Koma, mwatsoka, mutha kukomana mmoyo wanu mu ubale wa achinyamata, kuti wina amamukonda. Ngati mtsikana amakonda, koma mnyamatayo sakonda, amapeza chifukwa choti achoke naye. Ndipo ngati mnyamata amakonda, ndipo mtsikana sakonda iye, koma amangogwiritsa ntchito pokhapokha kapena phindu lake, ndiye kuti izi zimakhala zovuta, kutengapo mbali kwapakati ndikufunika. Momwe mungamulimbikitsire mnyamata kuti azicheza ndi chibwenzi chake?
1.Nenani kuti mnyamatayo akuyang'ana foni za mnzanuyo, momwe amayankhira foni kwa anthu ena ndi momwe akuyankhira. Ngati ayankha ndi chimwemwe chake ndipo ali wokonzeka kuyankhula kwa nthawi yaitali, kusiya zinthu zina zofunika - amakonda, samayankha kapena amayankha mofulumira, popanda kutchula dzina lake konse - satero. Izi zimatsimikizira.
2.Phone ndi gwero la zambiri zokha, komanso mfundo zofunika kwambiri. Limbikitsani munthuyo kuti awone mauthenga omwe akubwera komanso otuluka, mauthenga a ma SMS, zambiri zidzawonekera nthawi yomweyo, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, ngati chibwenzi chimakonda mnyamata. Chiwerengero cha mauthenga a SMS ndi mayitanidwe kwa achinyamata ena akhoza kuchitira umboni zambiri. Izi zimatsimikiziranso.
3. Mungakulimbikitseni kuti muwerenge masamba ake pa kompyuta, omwe mnzanuyo amakhala naye. Ngati bwalo lakulankhulana kwake sikuti ndi azimayi basi, komanso anyamata, mukhoza kumufunsa mtsikanayo kuti ndi liti ndi liti pamene anakumana ndi izi kapena mnyamata uja, bwanji ubwenzi wake ndi iye. Ubwenzi wa sukulu kapena wophunzira ndi chinthu chimodzi, ndikumudziwa pa intaneti kapena kwina kulikonse, ndikuyang'ana mawu pa nkhope yake. Kawirikawiri atsikana amadzipatulira ndi mawu ofatsa, kumwetulira pakudza kwa wokondedwa wake.
4. Kuwonetsa mnyamata kuti apite ndi chibwenzi chake ndikofunikira makamaka mukatsimikiza kuti akunyenga, akukumana ndi mnyamata wina. Tangoganizani mnyamata akujambula zithunzi za bwenzi lake akugwirana kapena kumpsompsona mnyamata wina. Muuzeni nthawi komanso kumene amakumana nawo. Ndipo bwino kwambiri, bweretsani mnyamata kumalo ano, adziwonetsere yekha kuti akuchita chiwembu. Muzochitika izi, kukakamiza mnyamata kutenga mbali sikudzakhala kovuta.
5. Cholinga chotsimikizirika kuti mnyamata adziyanjana ndi mtsikana ndikumangokhalira kukana kugonana (makamaka ngati akukhala m'banja lotchedwa "civil"), akukamba zowawa zosiyanasiyana, kutopa, kukwiya.
6. Pamene mtsikana amagwiritsa ntchito mnyamata, koma sakonda iye, ndiye kuti zokambirana zake zonse zimachepetsedwa kukhala zosowa zakuthupi ndi zakuthupi. Samalani munthu uyu. Mnyamata ayenera kutsimikiza kuti palibe malo auzimu mu ubale wawo, ndipo popanda kukhudzana kwauzimu palibe chikondi. Ubale wa achinyamata, wokhazikika pazinthu zakuthupi, umangogwa.
7. Mnyamata wina ndi mtsikana sangapeweke ngati mu chiyanjano chawo mulibe magawo awiri a chiyanjano cha banja: mgwirizano wa uzimu (izi ziyenera kukhala pamalo oyamba) ndi chikoka cha kugonana. Kufuna chuma, kukondana wina ndi mnzake kudzawasonkhanitsa panthawi ya moyo.
Kulimbikitsa mnyamata kuti azicheza ndi chibwenzi chake n'zotheka kokha mukatsimikiza kuti palibe mgwirizano wa uzimu pakati pa achinyamata, ndipo popanda kugonana banja silidzachitika, chifukwa ichi ndi chiyambi cha thupi la mwamuna ndi mkazi. Ngati mwatsimikiza kuti msungwana samakonda mnyamata ndipo amakumana ndi wina, kumunyenga, kusonyeza chinyengo ichi ndi mfundo, osati ndi zithunzi zomwe zingathe kuwonetsedwa pa zithunzi za pa intaneti, ndiye pitirizani kumupangitsa munthuyo kuti azicheza naye ndi chibwenzi chake.