Momwe munthu amayendera zidzatheketsa kumvetsa osati umunthu wake wokha, komanso zofuna za kugonana. Kafukufuku wa asayansi amatsimikizira kuti pamene thupi la munthu liri lomasuka, osati loletsedwa, ndiye limathandiza kukweza maganizo, kukhala ndi maganizo abwino, ndipo pamapeto pake, kumapindulitsa.
Malangizo ofunika kwambiri anaperekedwa ndi heroine wa Verochka "Service Novel": "Mutu umakwera pang'ono, mawonekedwe ake amatsitsa pang'ono, zonse zili mfulu m'chifuwa, mapewa amatsitsimutsidwa, mchenga umakhala wosavuta kuchokera m'chiuno." Ndicho chinsinsi cha kupambana!Nthawi zambiri m'misewu timakumana ndi akazi osasangalatsa, osasunthika komanso oponderezedwa. Zochita zawo ndi zolemetsa komanso zovuta. Mkazi wodalirika komanso wopambana, adzapita (ngakhale ku sitolo!) Ndikumveka kosavuta ndi kosauluka, monga chitsanzo pa podium.
Ngati mukakumana ndi munthu wovina, mukudziwa, patsogolo panu muli munthu wosokonezeka ndi woiwala (mkazi). Iye samakumbukira malonjezo ake, amaiwala zomwe mumamuuza, ndipo, kawirikawiri, samakumbukira zambiri, chifukwa sakusamala. Mwamuna wokhala ndi zovina akufanana kwambiri ndi njenjete yomwe imauluka maluwa amodzi kupita ku mzake, osadziwa chisoni ndi chisoni.
Mwamuna yemwe amayenda mosasunthika ndi mwakachetechete, akudalira pala zala zake, amatanthawuza kwa iwo amene amakonda kukhala mumthunzi ndi kusakopa anthu. Iye, mwinamwake, watsekedwa mwa iyeyekha, wosalankhulana ndi wowawa. Komabe, ngakhale chithunzi choterocho, munthu wokhala ndi chidziwitso chosadziwika akhoza kukhala wokondweretsa kugonana.
Ngati mukumva kugogoda kwakukulu kwa zidendene ndi kuyenda kwakukulu, ndiye kuti mwakumana ndi ntchito yogwira ntchito, yopindulitsa, koma nthawi yomweyo, munthu wosadziletsa. Pambuyo pa kulimbika kwakunja kwa "kudzidalira" kungabise chikhalidwe cha chiwombankhanga. Chotsani zosavuta kuti muyambe kugonana, koma kwa nthawi yaitali mgwirizano wotero sukhalitsa.
Kodi mumamva kulira, kutopa komanso kulemera? Kodi mukuwona manja anu pansi ndipo mutu wanu ukuwerama? Mudakumana ndi munthu yemwe anali atatopa ndi moyo wake, adakomoka ndi zochitika ndi malingaliro, ndipo palibe chomwe chimamukakamiza ndipo samamukonda. Makhalidwe oterewa amavutitsidwa pabedi, osasamala komanso opsinjika maganizo.
Kuchita mofulumira ndi kuthawa kumasiyanitsa anthu omwe ali otentha, osasamala komanso okhumudwa. Munthu woteroyo amasankha chirichonse tsopano ndi apa, osayimiranso chinthu china chamtsogolo. Uyu ndi munthu wopambana amene amathera nthawi yochuluka kuntchito, koma samayiwala za kukhala kosangalatsa komanso kosangalatsa. Pa kugonana, munthu woteroyo adzakondwera kwambiri, komanso mofulumira komanso kutentha.
Gawo lochepa, "lamphongo" lidzakuuzani kuti munthu ali wonyada kwambiri, kapena wosayanjanitsika, kaya ndi snob kapena chimfine. Ndipo mwinamwake zonsezi palimodzi. Anthu oterewa ndi odzikweza, odzikonda. Zimakwiyitsa ponseponse. Pogona ndi wokondedwa wanu simungathe kugonana mozama komanso mwamphamvu. Iwo ali achisoni ndipo samalumikizana, akudziyesa okha kuti ali anzeru kwambiri.
Mtengo wosasimbika, wosadziwika ndi wobadwa osati a agogo okhaokha omwe ali ndi miyendo yopweteka, komanso kwa munthu amene ali ndi mavuto ambiri m'moyo, makamaka ndi ndalama. Chikhumbo chake chachikulu cha "kutuluka mwa anthu" chimamukakamiza kuti azichita manyazi ndi kugwada m'malo mwa "dziko lapamwamba la dzikoli." Moyo wosasangalatsa, wokhumudwa ndi wokhudzidwa mu imvi tsiku ndi tsiku umapha moyo wonse ndi wowala mwa munthu. Pa kama, munthu wotero, monga lamulo, sangathe kugonana.
Unhurried ndi kuchuluka kwayeso kumasiyanitsa pakati pa anthu otetezeka ndi odekha. Munthu wotereyo ndi wololera ndipo samapanga chisankho chokhazikika pambali yachiwiri. Ndizofotokoza mwatsatanetsatane, mosamala komanso nthawi zonse. Ngakhale kumakhala kovuta kwambiri, mnzanuyo akhoza kukhala wokondweretsa onse pabedi ndi m'moyo.
Ngati muwona kuti munthu amaika zidendene zake, dziwani, musanakhale munthu yemwe amadziwa zonse, amaona chilichonse ndipo amamva chilichonse. Amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi dziko lonse lapansi ndi aliyense makamaka. Anthu oterewa, monga olamulira, monga kulankhula "zachabechabe", amadziwa miseche yonse, amakhala ndi anzawo, ndipo nthawi zina amawongolera.
Munthu yemwe, akuyenda, akukweza manja ake, ali ndi khalidwe lachindunji. Munthu woteroyo amasiyanitsidwa ndi chilengedwe chake, malingaliro okondweretsa komanso malo osungira mphamvu. Kawirikawiri, ntchito zake zonse sizilephera, koma sataya mtima komanso "amapanga." Kuwoneka bwino ndi kumverera kwa munthu wotero kumakondweretsa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Zoyembekeza zonse pa bedi zidzakwaniritsidwa, chifukwa, patsogolo panu, wojambula weniweni!
Malingana ndi chidziwitso chosavuta, pamsonkhano woyamba mukhoza kupanga malingaliro okhudza munthu, yang'anani mu moyo wake ndi kuphunzira khalidwe lake.