Kodi mungaiwale bwanji wokonda ndi kusokoneza chiyanjano ndi iye? Ayi, sindingathe, sindingathe. Atsikana ambiri amaganiza, omwe amamvererabe za nthawi imodzi.
Mumamukonda, koma muyenera kuiwala. Zifukwa zikhoza kukhala zosiyana. Mwachitsanzo, maganizo ake pa inu adatha. Kapena mwinamwake mumamvetsetsa kuti si msilikali wa buku lanu chifukwa chake. Kapena iye ali wokwatiwa, ndipo inu mwaganiza kuti muthe kuzungulira mkangano uwu, ndi kukhala molondola, katatu. Ndipo mwinamwake inu simungakhoze kukhala limodzi pa chifukwa china cha mphamvu yopanda mphamvu. Chowonadi chimakhalabe kuti muyenera kuchiponyera kunja kwa moyo wanu ndi kuchoka pamutu panu ndikukhalabe.
Ziribe kanthu momwe izo zinaliri zowawa, inu muyenera kukumbukira kuti moyo suli kutha pamenepo, ndipo kuwala sikukunasonkhana pamodzi ndi mphete. Ambiri amadutsa kupweteka kwambiri. Monga akunena, nthawi imachiza. Panthawi yachisoni, zikuwoneka kuti simudzamuiwala, ndipo palibe chimene chingachepetse mavuto anu. Koma izi siziri choncho.
Inde, palibe njira yotere yomwe imatha kukupulumutsani kuvutika maganizo, koma pali njira zothetsera nthawi yovutayi.
Choyamba, ngati wakale anali woyambitsa phokoso lanu, yesetsani kumukhululukira mkati ndikumulola apite, ziribe kanthu momwe zinalili zovuta. Zidzasintha moyo wanu. Yesetsani kufotokozera zakukhosi kwanu ndi kunyoza pamapepala - lembani kalata, koma musati mutumize. Mu kalata iyi, mumunene mlandu, tiuzeni za ululu wanu, lembani za chirichonse chomwe chinali choipa mu ubale wanu ndi mmenemo.
Yambani ndi kupatukana. Ngati mukufuna kuiwala zakale, musaiwale chiyembekezo choti adzabwerera ndipo zonse zidzakhala ngati kale. Mukhoza kutulutsa mtima ndikulira, koma osati kwa nthawi yayitali - musalole kuti chisoni ndi kupsinjika maganizo zikukuphimbeni ndi mutu wanu.
Zingolani ndi zoyambazo. Ngati mudakali ndi zothetsa mavuto, zithetsani mwamsanga. Pambuyo pake, mukhoza kusiya kulankhula naye. Osachepera mpaka bala lanu lalikulu lichiritsidwa. Musamuimbire kapena kulemba kwa iye. Ngati kuli kovuta kuti muthane ndi mayesero awa, chotsani ocheza nawo. "Kukhalabe mabwenzi" sikugwira ntchito, osachepera.
Chotsani chilichonse chomwe chingamukumbutse: mphatso, zithunzi, makalata ndi zinthu. Ngati simungathe kutaya, ponyani zinthu zonse mu bokosi ndikuzibisa kuti zinthu zonsezi sizikugwirani diso lanu ndipo musatenge bala lanu.
Musati muzivala zinthu zomwe iye amazikonda, ndipo izo zimamukumbutsa iye. Yesani kupewa malo omwe mumakonda. Yesetsani kulankhulana kwa kanthaŵi ndi anthu omwe amakuyanjanitsani ndi inu kapena kukukumbutsani.
Palibe vuto kuti musagonana ndi omwe kale, yesetsani kupezeka naye pamtima, kusiya kubwezera ndipo musachite chilichonse chopusa. Zingakhale ndi zotsatira zoipa kwa inu.
Tulutsani mu nyumbayi, chitani chiwonetsero, chitani zonse zomwe ziri zopanda pake. Sulani malo anu m'nyumba yanu ndi m'moyo wanu. Ngati mukumva zoipa, mukhoza kuyamba kukonza.
Itanani anzanu ndikukonzekera misonkhano yanu yauzimu. Sambani miyala kwa amuna. Aloleni anzanu akuuzeni moona mtima zomwe akuganiza zokhudzana ndi wanu wakale. Musataye mtima. Mukhoza kumwa botolo la vinyo, koma musamamwe mowa, chifukwa cholinga chachikulu cha phwando lino ndikutenga chithandizo ndikusangalala.
Osakhala pakhomo, kuyenda, kuyankhula ndi anzanga, kupita ku mafilimu, kupita ku cafe, kupita kumalo othamanga, kupita ku kampu, ndi zina. Ganizirani za zolaula. Kunyumba musakwiyire, ndipo chitani zinthu zomwe mumazikonda, kuwerenga mabuku abwino, kuwonera makaseti, masewera a pakompyuta, ndi zina zotero.
Sinthani chithunzicho. Pezani tsitsi latsopano kapena musinthe tsitsi lanu. Konzani malonda, dzigulireni nokha chinachake chatsopano kuchokera ku zovala ndi zodzoladzola. Chitani masewera, makamaka pa masewera olimbitsa thupi, osati kunyumba, tk. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumathandiza kwambiri kukweza maganizo. Mtundu wa masewerawo ndi wofunikira, ndikofunika kuti pamodzi ndi inu muzisiya zosayenera, ndipo mudatopa ndi wokondwa. Gogomezani ntchito kapena phunziro. Zidzathandiza kusokoneza, ndipo zingakhale zolimbikitsira kukula kwanu kwa ntchito.
Pezani anthu atsopano, kulankhulana, kukondana, okondwa. Sikuti anthu onse ali ofanana. Koma musamafanizire aliyense ndi wanu wakale. Iye ndi gawo lodutsa, ndipo penapake patsogolo panu ndikumverera kwenikweni, chinthu chachikulu sichichiphonya.
Inu mukhoza kupita kwinakwake kukapuma. Sankhani chinachake molingana ndi zofuna zanu ndi mwayi wanu. Kusintha mkhalidwewo kudzakhala mankhwala abwino.
Ngati muli ndi mwana, perekani nthawi yambiri ndikuyang'anira. Pitani ku cinema, zoo, circus, park park, etc., kuti musokoneze nokha ndi kusangalala.
Pezani chinachake chabwino pakugawa kwanu, motero, pamenepo.
Dziwononge nokha m'njira zambiri. Tengani mafuta osambira ndi mafuta odzola, pita kukamwetsa, saloni, ndi zina zotero. Chitani chilichonse chomwe chimakukondani, dzipatuleni nokha.
Potsatira ndondomeko izi, mudzapulumuka mosavuta kulekanitsa ndipo mwamsanga mudzaiwala chikondi choyambirira.
Ndipo choti muchite, ngati izi ndi zolemetsa kwa inu? Momwe mungaswetse iwo? Inu, mwachiwonekere, mukufuna kuti chirichonse chiziyenda bwino, mwamtendere ndi chitukuko, koma osati kuti izo zidzakhala chomwecho. Zimadalira zomwe mnzanuyo akuchita.
Pali njira zingapo zofunika kuzigawa.
Njira yoyamba ndiyoyimitsa chiyanjano. Sankhani mphindi yokhala ndi ndale ndipo nenani chinachake chonga: "Tinagwidwa ndi mantha, ndikuchita mantha. Chilichonse ndi champhamvu kwambiri, chowala komanso chovuta. Ndikufuna nthawi kuti ndidziwe. Tiyeni titenge. " Pambuyo pake, mutha kuyimitsa nthawi yonse yomwe imatenga, mwachitsanzo, kwanthawizonse.
Njira inanso ndiyo kuchita zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti mnzanuyo atuluke. Muyenera kuopseza, kuchitenga, kuchita zinthu zing'onozing'ono, kudziyesa kukhala nsanje yaukali, zonse zimadalira malingaliro anu. Motay ndi mitsempha ya munthu, amamunyoza mwaulemu, amanyoza malingaliro ake ogonana, amamukwiyitsa ndi khalidwe lake, amamukwiyitsa ndi kunja, amachita zinthu zopusa, amamuchititsa manyazi pamaso pa abwenzi, amada nkhawa, amabwera chifukwa chosiyana, kugonana, ndi zina zotero, kufikira munthuyo asataya mtima. Njira yosangalatsa, yofuna nthawi ndi malingaliro.
Njira yotsatira - kugawa "mu Chingerezi." Njira yosakhulupirika, koma yothandiza. Pewani njira iliyonse, musayankhe maitanidwe ake, makalata, mauthenga, ndi zina zotero. Ngati akadutsa, muuzeni zinthu monga: "Ndimatanganidwa kwambiri, ndili ndi ntchito zambiri. Ndikukuitanitsani. " Ndipo musayitane. Posakhalitsa munthuyo amvetsetsa zonse. Ndipo ngakhale atakupeza iwe ndikufuna kufotokozera, sizingakhale zovuta kwambiri, iye amadziwa kale zonse ndipo ali wokonzeka kwambiri.
Ndipo njira ina yina , yovuta kwambiri, komanso yodalirika, ndiyo kunena bwino. Pano, mungafunikire kukhala olimba mtima, kuganiza kudzera m'mawu. Mwinamwake, padzakhala kukambirana kovuta, osati zonse zomwe zidzayenda bwino. Koma patapita nthawi, munthu akamachepetsa, amadziwa kuti amamuchitira zabwino ndikumulemekeza.
Tsopano mukudziwa momwe mungaiwale wokondedwa wanu ndikuphwanya maubwenzi onse ndi iye. Chikondi ndi kukondedwa!