Chizoloŵezi chowoneka ngati chosasinthasintha , pang'ono ndi pang'ono, chimasiya dziko lathu lopenga. Anthu, makamaka akazi, amamasulidwa, ndipo safuna kuti akhale omangidwa ndi banja. Ngati kale banja linali goli pa khosi la amuna, mudziko lamakono amai ambiri amakonda maganizo awa. Sitikunenedwa kuti izi ndi zoipa, anthu amadziwika kuti ali ndi udindo wapamwamba, amayesetsa kudzizindikira okha, kupanga ntchito, ndikusamalira moyo wawo. Koma ziribe kanthu kaya ndi angati akazi amakana kukhala miyambo yokondwerera, khalani okongola pa tsiku losaiwalika, Mkwatibwi aliyense akufuna. Ndipo musalole kuti pakhale chikwati chachikwati chachikwati ndi sitima, ukwati, limousine. Koma padzakhala kukumbukira tsiku lowala, limene silidzachitikanso. Tiyenera kukumbukira, osati kwawonetsera, koma tokha. Mu khumi, zaka makumi awiri mukuyang'ana zithunzi ndi mavidiyo, ndikumwetulira, kukumbukira tsiku lanu losangalatsa kwambiri.
Kuyika mphete pa chala chanu mu ofesi ya registry sikumverera komwe muyenera kumverera pa nthawi imeneyo. Ndipo mawu a mwambo wotsogola womwe iwe uyenera kuti ukhale nawo limodzi muchisoni ndi mu chisangalalo sali kanthu. Ndikofunika kuzindikira, mphete pala, ichi si collar, koma kugwirizana kosaoneka koma kolimbirana ndi mnzanuyo. Tsopano muli amodzi, chisoni, mavuto, kulephera, matenda, chirichonse chimagawidwa muwiri. Koma chikondi chidzagonjetsa zonse ndi chimwemwe, chimwemwe, chidzakhala m'nyumba yanu chikho chonse.
Ukwati ndi sitepe yomwe anthu omwe ali ndi chidaliro mu chikondi chawo akutsutsidwa. Wokonzeka kukhala moyo wanu wonse ndi kuthandizira panthawi yovuta, kumvetsetsa, kukhululukira, kulemekeza ndi kuyamikira. Zili zovuta kutsutsana ndi mfundo yakuti pali milandu pamene mkazi kapena mwamuna amavomereza kukwatirana ndi zolinga zamagetsi (ndalama, mphamvu, malo okhala), ndipo ndi anthu awa omwe adapanga mwambo wodabwitsa kupita kumtunda. Ndi mwa zitsanzo zawo kuti mabanja ambiri tsopano akusudzulana, zifukwa zotere monga "iwo sanafanane ndi malemba", sizingakhale chifukwa cha sitepe yaikulu. Tsopano zonse zimathetsedwa mosavuta komanso mophweka, kukangana kumatanthauza kusudzulana. Palibe yemwe amaganiza, mwinamwake ngati munthu mmodzi atanyengerera, kusudzulana kungapewe.
Ukwati ndi mwambo umene udapyola kuyesedwa kwa zaka mazana ambiri . Sakramenti ya lumbiro loperekedwa mu chikondi chosatha. Kuponya mawu, kumatanthauza kutaya maganizo onse, ndipo ziribe kanthu zomwe ukwati sunali, mumalonjeza nokha. Mutasankha wokondedwa wanu m'moyo, mumamanga wina ndi mzake, ndipo musamangire khola pamutu panu. Inu mwasankha munthu uyu. Kotero, ndiye simuyenera kudandaula za moyo. Ndipo kulira kwa abwenzi mu chovala cha tsogolo lawo. Nthawi zina, chifukwa chokhumudwitsidwa ndi nsanje. Pano pali bwenzi ali bwino, ndipo ine ndikufuna.
Konzekerani ukwatiwo uyenera kukhala mosamala kwambiri , osati pa phwandolo basi. Tiyenera kukonzekera m'maganizo, kuyeza zonse ndikuzindikira. Ngati uyu ndi "munthu" wanu, tsatirani molimba mtima pa njira yovuta koma yosangalatsa ya moyo, yotchedwa banja. Koma ngati pali kukaikira, ndi bwino kubwezeretsa chikondwererochi, fufuzani mmene mumamvera, kukonzekera moyo pamodzi. Ngakhale mutakhala pamodzi, izi siziri chifukwa chokhalira otsimikiza kuti mwasankha bwino. Kuyambira kukakumana, kumakhala pamodzi, ndi moyo wa banja, izi ndi zinthu zitatu zosiyana.