Mwatsoka kapena chimwemwe, sikuti maukwati onse amachitika kumwamba. Ngati mumakhulupirira ziŵerengero, mabanja 10 okha mwa 100 aliwonse ndi chikondi chachikulu. Achinyamata amakono amachitanso manyazi ponena za izi: "Ukwati si mpikisano. Mu lottery, muli ndi mwayi "... Ukwati kawirikawiri umakhala ubale wa pangozi. Oposa theka la maanja amasankha zomwe zimatchedwa ubale waulere - ukwati wadziko.
Ndipo amuna amakwatira. Kotero nchiyani chimalimbikitsa iwo, nchiyani chomwe chimapangitsa iwo mozindikira kupita ku nsembe zotere ??? Tiyeni tiyesere kuzilingalira; chifukwa chiyani amuna, monga ena, amakwatira ena.
Kukambirana 1. Kukwatirana wokongola, wanzeru ndi wolemera ...
Kumbukirani za aphorism: "Ngati mukufuna kukwatira, wokongola ndi wolemera - muyenera kukwatira katatu."
Inde, atatenga chisankho cha mkazi wam'tsogolo, mwamunayo amadziyesa yekha zoyenera, zomwe ayenera kulemba monga mkazi, monga mayi. Kawirikawiri zimakhala zokhazokha zomwe amachikonda, sakudziwa kuphika pies pa njira ya amayi anga, sichichotsa fumbi tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo sichikondwera ndi kulira kwa ana, ndiko. sichigwirizana ndi chithunzi cha mkazi wabwino. Njira yokhayo yopezera kukwatirana ndi Masha Ivanova, kotero kuti am'pangira mkate ndi kusamalira geranium ya amayi ake, ndipo mukhoza kukonda aliyense. Ndikukumana ndi vutoli, ndimakumbukira nthawi zonse mawu a mayi anga. Tsiku lina, asanakwatirane, bwenzi lake linamuuza kuti sakonda mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo. "Palibe," - anayankha amayi anga, - "Inenso ndimakonda Invar Kalninysh, koma ndimakhala ndi bambo anu ... ndipo palibe ...". Inde, ndipo izi zimachitika.
Kukambirana 2. Pofunafuna zabwino.
Kaŵirikaŵiri amuna, ndi akazi, makamaka, omwe amakulira pa miyambo yachikondi kapena mabuku, akuyang'ana bwino. Ndipo ngakhale kuti zoyenera, monga sayansi yatsimikizira, siziripo, siziyimitsa aliyense. Anthu ena sapeza izo, amakhalabe nyemba ndi anyamata achikulire ndipo amadana ndi "dziko lopanda ungwiro", ena amapeza, koma nthawi zambiri amayembekezeredwa ndi kukhumudwa kwakukulu - ngati mutapeza zabwino, izi sizikutanthauza kuti "zabwino" zimathamanga kumutu wa munthu ndi mawu akuti "Ndakudikirira kufikira liti". Zokongola zikhoza kukhala zokwatira ndi zokondwa, ndipo ngati zili mfulu, zimayambanso "kufufuza", ndipo zikuwoneka mosiyana kwambiri ndipo sizikuyang'ana patali. Kusagwirizana ndi kusagwirizana kotero kumapangitsa amuna kuti achite molakwika. Mwachitsanzo, kukwatira mkazi wosakondedwa. Pankhaniyi, ndikufunitsitsa kwambiri kupereka malangizo kwa ofera ophedwa: "Ndizopusa kusankha mkwatibwi! Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusankha apongozi ako! "
Chifukwa 3. Nthawi yachiwiri pa chiwerengero ...
Ndikuganiza kuti owerenga ambiri amadziwa mawu akuti: "Nthawi yoyamba amakwatirana chifukwa cha chikondi, chachiwiri malinga ndi chiwerengero, chachitatu malinga ndi chizoloŵezi". Ndimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi nthawi yachiwiri.
Nthawi yathu yosasokoneza ndalama, pamene mitengo ya mafuta ikukwera, ndipo America yasankhidwa mosamala ku East, amuna amafunika kukhala ndi chidaliro m'tsogolo. Kulankhula za ukwati mwa kuwerengera, sindikutanthauza kokha ndalama. Tenga pamwambapa. Kuwerengera kumawongolera mphamvu, kukula kwa ntchito, udindo mmalo mwa anthu, kutchuka ndi ena, kuphatikizapo mwayi wa mkazi wake. Pofika pa zonsezi, munthu wamba amatha kulimbana ndi chiyeso, ngakhale kuti tsogolo lake kapena mkazi wake ndi mkazi wokalamba wamtundu wa nsagwada wamphongo ndi mitsempha yowonongeka.
Kukambirana 4. Okwatirana amakhala moyo wautali ...
Mnzanga wina ankakonda kunena kuti: "Si zoona kuti anthu okwatira amakhala moyo wautali. Zimangowoneka kwa iwo, "- mpaka adakwatire yekha.
Ndipo palibe chinthu chachilendo kuti munthu wamba amakhala ndi maloto oti akhale ndi banja, amafuna kumumanga misomali pamsewu ndi mwana wake ndi kudya ravioli yokhazikika pamlungu. Zowona, chimwemwe chokhazikika cha maloto ambiri, chifukwa muutsikana wathu timathamangitsa mizimu, pokhala wamkulu timayang'ana mozungulira kuti tipewe zolakwitsa ndipo chifukwa chake sitimayesa konse, ndipo pamene chirichonse chozungulira ife chayamba kale "kumanga" timayamba kudzikonza, kuphatikizapo achibale ndi abwenzi "kuthandizira" ... Chotsatira - mu lexicon pali mawu osasangalatsa "NADO" kuchokera ku ubwana wautali waiwalika, womwe nthawi zambiri umalowa muukwati ndi mkazi woyamba wosakwatiwa amene ali m'chikondi, ndipo chikondi sichimva fungo. Ngakhale ana lero amadziwa kuti kupanga gulu lonse la anthu kukhala "NADO" ndiloling'ono kwambiri. Timafuna zina zambiri ...
5. Ukwati ndi banja lolimba? Ndi zifukwa zina.
Zifukwa zaukwati sizinthu za chikondi. Uwu ndi mimba yosadabwitsa ya mzanga yemwe anali pafupi kuchoka, ndi chilakolako chosintha kayendedwe ka moyo (pamene chirichonse chikulema ndi kuyesera chinthu china), ndi chikhumbo chokondedwa popanda kudzikonda ndi mantha a kusungulumwa, ukalamba, kusowa thandizo ndi zina zambiri. Maukwati oterewa mwachiwonekere adzawonongedwa. Osati mwa chilekano, koma mwa kukhala ndi malingaliro, kumvetsetsa, kulemekezana ndi kuthandizana. Zili choncho kuti ukwati wotero ndi banja lolimba, kupatulapo zotsatira (ana).
Pali zifukwa zambiri - zotsatira zambiri. N'zomvetsa chisoni kuzindikira kuti masiku ano zenizeni ndi malamulo ake, ndipo amuna amavomereza kuti azisewera pa moyo wawo, kudzidalira okha chinthu chofunikira - m'chikondi.