Momwe angawonekere kuti msungwana msungwana wachinsinsi

Mwayamba kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mnyamata kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti akudziwa zonse za iwe? Mumamuuza zakukhosi kwake momasuka, koma mukuwopa kubereka okondedwa anu? Kodi mukufuna kudziwa momwe msungwana angawonere chinsinsi?

Pa nthawi yomweyi, ndizofunika kuti mukhale ndi chikhulupiliro chotseguka komanso chotseguka? Ndiye nkhaniyi ndi yanu! Tiyeni tigwirizane pamodzi momwe tingakhalire ndi okondedwa anu, momwe tingawonekere ngati msungwana wodabwitsa. Koma zonse mwadongosolo.

Yambani ndi zosavuta. Yesetsani kumvetsetsa nokha, modzichepetsa komanso mopanda tsankho kufufuza makhalidwe anu. Kodi ndinu munthu wosavuta komanso wotseguka? Nthawi zonse mumanena zoona, nthawi zina ngakhale zosangalatsa kwambiri? Kodi ndinu woona mtima komanso mwachangu? Ndipo, mwinamwake, mosiyana, inu nthawizonse mumakhala ndi chinachake choti muyankhule polankhulana ndi abwenzi ndi abwenzi? Kampani nthawi zina mumatha kukhala chete, kuchokera ku yankho lachindunji ku funso lomwe nthawi zambiri limachoka? Poyankha moona mtima ndi moona mtima mafunso awa, mutha kudzidziwa bwino nokha, kuti muwulule makhalidwe omwe ali nawo okha. Popanda izi, ndizosatheka kupanga fano latsopano, mosasamala kanthu kuti kusintha kwa fano lanu ndikwathunthu ndi dziko lonse lapansi, kapena ngati mukufuna kusintha zinthu zina mwa inu nokha.

Popeza mwatulukira katundu wanu (ndiko kuti, makhalidwe omwe kale alipo, njira yanu yolumikizana ndi abwenzi ndi khalidwe mu kampani), mukhoza kupita patsogolo. Yambani kusintha, osati kwa chibwenzi chanu, koma kwa onse omwe akuzungulirani. Pambuyo pake, ngati mukuchita mosiyana ndi anthu osiyanasiyana (mwachitsanzo, ndi chibwenzi chanu chokondedwa ndi wina aliyense), ndiye kuti zonse zomwe mungakwanitse zingakhale zopanda pake komanso zabodza. Ndizosatheka (chabwino, kupatulapo milandu yapadera kwambiri) Kuchita maudindo angapo bwino. Pambuyo pake, mumasewera moyo wanu! Kotero, ngati mukufuna kupereka chithunzi chanu chachinsinsi, mukufunika kukhala osamvetsetseka komanso osangalatsa. Yesani!

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti chizolowezi chilichonse chimapangidwa masiku 21. Kumbukirani izi! Pa mwezi wokha udzafunikira pang'ono kumvetsera kuposa kulankhula. Ndikofunika kuyesetsa kunena momveka bwino nkhani za tsiku ndi tsiku osati ndi munthu wokondedwa, koma ndi amayi - abwenzi, amayi, oyandikana nawo. Mukhoza kutenga mphindi zisanu kapena 10 pazinthu. Ndibwino kuti mukhale watsopano kapena kumbukirani zolaula zakale. Lolani kukhala osakaniza, ngakhale nsalu zokongoletsera, ngakhale zojambulajambula, ziribe kanthu! Wochita masewera olimbitsa thupi amakhala wokondweretsa nthawi zonse! ChizoloƔezi chanu chimakhalanso nkhani yowonjezera, komanso chitsimikiziro chanu chokhazikika, ndi chikhomo (musakhulupirire ine, osati kwa inu nokha.) Mwamuna amakhalanso wosangalala kuzindikira kuti wokondedwa wake chinachake chitha kuwonekera!)

Kwenikweni, kuti ziwoneke zosangalatsa ndi zachinsinsi kwa mnyamata, iwe umangokhala uli wekha. Ndipotu, msungwana aliyense yemwe amakonda zofuna zake ngakhale kumangogula ndi kuyankhula phokoso, amatha kuyambitsa komanso nthawi yaitali kuti asangalatse amunawo. Ndikofunika kokha kuchita ngati kuti chidwichi kuchokera kwa anyamata omwe muli nawo kale. Chofunika kwambiri pano ndi mzimu wanu wamkati. Ngati mumadzipangitsa anyamata kuti ndinu wokongola, koma mwa inu nokha simukudziwa izi - sipadzakhala kupambana! Muyenera kudzigwira nokha, komanso njira yovuta kwambiri.

Kumbukirani heroine wa filimu yotchuka, yomwe imabwereza kuti: "Ndine wokongola komanso wokongola kwambiri! Ndine woopsa ngati anthu! "Kotero muyenera kukhala ndi mfundo yomweyo. Muyenera kukhulupirira mkati mwanu kuti muli ndi chithumwa chokwanira komanso chinsinsi choti mukhalebe okongola kwa kugonana kolimba. Kudzidalira kumeneku kumakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi anthu omwe akuzungulirani (chomwe chiri chofunikira kwambiri, osati chibwenzi chanu chokha, chifukwa mwina akukambirana (chabwino, osachepera!) Inu ndi abwenzi ake. Ndipo ngati abwenzi ake amamvanso mwachisomo cha mkazi, chinsinsi ndi chithumwa , ndiye kuti zidzakuthandizani.) Wokondedwa akhoza kutsimikiziranso kuti sanalakwitse pa chisankho!)

Kuti akhale (osati kungowoneka) okhwima ndi okongola, msungwana sayenera kupezeka mosavuta - muzochitika zonse. Amuna ndi osaka mwachilengedwe. Iwo sakonda nyama yosavuta kwambiri! Choncho musathamange nthawi yomweyo, ngakhale kwa mnyamata woyembekezera kwa nthawi yayitali! Pumulani (koma musapitirize), nthawizina amakana tsiku (koma chifukwa chabwino ndi chomveka!), Musachedwe kuyandikira kwambiri. Ngati mtsikana atakwanitsa kupindula ndi mtsikana, amamvetsa bwino ubale wanu. Koma simungawoneke ngati bukhu, mwinamwake idzangopita. Khalani ophweka kulankhulana, okongola, okondana, khalani nokha, koma musachedwe kuthetsa chirichonse mwakamodzi. Aloleni amasangalale, atsimikize kuti akukufunani, akufuna ubalewu. Pambuyo pake ndi pambuyo pake, inu nonse mudzakumbukira nthawi ino ngati nthawi yabwino yokondana ndi kukongola!

Ndikufuna kukuchenjezani ku zovuta zina. Ndi zowona zazimayi, monga zonunkhira - simungathe kufotokoza, koma simungathe kupita patali kwambiri. Ngati mwamunayo ali mwa inu nthawi iliyonse, masewera ena, akhoza kumukankhira kutali. Osati aliyense amakonda mmalo mwa maubwenzi okongola (amtendere kapena, mosiyana, wokonda) nthawi zonse amachita kungochita zimenezo, kumangoyamba mawu, nthano ndi zosokoneza. Chotsatira cha chiyanjano choterocho nonse mukhoza kukhala kuzizira kapena kuswa. Taganizirani, kodi mukufunikira izi? Ndithudi ayi. Kotero samalani. Kumbukirani kuti kwa mnyamata, makhalidwe anu enieni ndi ofunika kwambiri, komabe zovuta zimawoneka ngati inu. Inde - inde! Ndipotu nthawi zambiri timaona kuti ndife ofunika kwambiri. Sitikufuna kuti tidziwe kuwona kwathu, kukhulupilira kwa amayi, kuwona mtima. Zikuwoneka kuti wokondedwayo amadziwa kale kuti tidzamukwiyitsa ndi kumukwiyitsa, ndi pamene tidzasanduka chiphokoso. Koma yang'anani mosamala ubale wanu. Mwinamwake, izi zokha zokha ndikukukondani mwa osankhidwa anu? Mwinamwake inu mumakhala wolimba, wolimba mtima, wodalirika? Mwinamwake, ndizo zofooka zanu zazimayi zimene zinayambitsa chikhalidwe chake chachikazi?

Kumbukirani kuti mungathe kukhalabe mtsikana wosamvetseka pokhapokha pamene chidziwitso chachinsinsi ndi chinsinsi chidzakhala chachibadwa kwa inu, osati chidziwitso. Amuna ali okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zabodza. Ndipo ngati mumasewera naye, mumalankhula mwadala momveka bwino, mukakopeka, ndiye kuti anthu ambiri abwino, khalidweli likhoza kunyozedwa. Musati muchite izi. M'malo mwa machenjerero otero, yesetsani kudzipeza nokha zinthu zenizeni za chinsinsi, chachikazi chokha, chomwe chiri chobadwa kwa inu. Mukawapeza, mumangophunzira kuti musawabisire kwa ena (kuphatikizapo, ndithudi, kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wanu). Ndiyeno iwe udzakhala wodabwitsa kwambiri komanso wapadera kwa amuna. Ndipo mukhoza kusunga wokondedwa wanu kwa zaka zambiri.