Anagwira makiyi angapo - ndipo inu muli kale pakati pa kulankhulana. Mukufuna kutsimikizira kufunikira kwanu - kutsegula tsamba ku Odnoklassniki, ndikuyang'ana anthu angapo amene anachiyendera, akukhulupirira kufunika kwake. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kungokhala ndi kugwira ntchito (ngati ntchitoyo ikugwirizana ndi kompyuta) kumakhala kosangalatsa, ndipo pofuna kupanga nthawi, anthu amapita kudziko lonse lapansi ndipo amalankhulana pa intaneti, kumene nthawi zonse zimakhala zotetezeka, palibe ntchito, mukhoza kudziganizira nokha ngati wina aliyense, kupweteka ubongo wa ena ndipo ngakhale landirani kuchokera pa izi kuyendetsa maganizo.
Kodi mavuto a intaneti ndi otani?
Webusaiti yonse ya padziko lonse lapansi ndi kuyankhulana pa intaneti imachokera kunja ndipo imayambitsa kudalira kwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo kwa ogwiritsa ntchito. Anthu ali ndi chikhumbo chofuna kulowa mu intaneti, chabwino, atalowa mkati, munthu sapeza mphamvu kuti achoke pa intaneti. Pali mitundu iwiri ikuluikulu ya dziko lonse lapansi ndi kuyankhulana pa intaneti: kudalira pazolumikiza - kuchokera kuyankhulana, maforamu, teleconferences, e-mail. Ndipo kuwonetsetsa kwa intaneti - kuchokera ku mayendedwe atsopano a zowonjezera (kutsegula pa malo, zojambula ndi zinthu). Ndipo komabe wambiri wodalira pa intaneti adagonjetsa ntchito zokhudzana ndi kuyankhulana. Malingana ndi ziwerengero, zochititsa chidwi kwambiri za mauthenga oterewa ndi kudziwika (86%), kupezeka (63%), chitetezo (58%) ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mosavuta (37%). Kotero makinawa amafunika kuti athandizidwe ndi anthu, kukondana ndi kugonana, kuthekera kuti apange msilikali weniweni (kulenga munthu watsopano).
Kodi chidziwitso cha kudzidalira kwa chidziwitso ndi chiyani?
Amatchedwanso kuti mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Kawirikawiri, zimakhudza anthu okhudzana ndi mtundu wa ntchito ndi kukonza ndi kulandira uthenga (atolankhani ali oyamba pa gulu loopsya). Amamva kuti nthawi zambiri amalephera kumva nkhani, osasokonezeka pozindikira kuti pa nthawiyi chinachake chikuchitika kwinakwake, ndipo sichidziwa. Kumvetsa kuti sikutheka kuphimba chirichonse, kumatha. Malingaliro alibe malire: Pambuyo lingaliro limodzi likubweranso lina, lachitatu ... Kuti muime nthawi, muyenera kukhala pakati pa chisokonezo chomwe chimatchedwa kuti mbola yocheperako - kusakanikirana kwa mphamvu, mzimu ndi cholinga. Zimapangidwira pazochitika zilizonse. Uwu ndiwo mphamvu yosonkhanitsa pa nthawi yoyenera, kulingalira ndikuwongolera mphamvu zonse kuti zitsimikizire ntchito inayake. Uthenga umatulutsa chidwi, lingaliro la nthawi limatayika, kutafuna chingamu kuponyedwa ku ubongo, komwe imathamanga mwakachetechete. Kuonetsetsa kuti mfundo siziwononge chidziwitso kumapeto, zithunzi zofunikira ndizofunikira. Ndinawerenga lingaliro lina, louziridwa ndi ilo ndipo ndinazindikira izo. Ndikofunika kuti musagwiritse ntchito malingaliro onse mndandanda, koma okhawo omwe amakondweretsa moyo. Ndipo, ngati n'kotheka, muziwagwiritsa ntchito, osati kungolemba mitu yanu.
Momwe mungafotokozere kutchuka kwa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti : "Ophunzira", "VKontakte" ndi zina zotero?
Munthu amafunika kuyesedwa kuchokera kunja, kupeza chitsimikizo, ngati akutsatira moyo molondola, kudziyerekeza ndi ena. M'malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, wosuta akuyambitsa tsamba lake labwino - chithunzi chabwino - kudziwonetsera nokha. Ana, amuna, mpumulo, ana amakhala ndi zilakolako, zikhumbo, zikondwerero, zilembo zinalembedwa wina ndi mzake, zongoganizira za kukongola kwawo ndi moyo wosangalala zimasonkhanitsidwa. Choncho, kufunika kokatsimikizira kufunika kwake ndiko kukumana. Komabe, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi ophiphiritsira. Pa zokambirana za msonkhano weniweni, ochepa amayankha, ndipo ngati msonkhano ukuchitika, nthawi zambiri umakhala wosakongola komanso wokongola monga momwe ziliri padziko lapansi.
Kodi kuyankhulana kwa intaneti kumasiyana bwanji ndi pakalipano?
Munthu sakhala ndi chimwemwe chokha, nthawi zonse timakhala ndi chikhumbo chogawana zinthu zakuya - zomwe zingathe kuuzidwa payekha. Timachita ndikumangokhalira kukambirana momasuka - timamwetulira ndi kumwetulira, timayankha mwachifundo chifukwa cha chisoni. Intaneti imapanga chinyengo cha kulankhulana kwabwino. Mawu amodzi, malingaliro amalembedwa, pali kumverera kuti ubongo, umene ukusowa kuchitapo kanthu, ukutsatira chinachake. Koma izi ndi chinyengo chabe. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amayerekezera kulankhulana pa intaneti ndi maliseche. Kuwonjezera apo, maubwenzi enieni amachititsa kuti zikhale zovuta kumanga zenizeni. Ndipotu, ambiri ogwiritsa ntchito amavomereza kuti ali ndi mavuto ndi kulankhulana kwenikweni. Dziko labwino komanso kuyankhulana pa intaneti zimapangitsa anthu ena kukhalabe m'dziko lawo lopanda pake, limene amamanga ndi kuteteza ndi mphamvu zawo zonse. Iwo amawopa kuti iwo sadzatsutsidwa mwanjira iliyonse, iwo amati ayi, iwo sanaimbe mlandu ndipo sanapange ndemanga. Kulephera kwa malingaliro amoyo kumalepheretsa munthuyo kuti apite patsogolo. Pambuyo pa zonse, kumvetsetsa kuti mbali zina za moyo ziyenera kusinthidwa kapena kusintha kwa chinachake, ndizovuta kwambiri. Pa intaneti, timaoneka kuti tasiya kusungulumwa . Koma, kusungulumwa, kuli mkati mwa ife, ndipo kulikonse kumene simungatheke. Ndipo iwe uyenera kukhala wolimba mtima kuti ukhalemo ndi kufunafuna njira yopulumukira.
Kodi zizindikiro za kugwiritsira ntchito Intaneti ndi zotani?
Ambiri mwachinsinsi: chilakolako chofuna kutcheru makalata anu, kunyalanyaza zosowa za thupi kuti musamangidwe (kuyembekezera kudya, kupita kuchimbudzi), kukhala pa intaneti nthawi yayitali kuposa nthawi yomwe ndinkakonzekera poyamba (ndinkafuna kupita kwa theka la ora ndikukhala awiri). Kakompyuta akudandaula ndi zochitika zomwe amaiwala za banja lawo, abwenzi, ntchito za boma. Zotsatira zake ndi kusudzulana, kuchotsedwa ntchito, kulephera maphunziro. Atachoka pa Network kwa kanthawi kochepa, amawoneka ngati "chiwombankhanga" - chidziwitso champhamvu kwambiri cha chidziwitso komanso nkhawa, chilakolako chosayenerera cholowetsanso kudziko lonse ndikuyankhula pa intaneti.
Kodi zosokoneza za psyche zingayambitse dziko lapansi ndi mauthenga pa intaneti?
Munthu wamkulu akuoneka kuti ali ngati mwana wazaka zisanu ndi ziwiri yemwe akufuna kupeza zomwe akufuna mphindi iyi. Matenda ena amtundu wotchuka ndi matenda a Munchausen. Zimachokera pa kuyimiritsa matendawa kuti akope chidwi komanso chifundo. Popeza pa intaneti palibe amene angakufunireni khadi lachipatala, kusewera munthu wodwala ndi nkhani yosavuta.
Ndani amene ali pachiopsezo chokhala ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo?
Pali chomwe chimatchedwa mtundu wa umunthu. Anthu ake angathe kudalira pa intaneti, chakudya, mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Sadziwa kukana ndi kupanga zosankha, amawopa kapena kutsutsa. Iwo amalepheretsedwa ndi mantha a kusungulumwa ndi chikhumbo chochotsa mphamvu zawo zonse, osakhoza kufotokozera zochitika zawo ndi ena, kusowa kukonzekera nthawi yawo ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo. Anthu awa ali ndi malingaliro ambiri. Onetsetsani kwa munthu pa intaneti kwa iwo, palibe chimene chikuyimira. Kutalika zikuwoneka kuti interlocutor ndi wokondedwa kwa inu, pafupi ndi omveka, ndinu okonzeka kumuthandizira kulikonse ndi chirichonse. Koma m'moyo palibe mphamvu zonse zauzimu zokwanira kumvetsetsa ndi kumuthandiza.
Kodi dziko lapansili limakhudza bwanji thanzi la ana ndi psyche?
Mwana wakhanda mpaka zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri (7-10) ayenera kukhala ndi masewera. Pambuyo pa malire a zaka khumi, mphamvu za thupi zimayang'ana pa kukula kwa kagayidwe kake, mtima, mapapo, ndi ziwalo zina zofunika. Ndipo pambuyo pa zaka 14 zokha za kulandiridwa zimasinthidwa kuuzimu. Ana ang'onoang'ono, omangirizidwa kuwongolera, ali ndi static. Mmalo mwa chitukuko chakuthupi pa msinkhu uno, pali katundu waluntha - monga zotsatira, ana amakono amakalamba molawirira. Pa zaka 13-14, pali zitsulo zowonongeka, atherosclerosis ndi khansa zoyambirira. M'zaka khumi mwanayo akhoza kudziwa zinenero zitatu ndi zofunikira pa mapulogalamu a pakompyuta, koma samapereka kuyesedwa kwa banal ku chitukuko cha thupi: ndendende ndikudutsa pansi ndikupeza mpira ku cholinga.
Dziko labwino komanso kuyankhulana pa intaneti ndikulingalira kuti ndizofunika kwambiri monga njira yophunzirira ndi kutambasula. Mwina, ndi mlingo woyenera, kodi idzawathandiza kulera ana ndi mphamvu zazikuru?
Makolo amakhudzidwa, akuyang'anitsitsa mwana wawo wazaka zitatu akugwira ntchito ndi laputopu. Ndipotu, luso lonseli limapangidwira pokhapokha komanso silidzathandiza pamoyo wamkulu. Zimakhala zosavuta kuti akuluakulu aziika mwana pa kompyuta ndikuzitenga kwa kanthawi kusiyana ndi kupanga zina mwazo. Lingaliro lakuti kompyutala ikukula ndipo ndi yofunika ku sukulu sizowonjezera kudzilungamitsa.
USA inayesa : ana a zaka zisanu ndi zisanu adaphunzitsidwa kunja, ndipo ali ndi zaka khumi ndi ziwiri adatsiriza maphunziro apamwamba. Iwo akhala akutsatira miyoyo yawo kwa zaka zambiri. Zinaoneka kuti palibe aliyense wa iwo amene anali ndi tsogolo: mwachinsinsi iwo anali ozindikira, koma zida zamphamvu ndi zamalingaliro zinalibe. Iwo sanali kudziwa omwe iwo anali kapena zomwe iwo ankafuna. Ndiponsotu, talente ndi 99% yogwira ntchito komanso luso lodzikonzekera, ndipo 1 peresenti yokha imadalira luso.
Kodi n'zotheka kuwonetsa malamulo abwino a khalidwe kwa ana pa kompyuta?
Kwa zaka khumi mwanayo amakhala mu umodzi ndi dziko lapansi, chifukwa cha iye udindo wa makolo ndiwopambana. Atatha ana khumi amayamba kudzipatula kudziko lozungulira, ndikudabwa ngati chirichonse chili chabwino m'moyo uno, kuti chikhale chokhudzidwa ndi chiyani: zomwe zapita, zomwe ziri zam'tsogolo. Iyi ndi nthawi yomwe mungathe kujowina ndi kompyuta. Mlingo woyenera si oposa maola awiri patsiku: Mphindi makumi anayi mphambu zisanu pa kompyuta, kenako mpumulo. Simungagwiritse ntchito makompyuta monga njira yolimbikitsira. Nkofunika kuti musamafuule, musatseke zipangizo kuchokera pa intaneti, koma pangani kudziletsa pa mwanayo. Pezani alamu kwa nthawi inayake ndikuiika pambaliyi - kotero wogwiritsa ntchitoyo adzalandira udindo wa zochita zawo. Kawirikawiri makolowo amadalira makompyuta. Ndipotu, lero lero ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yocheza ndi banja lachichepere: abambo amachita masewera ena, ndipo amayi anga amalankhula ndi anzanga "Ophunzira." Zotsala za mwanayo ndi ziti? Komanso khalani pa kompyuta.
Ndi mavuto otani a umoyo wa amayi omwe angapangitse makompyuta osangalatsa, dziko lonse lapansi ndi kuyankhulana pa intaneti?
Kupanda phindu ndi kuperewera kwapadera ndi abwenzi a amayi, amangiriridwa kumbuyo. Hypodinamia kuphatikizapo zozizwitsa zomwe zimakhalapo m'dera lamapiri zimatsegula zipata kuti zikhale zotupa. Kawirikawiri, uthenga wochokera ku Network pakati pa amai umayambitsa matendawa, makamaka kwa amayi aang'ono omwe amayang'ana mayankho a mafunso awo pa intaneti. Masiku ano mitundu yonse ya "Amayi" yowunikira ndi yotchuka, kumene amayi ena omwe sadziwa bwino (ena angakhale othandiza kufufuza momwe moyo wa psyche umakhalira) amadziwitsa anthu anzawo "malangizo". Malangizowo ena amafanana ndi kuyesa koopsa kwa ana awo omwe. Zizindikiro zambiri zimawopseza mabwenzi osokoneza bongo, kuika ana awo kuti asadziwe matenda oopsa. Amayi amayamba kudziwombera okha, amapanga neurosis yaikulu.
Mauthenga abwino pa intaneti ali otchuka lero . Popanda kuchoka pa kompyuta, mutha kudziwa zomwe mwapeza, mupeze tsatanetsatane wa chithandizochi ndipo mwamsanga mukonzeni mankhwala pa intaneti. Kodi njirazi ndi zotetezeka bwanji? Masiku ano mtundu watsopano wa ogwiritsa ntchito Intaneti watulukira - cyberchondrics ndi mafilimu amphamvu a intaneti, akusonkhanitsa zokambirana za akatswiri za umoyo wawo kuchokera kumbali zonse za Dziko lapansi. Iwo ali otsimikiza za kukhalapo kwa matenda oopsya, omwe sali oposa chipatso cha malingaliro awo.
Ndi njira zotani zomwe mungathe kusiyanitsa ndi intaneti zomwe zingakhoze kudalirika kuchokera ku zosautsa?
Pali zizindikiro zingapo kapena "asiye mawu" omwe angapereke chithandizo chamankhwala chachipatala cholakwika. Izi ndizo zonse zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi "mphamvu zowonjezera" - zidziwitso zamadzi, madzi, aura, biofield, mawonekedwe a zamoyo, astral, bioresonance kapena "matenda a madokotala 40 mu theka la ora", kuchotsedwa kwa poizoni ndi chirichonse chogwirizana nawo.
Masiku ano Intaneti imapereka mwayi wochuluka kwa omwe akuyang'ana theka lachiwiri. Ambiri a malo ochezera amacheza amapereka zothandizana nawo pa zokoma ndi mtundu uliwonse. Kodi kufufuza kwa chikondi chanu kumasiyana bwanji ndi chenichenicho?
Kulemberana makalata kungakhale kolimbikitsa, akuti, apa pali - imodzi yokha. Koma msonkhano wamoyo weniweni nthawi zambiri umakhumudwitsidwa. Koma pa intaneti - awa ndi mawu chabe, omwe palibe chofunika. Kusinthana kwa mphamvu, kuyesa kudzidzimvetsa nokha, ena ndi dziko lapansi - iwo sangathe kulemberana makalata. Ngati mu moyo wa munthu zonse zomwe zimayankhula zimayankhula za chikondi, ndiye pa intaneti ndi chabe makalata ndi zizindikiro.
Kodi ndi zovuta ziti m'moyo zomwe timapindula nazo posiya zabwino?
Kuti mukumva kukhuta kwa kukhalapo, munthu ayenera kuwonetsera muzigawo zingapo za moyo. Pachilengedwe, ntchito - ntchito zina zomangirira kuti zithandize ena, posamalira thupi, zomwe zili bwino ndikulipira kambirimbiri chifukwa chakuti ali ndi thanzi labwino ndipo akugwira ntchito. Mu uzimu, umunthu umene timapeza, tanthauzo lomwe timalenga, ndi zamoyo. Pochita zinthu ndi anthu ena, zomwe zimapindulitsa ndikupereka ndemanga: mumakhala, mumadziwika. Ndipo ngati kulankhulana kwathu sitinakhale weniweni, sitinayikitse wina aliyense maganizo awo, chisamaliro chawo - timasiyidwa nokha ndi mantha athu a imfa. Chifukwa kuti musanamwalire ziribe kanthu kaya mwalemba chiyani, ndikofunika kuti ndani akhale pafupi ndi inu, kuti musakhale osungulumwa.
Kodi mungachotse bwanji vutoli?
Moyo umakonzedwa pa mphamvu yowonjezera "kutenga." Pa intaneti, timapereka mphamvu zathu kwa wina aliyense yemwe amadziwa kumene ndi chifukwa chake. Mtandawo umayamwa ngati siponji. Mphamvu ya umoyo imapatsidwa kwa ife mwakumverera, koma osati mophiphiritsira, koma kuchitidwa pa kuchita. Ndipo malingaliro amadalira pa maganizo: "ndife atatu." Mwana wa chisokonezo amayenera kubwera palimodzi, kuwonjezera malingaliro athu, kubwera ndi lingaliro lina ndi kupeza kasupe wa mphamvu kuti azindikire. Munthu amatha kudziponyera yekha kumbali zina za moyo, kumene kudzakhala malingaliro ambiri, ndipo sangangokumbukira za kompyuta. Mphamvu zimayikidwa muzochitika zenizeni, zochita zenizeni ndi kugwirizana kwenikweni. Ndipo intaneti ikhoza kukhala wothandizira pakufufuza kwawo. Gwiritsani ntchito dziko lenileni ngati chida chothandizira zokonda zanu m'moyo weniweni (kukumana). Palibe chomwe chidzatibwezeretse ndi kulankhulana, koma osati kwenikweni, koma kwenikweni.