Kuwoneka kwa mwana kumabweretsa chimwemwe kwa mnyumba, potsiriza kukhala ndi abwenzi awiri kwa banja. Koma kumene kuli chisangalalo, pambali pake ndi udindo, kukweza zofuna, chisamaliro chapadera ... Mwana amabwera kudziko lapansi kuchokera ku "dziko" lake, ndipo zonse zomwe ali nazo pano ndi zatsopano, ali ndi zambiri zoti aphunzire, kuti azigwirizana ndi zinthu zambiri. Ndipo popanda thandizo la akulu akulu ndi amphamvu - sangathe kuchita popanda thandizo lathu. Ndipo ife tikuyembekezera mwanayo!
Monga mwalamulo, ataphunzira za mimba yake, mayi amayesera kusintha moyo wake ndi danga lozungulira kuti akhale wathanzi. Mayi wam'mbuyo amayambiranso kudya zakudya zowonjezera, kusankha zakudya zosavuta, zachilengedwe. Momwemo, chakudya chake ndi cholondola: sichimasuta fodya, mchere, wokazinga, mafuta, wosakongola komanso "onse akukayikira." Koma pali masamba ambiri ndi zipatso, mapuloteni, amadyera. Ndipo tsopano saladi siziyengedwa ndi mayonesi, koma ndi mafuta a maolivi, ndipo m'malo mwa zidutswa zokazinga, nsomba zimayambitsidwa ndi anthu awiri.
Komanso kuyang'ana kwa amayi amtsogolo kumapita ku njira yake ya moyo. Kuyenda kwina mu mpweya watsopano, kusasamala pang'ono ndi nkhawa, kuyang'ana zokongola, kuganizira zabwino. Ndipo mkati mwachisomo!
Pakati penipeni pa 2 trimester, pamene chisokonezo choyamba ndi mantha, apabanja amalingalira za chisa cha mwanayo. Ndipo kukonza kumayamba! Kumbali imodzi, nkhaniyi ndi yofunika, koma pambali inayo - yamantha komanso yoopsa. Ziribe kanthu momwe mayi wapakati akufunira zinthu zambiri, ayenera kukumbukira: udindo wake pa nkhaniyi ndiwongolingalira: kutsegula chala chake mkati mwazolingalira m'magaziniyo, kusankha zovala ndi mtundu wa mitundu pa pepala, ndi kutenga nawo mbali - ayi. M'dziko lokongola, makolo (kapena amayi ochepa) amasamukira nthawi yokonzanso malo okhalamo kapena achibale. Koma zenizeni sizimagwira ntchito nthawi zonse. Ndipo nkofunika kuyandikana ndi mayi woyembekezera wokhala ndi matabwa, "zonunkhira" zopaka ndi matumba a pulasitiki. Simungachoke? Pezani kuopsa kwa mwanayo m'mimba. Pa nthawi yoopsa kwambiri - kujambula kwa makoma, mabatire, ndi zina zotero, amachoka kwa masiku angapo kuchokera ku volume. Kuphulika mwa mitundu iwiri ndi yovulaza! Mulole chirichonse chikhale chojambula, kutsukidwa ndi kufufuzidwa, ndipo pambuyo pokha mutatha kubwerera kwanu. Zomwezo zikhoza kunenedwa pa nthawi yotentha kwambiri - pamene makoma akutha, makoma amasweka. Dothi lonse la nyumbayi ndi loopsa kwambiri. Posankha zipangizo zowonongeka, samalirani zachilengedwe ndi chikhalidwe chawo. Podziwa kuti pali zisankho zochuluka bwanji pamasalefu, kusankha chitetezo sikudzakhala kovuta. Choncho, mmalo mwa linoleum ndikofunikira kuyika pepala kapena osakanikirana, ndi bwino kusankha mapepala osakhala opangidwa komanso osatayika, koma mapepala, nsalu kapena masamba. Chabwino, tibwereza, kupenta, kujambula mapepala, kapena kudumpha msana womwe simungathe. Ikani izo kwa akatswiri. Chabwino, kapena ngati njira yomaliza, gulu la abwenzi lotsogolera ndi mwamuna wokonzekera ntchito.
Wokongola ngati mwana
Ngati muli woona mtima, mwana samasowa chipinda chosiyana. Kwa miyezi ingapo yoyamba, amathera nthawi yambiri pamodzi ndi makolo ake. Koma ngati kukula kwa nyumba kumaloleza, wamng'onoyo akhoza kupatsidwa chipinda kuchokera pachiyambi. Ndipo mupangeni kukhala omasuka komanso otetezeka kwa iye. Ulamuliro wa chikhalidwe chaumulungu wa zipangizo mu chipinda cha ana uyenera kukhala wolimba kwambiri kuposa zipinda zina zonse. Zovuta zachilengedwe, zochepa zosakaniza!
Pamene zokambiranazo zikukhudza zazale, nthawi zambiri zimatsutsana, zomwe ziyenera kukhala za mtundu - zowala kapena zala. Amatsutsana ndi mantha. Othandizira njira yothetsera "zokongola" amanena kuti mwanayo amasiyanitsa mitundu iwiri yokha yoyamba kuyambira kubadwa (wofiira, wabuluu, wobiriwira, wachikasu), womwe uli mwana - ndi nthawi yowala, choncho muyenera kukongoletsa mwanayo kuchokera pachiyambi. Ndipo iwo omwe ali a mitundu ya bata, onetsetsani kuti palibe chozungulira pa mwanayo sayenera kukwiyitsa, ndipo mithunzi yowala ndi yamphamvu kwambiri. Chowonadi chiri, monga nthawizonse, kwinakwake pakati. Zoonadi, kupanga mitundu yayikulu ya ana ofiira kapena a buluu sikoyenera, kusiyana kosiyana - sikungakhalenso njira. Koma kuti muchepetse chirichonse kumalo okongola kwambiri a beige, kuwala kobiriwira kapena kuthambo. Poyang'ana pozungulira chipinda, mwanayo alibe kalikonse komwe angagwire. Choncho, ndizofunikira kufotokozera muzithunzithunzi zamkati zamkati kapena zipangizo (zithunzi, masewero, mwachitsanzo).
Kodi sizingakhale zotani?
- mipando yokhala ndi mamembala, mfundo zovuta komanso zochitika zambiri - zimakhala zovuta kupukuta ndipo zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kukhalabe oyera;
- "zokongola" zopanda phindu. Mwachitsanzo, bedi losungira chithunzi likuwonekera kwambiri mu chithunzi m'magazini, koma m'moyo umangidwe umenewu umangotenga fumbi komanso kumafuna khama. Nsalu zonse mu chipinda cha ana ziyenera kukhala zothandiza, zosavuta kuchotsa ndi kuzimitsa;
- ma carpets, toyilesi zazikulu zofewa - ena osowa opanda phulusa opanda pake omwe ali ovuta kukhala oyera pamlingo womwe mwana amafunikira;
- Tsegulani masamulo ndi mabuku ambiri. Amasonkhanitsa fumbi, zomwe zingayambitse mavuto. Ganizirani ngati mungathe kuyeretsa ndi kupukuta bukhu lililonse mlungu uliwonse. Ndipo ndi mabuku angati omwe mwana amafunikira? Osati kwambiri. Laibulale yaikulu ya ana ikhonza kusonkhana m'chipinda chokhalamo.
Akatswiri a feng shui amakhulupirira kuti ndi bwino kuti mwanayo azikhala pafupi ndi khomo lakumaso ngati n'kotheka. Chipinda chapatali chiyenera kukhala ndi makolo. Panthawi yomweyi ndi zofunika kuti mawindo a chipinda cha ana apite kummawa - izi zimalimbikitsa kukula ndi chitukuko. Udindo wapadera umaperekedwa ku chikhomo cha mwanayo. Sitiyenera kukhala pafupi ndi khomo lakumaso. Osasankha zitsanzo zochepa kapena mabokosi omwe ali pansipa - mphamvu zabwino za chi ziyenera kufalikira momasuka pansi pa khungu ndi pamwamba pake. Pamwamba pa malo ogona, sipangakhale malo, kupachika masamulo.
Akatswiri a Feng Shui amalimbikitsa kuti asamachoke pamabedi a bedi, komanso ma modules, kumene bedi liri pamwamba, ndi pansi pake - malo ophunzirira. Pachiyambi choyamba, pokhala pamwamba kwambiri, mwanayo amalowa m'deralo komwe kulibe mphamvu zochepa zenizeni, ndipo chachiwiri - amakhala mndandanda wa kuphatikiza zinthu ziwiri zosiyana - kugona ndi ntchito. Chotsatira chake, ngati mukuyenera kuchita, mwanayo adzagona pamabuku chifukwa cha kukakamiza kwa malo ena onse omwe ali pamwamba pa tebulo, ndipo madzulo, kukwera ku "chipinda chachiwiri", sangathenso kugona, akulimbikitsidwa ndi mphamvu ya gawo lophunzitsira. Ziri bwino ngati chipinda cha ana chidzaperekedwa - malo osangalatsa, masewera a masewera, malo ophunzirira.
Dulani maulendo!
Mwanayo akuyamba kukwawa, ndipo moyo wamtendere wa makolo umatha. Chifukwa tsopano ali ndi nyumba yonse ndipo amasankha komwe angakwere. Ndipo ngati inu mukuwonjezera pa ichi chowona kuti chirichonse chomwe chimadza mu njira ya kakang'ono kakang'ono, iye amayesa mwa mtima, basi kuti azichita mantha. Malangizo oyambirira omwe aperekedwa kwa makolo achinyamata amawoneka osangalatsa kwambiri: imani pazinayi zonse ndikuyendayenda m'nyumba. Kodi ndizosangalatsa? Koma ndi zoona! Muyenera kudzichepetsera ku msinkhu wa mwanayo ndikuyang'ana zonse ndi maso ake. Zimalangizidwa pa nthawi yomweyo kuganiza ngati iye. Zotere - kulingalira zomwe angafune. Mwachitsanzo, ntchentche mukhola, ndipo pali mitsuko yambiri yowonjezera. Ndipo yesetsani pa kukoma kwake, mwinamwake akufuna. Ndipo tili ndi chiani mu bafa pa "pansi"? Chophimba chophimba, zophika mafuta ndi ma air conditioners. Yambani mwamsanga! Ndipo timayesetsa kuti tisachoke pakhomo ku bafa ndipo chimbudzi chimatseguka. Kupita pansi pa zonse zinayi, mudzapeza zomwe zili m'masomphenya a mwana poyamba ndikuyang'ana momwe ziliri zotetezeka. Kuchokera m'mabasiketi apansi ayenera kuchotsedwa pamwamba kuposa bukuli, ndiye kuti simukuyenera kuchotsa mwanayo nthawi zonse ("Musatero!", "Musati mukhudze!") Kapena musawakhumudwitse chifukwa cha buku lina lodula. Timakweza ndi kugunda zinthu mosavuta - masipupa, mafano, mbale. Ndiyeneranso kuchotsa zinthu zokongoletsera pansi, zomwe zingathe kukankhidwa, zowonongeka, kugwedezeka. Ganizirani zomwe ziri m'munsimu masalefu ndi otunga. Mwanayo adzafulumira kuphunzira kutsegulira ndi kuwakankha, osakayikira ngakhale pang'ono. Kuphatikiza apo, adzakupatsani chisangalalo chochuluka kuchotsa zomwe zili mkati. Ndipo kachiwiri - chimene chingang'ambike, chidzang'ambika, chomwe chingasunthidwe m'kamwa mwako, chidzanyengedwa ndi kuyesedwa pa dzino. Sambani kitsulo zothandizira kamba ndi mankhwala, zodzoladzola, zolemba, zithunzi zazithunzi za banja. Ngati izi sizingatheke, kenaka pakhomo la zinyumba zitsekedwa zitsulo zodabwitsa (zogulitsidwa m'masitolo a ana).
Timachoka ku khitchini ndikuyang'ananso m'makalata apansi. Chotsani mbale zowonongeka. Mungathe kugula zinthu zowonjezera zamagetsi ndi zinthu zosiyana siyana ndikuziika m'mabokosi apansi, ndipo kenaka kafukufuku wa mwanayo adzakhalanso ntchito yabwino kwambiri yopititsa patsogolo, chifukwa choti mwanayo (popanda thandizo lanu, ndithudi) adzalitsa mitundu, malingaliro "ocheperapo" ndi t d.