Simukupeza zambiri, koma mukakhala paulendo, mumagula mphatso yamtengo wapatali (simukuganiza kuti ndinu osawuka)? Kodi amayi anu amakumbutsani tsiku lililonse kuti inu nonse muli ndi ngongole? Mwamuna wanu, akhama kwambiri kunyumba, sangathe kunena mawu kuntchito? Zonse zovuta zovuta. Zili zambiri, koma "zoyipa" - maofesi a amai pochita ndi amuna. Iwo ali poizoni miyoyo yathu. Komabe, monga katswiri wamaganizo wotchuka K. Jung anati, "sikofunika kuti mukhale ndi maofesi, koma zomwe muchita nawo" ...
Chinthu chokha chomwe nthawi zambiri chimatilepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo. Mavuto omwe anali nawo m'mbuyomo, mantha omwe ana amakhala nawo panthawi yachinyamata mwinamwake "auknutsya" pokhala wamkulu. Popanda kuzindikira izi, timayamba kulima maofesi athu, kukhala osangalatsa ndikusiya kuchita zomwe tikufuna. "Zidzakhala bwino," "Kodi ena angaganize chiyani?", "Sizoyenera kwa anthu", "Ndikuyenera kudzipereka ndekha chifukwa cha ana, ngakhale atakhala okondwa", "Tsopano ndidikira pang'ono, ndipo kenako ADZAbwera ndikupulumutsa ine "... Ndi nthawi zingati zomwe tanena ziganizo izi mmoyo wathu? Ndiyi nthawi yoti tisiye ndikuzindikira kuti sitikhala moyo wathu.
MUSALITIRE ANTHU ENA
Ngati nthawi zonse mumagwirizanitsa khalidwe lanu ndi zomwe amuna ena angaganize za inu, akuwopa kulankhula pagulu, ndipo kawirikawiri amayesa kuchepetsa kulankhulana kwanu, kubisa manyazi anu chifukwa cha kunyada - mwinamwake mukuvutika ndi zovuta. Kawirikawiri, zonsezi ndi za kulera kolakwika. Kuyambira tili mwana tinayamba kudziyerekeza. "Tawonani kuti Katya akuphunzira bwanji, osati zomwe iwe uli!", "Tengani chitsanzo cha Olesya - ndi msungwana womvera" ... - Ndani wa ife sananene mawu awa? Pambuyo pazitsulo zoterezi, kuyang'aniridwa kulikonse kudzaonedwa ngati tsoka! Ndipo, pamene tikukula, timayamba kudziwonetsera tokha tokha: timagula magalimoto okwera mtengo ndi zovala, tikungofuna amuna okhawo "oyenerera" omwe abwenzi ndi amayi ayamikira), kumwa kapena kusuta kuti amve ngati akulira komanso "ozizira." .. ..
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Poyamba kufufuza. Yesani kuzindikira momwe mumagwirira ntchito kwa anthu komanso maganizo awo okhudza inu. Ndipo nchiyani chomwe chingachitike ngati mutachita mosiyana? Ndipotu, palibe! Choncho khalani chete ndipo yesetsani kudzivomereza nokha. Pambuyo pake, sindinu choipa ndipo si zabwino kwa ena. Iwe ndiwe wosiyana basi.
KUSIYANA NDI KUWULUKIRA KWAMBIRI
"Sindingathe kukhala wokondwa kwambiri m'banja langa, chifukwa ndimaganiza kuti ndasiya amayi anga okha", "Ndingathe bwanji kupita kutchuthi tsopano, pamene anzanga akugwira ntchito yambiri?", "Kodi ndili ndi ufulu kusiya ana ndi apongozi awo ndikupita kukapuma ndi mwamuna wake? Iwo adzandikwiyitsa ine! "Mawu osadziwika ndi zochitika, sichoncho? Kulakwitsa kumagwirizana kwambiri ndi lingaliro la udindo umene tawukakamiza kwambiri mu ubwana wathu. Nthawi zina timatha kudzimva kuti ndife olakwa osati zomwe timachita, komanso maganizo kapena zikhumbo. Kuyesedwa kosamvetsetseka kupewa izi nthawi zina kumabweretsa mavuto. Choncho, kuyeretsa mwakuya ndi kusinkhasinkha kumawonetsa kumveka kolakwa. Ngati mumayang'ana nthawi zonse ngati mafuta achotsedwa, nthawi zambiri mumasamba m'manja, mwinamwake mukukumana ndi vuto la maganizo ndipo muyenera kupita kwa katswiri.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Zokongola ngati zikhoza kuoneka, kukhala wodzikonda. Mukuchifuna kuchipatala! Lekani kuganizira za mmene ena amamvera ndi kudziyang'anira nokha. Inde, mwinamwake mwamuna wanu amanjenjemera, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndinu mlandu wa izi! Dzifunseni nokha funso: "Ndingachite chiyani?" Mwinamwake mudzazindikira kuti muli ndi udindo wanu nokha komanso moyo wanu. Ndipo kuti mumangokhala okondwa nokha ...
ZONSE ZONSE
Ovuta kuzunzidwa akugwirizana ndi lingaliro la utumiki. Ndili ndi chikhumbo chokhala wokoma mtima ndi kuvomereza kuti zonse zimayambira, ndipo zimathera ndi kudalira kwathunthu kwa amuna oyandikana nawo. Ndipotu, kuchita chilichonse, mumaganizira zochitika zanu nthawi zonse ("O, mphamvu, nthawi ndi thanzi lomwe ndimakhala pa wokondedwa, mwamuna, bwenzi!") Ndipo muzitsatira maganizo a ena ("Ndipo sakuyamikira - osayamika! "), Ndiye mumadzimva mopanda chidziwitso udindo wa wogwidwa. N'zosavuta kuti mumvetsetse zolephera zanu ("sindinakwatire kachiwiri, chifukwa ndinafunika kulera ana", "sindinabwerere kuntchito chifukwa ndinkayenera kusamalira mwamuna wanga", "ndinasiya kuganizira za maonekedwe anga, kuti ndinali ndi nkhawa zambiri panyumba "). Koma kodi ndizofunika? Pafupifupi malingaliro onse a "wozunzidwa" akugwedezeka. Anthu omwe ali ndi zovuta zambiri amayembekezera moyo kuti adzalandire mphotho chifukwa cha khalidwe lawo ndipo sakhutira nazo. Njira yowonjezereka ndiyo kupweteka kwakukulu komanso kukuwonetseratu kwakukulu: "Ngati sikunali kwa ine, simungapeze pomwe mbaleyo ili!" Mutha kudzisunga nokha ndi malingaliro anu oyenerera, koma mwamsanga mudzazindikira kuti amuna amangopewa inu, chifukwa simukufuna kukhala ndi chidziwitso nthawi zonse patsogolo panu.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Mwinamwake, pokhala mwana, munauzidwa kuti palibe choperekedwa pachabe. "Uyenera kulipira chirichonse", "Uyenera kutero" - izi ndizokonzekera kwa "wogwidwa" m'tsogolo. Mu mphamvu yanu kusintha moyo wanu. Lekani izi kukwanitsa kwa mfundo ndi chiyembekezo cha muyaya cha mtundu wina wa mphotho. Yesani osachepera sabata kuti muzikhala nokha - yesani kuyesa. Panthawi imeneyi palibe amene adzafa ndi njala, ndipo simungapite pachaka, koma mudzasangalala. Ndipo mwinamwake m'kupita kwa nthaŵi mudzazoloŵera kuti aliyense amakukondani ndipo alibe opweteka.
"NDIDZIWA BWINO ..."
Izi ndizo zowonjezereka - zomwe zimatchedwa zovuta zogwirira ntchito. Mukuyang'ana anthu kuchokera pamwamba ndikungodziwa kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala bwino. Mumakonda kupereka malangizo kwa anthu kulikonse komanso nthawi zonse. Pano pali mavuto akulu: mumadalira anthu. Ndipotu, zovuta za abwenzizi ndizoopsa ngakhale ngakhale kuti abwenzi anu akukuchotserani (yemwe ali wokondweretsa nthawi zonse, akudzichepetsa kudzichepetsa?) Koma chifukwa simungathe kukhalapo popanda omwe adzakumverani. Kugonjetsa miyoyo ya anthu ena ndi kupeza mphamvu yowonjezera ndi ntchito yaikulu ya wothandizira.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Mwinamwake, munaleredwa m'banja lachilungamo ndipo munangotenga njira yolankhulana ndi makolo anu. Eya, ndi nthawi yomaliza ndi kuyesera ndikuyesera kusintha. Kuphunzira kukhala abwenzi ndi ntchito yanu yaikulu. Yesetsani kupereka, koma kupempha malangizo. Yamikani amuna oyandikana nawo ndikuwakhulupirira. Iwo sali opusa kuposa iwe. Yesetsani kuvomereza kuti ndife osiyana, palibe chokongola ndi chodabwitsa koposa moyo, ndipo aliyense ali ndi ufulu kulakwitsa ...
"NDIDZIWA, ALI MU KUYERA ..."
Chipangizo cha Cinderella chikugwirizana ndi chiyembekezo cha tsogolo. Inu mumadziwa zonse zimene zikuchitika tsopano ngati mayesero, mtundu wina wa nthawi yosintha musanakumane naye, Prince wanu. Zoyembekeza izi ndithudi zidzawonongeka. Vuto ndilokuti amayi omwe ali ndi zovuta zofanana samayamikira mphatso ya moyo wokha. Zimakuvutani kumvetsetsa kuti palibe akalonga (kupatula amuna oyenerera omwe sakudziwa), ndipo tikhoza kulenga nkhaniyi. Mukhoza kuphonya panopa mukuyembekeza mpulumutsi wanu ndi moyo watsopano, wosiyana. Akazi oterewa, akwatirana, sakhala osangalala kwambiri: chiyembekezo chawo chimayikidwa pa mwamuna wake kwambiri.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Poyang'ana dziko lapansi mosamala, kuchotsa magalasi obiriwira. Yesetsani kudzifunsa nokha mafunso otsatirawa: "Ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe chimandivutitsa kwambiri? Nchiyani chikanasintha munthu yemwe adawonekera m'moyo wanga? Ndipo kodi ndingasinthe chinachake ndekha? Kodi zonsezi ndizoopsa kwambiri pamoyo wanga? "Zokambirana zamkati zoterezi zidzakuthandizani kuzindikira kuti nokha mungadzipulumutse ku chizoloŵezi. Nchifukwa chiyani mukubwezeretsa mawa zomwe zingatheke lero? Chifukwa chiyani dikirani kuti wina abwere ndikupulumutseni pamene muli ndi mphamvu kusintha moyo wanu kuti ukhale wabwino. Ndipo kachiwiri: yang'anani pozungulira. Mukuona akalonga angati? Ndipo amuna ozolowereka (ngakhale ndi zofooka zawo)? Ndizofanana. Musadzipatse nokha chimwemwe chenicheni, kuyamika loto lachinyengo la munthu wabwino.
YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA
Zoonadi, izi sizinthu zonse zovuta zomwe zimatilepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo. Winawake amawopa anthu, choncho amasankha kukhala ndi chikhalidwe chawo cha dona wokwanira, wina akhoza kukhala pa kampani yekha ngati "buffoons", wina ... Mndandanda wa mavuto angapitirire kwamuyaya. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti palibe aliyense wa ife amene alibe maofesi osiyanasiyana. Nthawi zina zimakhala zovulaza, nthawi zina zoopsa ndipo zilibe kanthu. Kodi ndingatani kuti ndithandizire ndekha? Tidzafika pafupi ndi ife eni, osachepera tidzakwiya ndi dziko lakunja. Gawo lofunika kwambiri - kulandila maofesi awo monga gawo lawo lodziŵika bwino "I". Ndipo potsiriza, siteji yosinthika. Nenani mawu a matsenga "Dziwani malo anu!" Kenaka maofesiwa adzasintha kukhala makhalidwe abwino: chikhalidwe choposa - kudzilemekeza, kudzichepetsa - kudzidzudzula, kudziimba mlandu - kumvetsetsa ndi kuchitira chifundo. Ndipo pokhapokha pa mlingo wokonzekera kwanu kusintha kumadalira chinsinsi cha kupambana kwanu.
ZINTHU ZOFUNIKA KUKHALA NDI ZINTHU ZINTHU ZINTHU.
✓ Ndimadzikonda ndekha kukhala chomwe ndili!
✓ Sindiyenera "kupeza" chimwemwe ndi chikondi. Ine ndikuyenera iwo pachabe!
✓ Ndimalemekeza maganizo ndi zochita za anthu ena. Iwo sali abwino kapena oipitsitsa kuposa ine. Ndipo ali ndi ufulu wochita zolakwitsa.
✓ Choyamba pa zonse, ndili ndi udindo kwa ine ndekha. Ine sindiri woti ndiziimba mlandu wa tsoka la ena.
✓ Ndikuphunzira kukhazikitsa mgwirizano wogwirizana ndi kukhulupirira!
✓ Ndimakhala ndi moyo ndipo ndikuyembekezera kuti wina adzabwera ndikundisunga. Mphamvu ya moyo wanga imadalira ine ndekha!