Kubwezera ndi ...
Kubwezera ndikumverera kwakukulu, koma palibe chomwe chimapatsa chimwemwe. Zingatheke kuyerekezera ndi chikhalidwe chowawa chomwe chimatichitikira pa chimfine. Kubwezera kuli ndi mphamvu yaikulu pa munthu, pafupifupi ngati chikondi - kungatipangitse kuchita zosayembekezeka, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala manyazi.
Ngakhale kuti chilakolako chobwezera chimayambitsa mphamvu ya mphamvu ndi mphamvu, malingaliro ameneŵa ndi owopsa kwa munthu. Ichi ndi chizindikiro chakuti munthu amalankhula za kunyada, kuti ali ndi malo ambiri odwala ndi maofesi, kumenyana ndi zomwe munthu amasiya kudzilamulira yekha. Nthaŵi zambiri, kubwezera sikulakwa, ndipo zochita za olakwira siziyenera kuziganizira.
Koma nthawi zina chilakolako chobwezera chimalimbikitsa anthu kuchita zabwino osati zoipa, mwachitsanzo, kuti akwaniritse chinachake choposa chomwe ali nacho, kuti akhale munthu wabwino, kuti apambane malo abwino m'moyo.
Chifukwa chobwezera.
Kuti tikhale ndi chilakolako chobwezera, chifukwa chochepa ndikwanira. Aliyense wa ife amadutsa mkwiyo, kusakhulupirika, nsanje - zonsezi zingakhale chifukwa chokwanira chobwezera. Nthawi zina, chifukwa cha kuphulika kwa mikangano, palibe chosowa konse pa chifukwa chilichonse, zimadalira khalidwe la munthuyo.
Komabe, munthu yemwe ali wokhutira ndi moyo wake sangathe kukhumudwitsidwa pa zinthu zazing'ono zomwe nthawizina zimachitika kwa aliyense. Kubwezera kawirikawiri kumakhala chifukwa cha zochita zazing'ono zomwe zimangokhudza kukhudzika kwa wina.
Kubwezera kawirikawiri kumayendera kumverera kwina kosasangalatsa-kaduka. Chifukwa cha nsanje, osati ntchito zabwino zomwe zachitika, ndipo chilakolako chobwezera chikhoza kuchitika chifukwa chakuti bizinesi ya munthu ndi yabwino kuposa yanu. Makhalidwe amenewa ndi omwe ali ofooka ndi osatetezeka omwe amangokhalira kugonjetsedwa ndi wina.
M'dziko lathu, kubwezera sikuvomerezedwa, sikunenedwa poyera, koma chilakolako chobwezera chikuchotsedwa. Momwe mungachitire zinthu zosasangalatsa - kubwezera kapena kukhululukira, aliyense amasankha yekha.
Dzigonjetse wekha.
Musamachite manyazi ngati mwachita chinachake choipa, chomwe chinayambitsa chilakolako chakupweteka poyankha, ichi ndichizoloŵezi chochita, mofanana ndi chitetezo. Ndi nkhani ina ngati chilakolako choterechi chimachitika nthawi zina mofanana, pamenepa ndikofunika kudzilimbana nokha, mwinamwake pali ngozi yaikulu yopanga zolakwika zambiri.
Kuti musakhale munthu woipa komanso wotsutsa, choyamba, muyenera kukhululukira ndi kuwona mokwanira kuchuluka kwa kuwonongeka ndi zomwe mudzachita pobwezera. Kubwezera sikukondweretsa aliyense - ngakhale iwo amene amabwezera, kapena omwe akubwezera, izi nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta.
Nthawi zina mukumenyana, kubwezera kungawoneke ngati chisankho cholondola. Koma taganizani kuti ndi chithandizo chake, chidzapindulanji, kupatula kuti kunyada kwanu kudzakhutitsidwa? Kodi sizingakhale zovuta pambuyo pazochita zanu?
Nthawi zina ndi bwino kuyesa kuthetsa vuto mwamtendere kapena kumangonyalanyaza wodwalayo.
Kutumikira malamulo.
Ngati palibe njira ina yotulukira, ndipo mwatsimikiza mtima kubwezera munthu, muyenera kuganizira momwe mungabwezere chilango ndi momwe "adye".
Lamulo loyamba ndilo kukhazikitsa pazifukwa za kulakwa komwe kunaperekedwa kwa inu. Musayese kuchita zambiri muck.
Lamulo lachiwiri ndilo lamulo. Ngati ndondomeko zanu siziphatikizapo ndende mwamsanga, musiye maganizo alionse omwe amatsutsana ndi chikhalidwe ndi chigawenga.
Ulamuliro wachitatu - musachotsedwe choipa pa okondedwa anu. Ngati wina wakukhumudwitsani, ndiye kuti ayenera kuchitapo kanthu pazochita zake, osati aliyense.
Ulamuliro wachinai ndi nthawi. Mukangokhumudwa, musayambe kubwezera. Wozunza akudikira izi ndipo ali wokonzeka kudziteteza. Dikirani kanthawi, lolani mdani wanu akhale chete, ndipo panthawi ino mudzapeza njira yabwino kwambiri yobwezera.
Koma musanayambe kubwezera, ganiziraninso. Kodi mukutsimikiza kuti masewerawa ndi ofunika kandulo? Ganizirani momwe mungayang'ane kuchokera kunja, simudzakhala ndi manyazi pambuyo pake, kodi simudzabwezera chinthu choipa? Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, ndikuyenera kukumbukira kuti ndi anthu okha olimba omwe amapeza kuti n'kotheka kukhululukira wolakwira kapena kudziyesa kuti kulibe. Iwo samatsikira ku mlingo wa olakwira ndipo samatambasula manja awo ndi njira zokayikitsa zobwezera.