ndizochitika). Dura sangayerekeze kuti chirichonse chiri chabwino, ndiyeno - bam! - "Ndikusiya iwe!"
Sichikufuna, sizingakhale zake ayi: "Ndi liti pamene mutayamba kupeza Petrov?" Kupatula zitapanda: "Ndimafuna zovala zofanana ndi Masha."
Amayang'ana mwamuna wake ngati mulungu: samayesa kuphunzitsa, kubwezeretsa. Chimene chakula, chakula. Ndi zophweka kukhululukira ndikuiwala zovuta, ndipo kunyalanyaza, kunyoza sikukumvetsa nkomwe.
Wopusa ndi wamtima, wophweka komanso wopanda nzeru, ngati mwana - amasangalala ngakhale ndi bubu la chimbudzi cha chimbudzi.
Iye ndi wopusa - samatha kumvetsa malangizo ophweka, nthawi yomweyo amatchula mwamuna wake.
Ngati ali ndi vuto loipa, sangamuphunzitse momwe angachitire, am'dzudzule, apereke uphungu, momwe angakonzekere chirichonse. Popanda kukwera ndi mapazi ake pa sofa, amathyola mphuno zake pamapewa ake. Ndipo mwinamwake, musiye mwamuna wake yekha.
Nthawi zina mumatha kudziyerekezera
Dura ndi wabwino chifukwa ndi otetezeka. Amuna amawopa akazi, ngakhale, ndithudi, iwo sangavomereze izo mwanjira iliyonse. Pamene adakali anyamata akusewera "nkhondo", asungwanawo adayamba kuchita zofuna zawo ndipo adaphunzira kugwirizanitsa anzawo komanso akuluakulu. Amuna amadziwa kuti mkazi ali wamphamvu ndi wodziwa zambiri m'maganizo, nzeru, mu ubale. Ndipo, ngati akukhumba, akhoza kutembenuza moyo wa okhulupilika ku gehena wa phula. Ndipo mkazi wanzeru - mochuluka kwambiri.
Kawirikawiri amayi amauzidwa kuti azidziyesa wopusa kuti asangalatse mwamuna. Amaganiza kuti ndiye kuti amuna amakwatirana - zoipa ndi zopusa zili ndi mwayi waukulu. Koma, choyamba, kusewera mopusa ndi kovuta. Chachiwiri, chabwino, izo zikutuluka, ine, wanzeru ndi wophunzira, ndipo iwe sungakhoze kukonda? Ndipo, potsirizira, ziribe kanthu kuchuluka kwodziyesa, "simungabisire mwano". Koma pali njira ina: musamuwonetse munthuyo nzeru zake, kumudziwa pang'onopang'ono. Kuti mupindule wokondedwa wanu, amudziwe kuti simukusowa kuchita mantha, kuti simudzatsogolera maganizo anu ndi chidziwitso chotsutsana naye. Izi siziri zonyenga, ndi "kubisala kwadzidzidzi". Nthawi zonse amakhala wopusa. Wochenjera akhoza kukhala chomwe akufuna.
Malangizo:
Musamangire munthu modzidzimutsa mukamudziwa zambiri zokhudza zomwe munapindula: ndi mabungwe ambili omwe apindula, momwe angasinthire bizinesi, momwe angagwiritsire ntchito antchito. Musamachite zomwe mamembala wa kugonana mwamphamvu akhoza kukuchitirani inu: musadzitsanulire vinyo patebulo, musati muthamange mpando.
Kutsogozedwa ndi kukhazikitsa: kuntchito ndimakhala wochenjera, wamalonda, wolimba. Ndipo panyumba - wofooka, wachifundo ndipo akuyenera kunditsatira ine. Musamuuze mwamuna momwe angachitire - aloleni iye mwiniyo azifikira ndi maganizo ake.