Mnyamata amakonda mtsikana woipa, sindikumvetsa - chifukwa chiyani?

Mwina, palibe amene angatsutsane ndi mawu akuti anthu onse amakonda zosiyana pamfundo yaumwini. Pali miyezo yovomerezeka ya kukongola, yomwe nthawi zambiri imawonetsedwa ndi ochita masewera otchuka padziko lonse, pali "zokongola zosadziwika" zomwe zimakhala pafupi ndi ife ndipo zimakonda kutchuka pakati pa anthu. Komabe, sangathe kukhala ngati abwino kwa anyamata onse. Ndipo kawirikawiri, kuyang'ana anthu awiriwa akudutsa pafupi ndi inu, malingaliro akuwalira m'maganizo mwathu: "Hmm, mnyamata uyu amakonda mtsikana woipa, sindikumvetsa - chifukwa chiyani chikuchitika pafupi ndi ife?". Ndipo ndithudi, iye ndi wokongola, mnyamata wokongola, ndipo pafupi ndi iye akunyada kuyenda movutikira, wosasamala, wachifundo pang'ono.

Ngakhale, mwinamwake, mwinamwake mtsikanayo wangozizira pang'ono, anaiwala kuti adzipangire yekha, kapena analibe mphamvu zokwanira kutsuka tsitsi lake. Kapena mwinamwake iye amangobereka - ndicho chifukwa chake ali ndi chiwerengero choterocho. Ndipo, pamapeto pake, mwinamwake ali ndi dziko labwino komanso lolemera kwambiri - ndipo chibwenzi chake chimamukonda.

Mukudziwa, izi ndi zodabwitsa: "Mnyamata amakonda mtsikana woipa, sindikumvetsa - bwanji? !!!" amapezeka, monga lamulo, pamene munthu akuyenda pafupi ndi mayi wachifundo uyu amatimvera chisoni. Pano pamutu mwathu mwamsanga tinayambitsa kugonjetsa, timayamba kufufuza ndi kuyerekeza. Izi zimachitika mu kuya kwa chisamaliro, nthawizina sitidziwa momwe timayamba kuyendera anthu ena. Ndiye sitimayi "msungwana woipa" amabadwa, ndipo amabadwa mochuluka chifukwa cha mkwiyo kuti munthu akhale wabwino ndi okoma anyamata.

Ndinayamba kukondana ndi mtsikana wonyansa

Mukudziwa, mzimayi aliyense angamve ngati mtsikana aliyense - ngakhale wonyansa, koma chifukwa cha zokonda sagwirizana. Kodi simukuzikonda chiyani? Maso aakulu kwambiri? Amuna ambiri amamvetsera atsikana ambiri. Kulibe zodzoladzola pamaso? Yang'anani mwinamwake - mwinamwake sizoipa, zimachitika kuti mnyamatayo amakonda kukongola kwachilengedwe, ndi zodzoladzola zingathe kuphwanya atsikana ena. Mwinamwake. inu mukuganiza, "Sindikumvetsa: chifukwa chiyani amakonda mtsikana wotere? Iye ali ndi pape kwambiri! ", Koma, kachiwiri, pali odziwa kwenikweni a pop wamkulu wokongola mdziko lino naponso. Chithunzi cha mkazi sikunakanidwe komabe. Mwinamwake mulibe mawonekedwe ozungulira ndipo muli ndi nsanje pang'ono? Komabe, izi ndizosiyana, msungwana wokongola samamvetsanso: kodi munthu angayambe bwanji kukondana ndi msungwana yemwe amatha kuwerengera nthiti zonse?

Koma, ndikuganiza, kuwoneka sikunali chinthu chofunikira kwambiri mu ubalewu. Choyamba, chinthu choyamba chimene mnyamata aliyense amamvetsera pamene adziwa mayi ndi deta yake yakunja, mawonekedwe a nkhope, chiwerengero ... Koma, mwinamwake, poyamba iye anapatsidwa zizolowezi za akazi milioni zomwe zinamupangitsa iye kukhala wowongoka. Ndiyeno, pamene ndinazindikira kuti chikondi sichiposa nkhope ndi chifaniziro, pamene ndinamva kuti chibwenzi chake adachidziwanso ichi, adayamba kulola kuti akhale wachilengedwe komanso wokoma mtima. Bwanji osatero?

Ndipotu, ndizodabwitsa kuti pazochitika zonsezi mwamuna amayesera kudziwa dziko la mtsikana wake, kuyesa makhalidwe ake, kudziƔa khalidwe lake ndi kukondana ngakhale zomwe akufuna kukonza.

Musamangomudzudzula mwamunayo chifukwa chosowa kulawa, ngati pafupi ndi iye mukuyenda molakwika, mumalingaliro anu, mtsikanayo. Pambuyo pake, zakhala zitatsimikiziridwa kuti palibe amayi oipa, panalibe ndipo sadzakhalapo konse. Tonsefe timafunikira wina, wina ndi wofunika ndipo wina amasamala. Ndipo ngati pali atsikana okongola m'dziko lino, ndiye kuti pangakhale ochepa chabe - mwinamwake ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kukhala choyenera chomwe chimakumana pa ngodya iliyonse? Pakati pa mamiliyoni a zokonda za anyamata, pali nthawi imodzi yomwe idzakusankheni - chilichonse chimene muli. Pambuyo pake, sizili zokongola konse - zimakhala ndi nthawi ndipo zimatha, kukongola kwa moyo kumakhalabe - kukufalikira kowonjezereka pachaka, kuyenera kuyamikiridwa. Anthu omwe amamvetsera mwachidwi kuoneka "zokondweretsa" - adakali obiriwira komanso amatha kupanga ubwenzi wolimba, chifukwa akhoza "kugwedezeka kuchoka panjira yowona" ndi nsalu yatsopano yatsopano. Choncho, ngati muwona momwe banja limakumanirana ndi inu pamsonkhano, gawo lachikazi limene simungatchedwe lokongola, koma theka lachimuna limene likuyang'ana bwenzi lanu ndi chikondi chopanda malire - kondwerani. Kondwerani kuti mwawona Chikondi chonse chomwecho mu mawonetseredwe ake enieni, eni eni, osadziwa malire, osalola kulekerera masks, Chikondi!

Zoonadi, zosiyana ndizo. M'dziko lamakono, malingaliro amaperekedwa mochuluka kwambiri kuposa, mwachitsanzo, ndalama. Inde, ndi zomvetsa chisoni komanso zochepa, komabe ndi choonadi chomwe chimayendera limodzi ndi ife. Ayi, sitiri onse, koma anthu ambiri amadziwika.

Ife, mwinamwake, takhala tikuzoloƔera lingaliro la "mkazi wosungidwa", kutanthawuza ndi mawu omwe mtsikana amene akufunafuna wachuma, mukhoza kukwatira, "Papa", pofuna kupeza ndalama zochuluka kwa iye momwe zingathere. Ndipotu - uhule womwewo, koma atsikana ena ali ndi malingaliro ...

Kawirikawiri palinso ena otchedwa "Alphonse", omwe ndi otsika kwambiri pakati pa amuna, omwe sangathe kuchita ntchito za amuna, ndipo amakonda kukhala ndi ndalama kwa ena. Inde, chiwerengero cha anyamatawa akukula tsiku ndi tsiku - ndipo pafupifupi aliyense wa iwo ndi mtsikana wokhala ndi ndalama. Ndipo apa sikofunikira - kodi deta yakunja ya "wodwala" wa Alphonse.

Apa, komabe, onse atsala kuti apambane. Chifukwa mzimayi-Alphonse mwamsanga akuyembekezera ndalama zambiri, kuti ndalama zomwe iye samafunikira kuti azivutika kwambiri. Msungwanayo amapereka izi kwa aliyense: amamuchotsa nyumba yabwino, yomwe imakhala ngati chisa cha chikondi. Mwina ngati adzichita bwino, amamugulira galimoto. Pamaso pake padzakhala mwayi wapadera wokhala ndi chikhalidwe chokwanira cha anthu, komwe akhala akufunafuna.

Ndipo msungwanayo sali woipa - amapeza munthu wabwino, wolemekezeka, yemwe mungathe kubwera ndi nkhani yokhulupilika ndi maudindo onse ndi maudindo omwe angamuthandize kuti ayambe kuyankhulana naye.

Kotero musamafulumire kudabwa mukamawona mnyamata mumsewu akuyenda ndi mtsikana wonyansa - mwinamwake simukudziwa zambiri za moyo wawo ...