Anthu ovutika kwambiri kugonana ndi anthu aulesi

Ndi ndani yemwe ali pabedi abwino: ogwira ntchito kapena aulesi? Funso limeneli linatengedwa ndi oimira American Psychological Association. Anawona maanja okwana 100 pagulu chaka chonse.

Pepala lofunsidwa linaperekedwanso pakati pa akazi. Poyamba, zochitika (kugwirizanitsa, kuthamanga kwa ziwalo) ndi maganizo (chikondi, kumvetsetsa pakati pa kugonana) mbali zogonana zinamveketsedwa.

Zidachitika kuti amuna omwe amanyamulidwa kuntchito ndi panyumba ndipo sangathe kukhala chete kwa mphindi, amapereka chisangalalo chochuluka kwa akazi awo ndi abwenzi awo, m'malo mochita zinthu zopanda pake komanso anthu aulesi.

"Timadabwa ndi zotsatira za phunziro lino, popeza kale zinakhazikitsidwa kuti akazi omwe ali ndi chidwi chodetsa nkhawa nthawi zambiri amadandaula za maubwenzi m'banja. Koma mbali ina, mu phunziro lapitalo, sitinapemphe anthu okhutira za kugonana kwawo, "adatero Jonathan Schwartz, mtsogoleri wa kafukufukuyo.