Chikondi chosasemphana: kufunafuna ubwino pazovuta

Chikondi chosawerengeka n'chofala. Amayi ambiri padziko lonse amavutika chifukwa cha kusowa kwawo. Muunyamata, ndi chikondi chopanda chikondi, pali, mwinamwake, aliyense. Ndili ndi zaka makumi awiri izi nthawi zina zimapezeka ndipo zimaonedwa kukhala kusamvetsetsana kusiyana ndi vuto lalikulu. Koma kutuluka kwa izi pakatha zaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu ndizodabwitsa kwambiri. Akazi a m'badwo uwu ali kale ndi chidziwitso chochita ndi amuna, amadziŵa mtundu wotani, ndi omwe ayenera kupeŵa. Ndipo komabe mtima sungathe kulamulira - mtsikana nthawi zina amagwera ndi chikondi ndi munthu amene samuyang'anitsitsa.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhala ndi malingaliro angapo pa zochitika zoterozo:

1. Munthu sanamvetsetse chinsinsi cha ubale wabwino. Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zambiri izi: chiwonongeko kuyambira pachiyambi chikondi, kusudzulana kwa makolo, ndi zina zotero. Pa mbali imodzi, moyo umafuna chikondi, ndipo pamzake - palibe lingaliro la momwe ziyenera kumangidwira. Chifukwa chake, mkazi amapeza chinthu chosatheka, chimene mungathe kungoziganizira ndikusamalirana.
2. Kuopa udindo. Mkaziyo amayesetsa kuthawa pachibwenzi, chifukwa amawopa udindo, womwe udzagona pa mapewa ake osalimba.
3. Kuopa kuti adzasiyidwa. Mukakhala mukukumana ndi ululu wosokoneza ubale, zimakhala zovuta kuti mkazi atsegulire mtima wake mwamuna.
4. Chikhumbo chokhala ngati wina aliyense. Amzanga amauzana wina ndi mzake nkhani zokhudzana ndi moyo wawo wokondwa. Kwa mkazi yemwe akusowa chisangalalo chotere, kuti adziikire yekha chinthu chosafikika - mpata wodzitamandira ndi moyo waumwini, umene, makamaka, amaletsedwa.

N'zotheka kuti pali zotchedwa zochitika zochitika. Munthu wamaloto sanangowona zabwino zanu mwa inu. Pachifukwa ichi, musadandaule ndikuganizirani zochitikazo pokhapokha ngati mulibe maganizo olakwika. Maganizo ndi zinthu, choncho m'zonse ndikofunikira kuyang'ana mbali zabwino.

Kotero, ndi zinthu zabwino zotani zomwe zingakhale mu chikondi chosadziwika :

• Inu mumatha kukhala ndi malingaliro apamwamba, ndipo ichi ndi chosowa mu dziko lamakono;
• Chikondi chosadziŵika chidzakuthandizani kuzindikira zomwe mumayang'ana mwachikondi;
• Si chinsinsi kuti chikondi chimapangitsa mkazi "kuwala". Chimwemwe pa nkhope yanu chidzazindikiridwa ndi anthu ena;
• Chikondi ndi chilimbikitso champhamvu cha kuthupi komanso kwauzimu. Kusintha kwa thupi kumaphatikizapo kugwira ntchito pa thupi, ndi kukula kwauzimu - zolemba ndakatulo, kuphika zakudya zatsopano, etc.);
• Zomwe zinachitikira chifukwa chosowa kubwereza, zimathandizira kuwonongeka mwamsanga;
• Patsogolo, posachedwa kapena mtsogolo, akudikirira msonkhano ndi wokhayo amene angathe kutenga malo ofunika kwambiri m'moyo wanu.
• Ndi bwino kuzindikira kuti wokondedwa ndi wathanzi komanso wokondwa, ngakhale ngati sakugwirizana naye;
• Mutu wanu sukhala ndi maganizo okhudzana ndi wokondedwa wanu, kotero pali nthawi yothetsera mafunso a ntchito ndikuwonetsa munthu wosazindikirayo zolakwa zomwe anapanga popanda kukupatseni;
• Simukusowa kufunafuna njira zosinthira zofunikira ndi zida za wokondedwa wanu ndikukumana ndi mavuto ake ambiri;
• Mukhoza kupita kuntchito zomwe mukufuna komanso musachepetse misonkhano ndi anzanu;
• Palibe chifukwa chochepetsera kugonana ndi amuna. Izi zimakhudza kwambiri thanzi la amayi;
• Ngati kuli kovuta kugona, nthawi zonse mumalota zomwe mukufuna, makamaka momwe maubwenzi anu okongola angayambire ndikuyamba. Maloto amathandiza mkazi kusangalala ndi zomwe m'moyo weniweni zimakhala zosatheka;
• Izi zidzakuthandizani kuphunzira momwe mungakonde popanda chikhumbo chobwezera chinachake, koma chifukwa chakuti munthu amene mumamukonda ali pafupi;
• Mwina chikondi chopanda chikondi chingakulimbikitseni kusintha kwa khalidwe ndi khalidwe lomwe lidzapindulitse maubwenzi amtsogolo.