Ndipo poyambira, mudzipange nokha, kodi mumakondadi? Ngati mukungoopa kukhala nokha, mumangofuna munthu woti mukhale naye pafupi, ndiye simukuyenera kubwezera munthu wosakondedwa. Tsiku lina mu moyo wanu munthu adzawonekera, kwa yemwe mumakhala ndi mtima wachikondi komanso wachifundo kwambiri.
Mukasankha kuti mukufuna kubwereranso wokondedwa wanu, ndipo mutha kubwezera mdani wanu mwanjira iyi, ndiye mu nkhani yovutayi tikukupatsani njira zisanu ndi ziwiri.
Njira zobwerera ku banja la mwamuna wolowerera
1. Musasonyeze kuti ndi kuchoka kwa mwamuna wanu moyo wanu watha, mukufunabe kuyang'ana zokongola, zokongola ndi zokongola. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kusintha tsitsi lanu, kupanga maonekedwe abwino, kuvala zovala zokongola. Ndipo kwenikweni pa nkhope ayenera kukhala kumwetulira kosangalatsa. Lolani munthu wanu kuti awone ndikumvetsetsa chuma chomwe ali nacho pa nkhope yanu. Muloleni iye asonyeze zoyamba zake ndipo abwerere kwa inu, ndipo inu ndi manja mumulandira iye ndikuwonetsa magnanimity.
2. Kambiranani ndi bungwe lapadera, komwe kulipira, kupeza wotsutsana ndi katswiri wonyengerera. Zakudya zokhala ndi zakudya zabwino, mphatso zamtengo wapatali, mayamiko ndi maluwa, mwinamwake kuchokera pa zonsezi, mbuye wa mwamuna wanu amamva kuti ndi wamisala, ndipo nthawi zambiri adzakhala zithunzi za wothandizira. Ndiye mwamuna wanu adzawona yemwe mumasinthana naye. Zithunzi zingatumizedwe ndi e-mail, kapena kutumizidwa kukagwira ntchito pa disk. Ndipo ngati ogwira ntchito payekha adzatha kutenga nthawi zochepa pamsonkhano wa chibwenzi chonyenga ndi wokondedwa wanu, kenaka alembetseni mbiriyi pa disk kapena kaseti. Chinthu chachikulu ndikutsutsa umboni, ndipo chidzadalira momwe mungaufotokozere, china chirichonse ndi nkhani ya malingaliro anu.
3. Pambuyo pa zonse, konzani msonkhano wosasintha. Pamene munthu aphunzira za chiwembu, ndiye kuti, monga lamulo, iye adzapita kukatsanulira chisoni chake m'bwalo lina. Ndiyeno mudzapeza nokha pafupi ndi khosi lakuya, ndiketi yachifupi, kotero osasamala komanso okongola. Kutsika pang'ono, nyimbo zosasangalatsa ndi galasi la vinyo, chigonjetso chidzakhala chanu.
4. Ngati mutagwirira ntchito limodzi ndi mwamuna wanu, onani tsiku lililonse, ndipo funsani mwamuna yemwe mwamuna wanu sakudziwa kuti akuthandizeni. Kuwonekera naye limodzi palimodzi, kung'ung'udza mawu okondana wina ndi mnzake, kuseka, kukumbatirana. Izi zimapweteka munthu wanu. Adzakhala achisoni, chifukwa chisoni chake sichikukhazikika, ndipo palibe munthu amene angayang'ane momasuka momwe mkazi wake amachitira ndi wina. Tiyenera kumudziwitsa kuti pali anthu ambiri onga iye, koma ndi momwe muliri nokha. Ndiwe nokha.
5. Lembani nyuzipepala ya komweko, kumene kuli magulu otere: "Ndikufuna mwamuna!". Mu malonda awa, ikani deta ya mbuye wa mnzanuyo. Chonde lowetsani nambala yake ya foni. Mndandanda wa malondawo uyenera kukhala: "Ndikufuna kumudziwa bwino ndi munthu wolemera chifukwa cha misonkhano yapamtima. Ndipotu, wokondana ndi mwamuna wokwatira, ndipo sangathe kukana zopereka zina zoyenera. Kuitana kudzayamba, zokambirana zazing'ono zidzachitika zomwe zingakwiyitse munthu wanu. Ndiyeno icho chidzatsalira kwa ang'onoang'ono.
6. Pangani mkangano wotsutsa. Funsani anzanu ambiri, omwe ali pambali panu ndi kumupempha kuti akuthandizeni. Monga ngati iye ndi mdani wanu anali ndi mkangano, kaya angatenge mwamuna wokwatira m'banja, ndipo mphotho yayikulu mu mkanganoyo ikakhala botolo la mowa. Ndipo pamene ali pamodzi, mupatseni mphatsoyi, koma musaiwale kunena kuti apambana mkangano chifukwa amawawona pamodzi. Mwamunayo adzakhala ndi mafunso ambiri, koma yankho lake lidzakhala limodzi. Iye sadzakhala ndi munthu yemwe amatsutsana naye.
7. Kambiranani ndi nyuzipepala yapafupi ndikufalitsa kuvomereza kwanu. Yambani kalata yanu ndi mfundo yakuti "Okondeka aphunzitsi, Ndine wowerenga wanu nthawi zonse ndikupempha thandizo lanu. Mwamuna wanga anatengedwa ndi wokangana, iye amafuna kukhala ndi munthu wotetezeka pafupi ndi iye ndikupeza galimoto. Ndipo ndikuvutika, chifukwa ndimamukonda kwambiri. " Mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu akhoza kukhumudwa pavumbulutso lanu. Pa mbali imodzi, amapeza chifukwa chake amachotsedwa m'banja, komanso kuti awonenso momwe mumapitirizira kumukonda. Chikondi cha munthu chimangoyamba. Ndiyeno akazi amamenya mutu: choyenera kuchita chiyani kuti asunge wokondedwa?
Malamulo 12 omwe angathandize mkazi kusunga mwamuna wake wokondedwa:
1. Palibe chifukwa chofunsira mafunso osafunikira. ("Nchifukwa chiyani munabweretsa ndalama pang'ono?) (" Bwanji simunganditengere kulikonse? ")
2. Simungadzitamande ndi chikondi chogonjetsa.
3. Musayambe nsanje yamphamvu.
4. Mulimonsemo simungayang'ane zoipa.
5. Munthu sayenera kusiya kubwereza kuti ndi "mngelo" ndikuwonetsa chikondi chake.
6. Simungathe kumubweretsa chimwemwe, kugonana ndi nzeru.
7. Mmodzi sayenera kuiwala ndondomeko ya mgwirizanowo ("Lero tidzapita kwa amayi anga, ndipo mutayang'ana mpira pa TV pamodzi ndi bambo anga").
8. Simungathe kunyalanyaza kulankhula za anzanu ndi achibale ake.
9. Simungamuyese, ndibwino kumufunsa mnzanuyo, zomwe sakudziwa.
10. N'kosatheka kuti nzeru zisawonongeke pa nthawi yomwe ikukula ndikupita patsogolo.
11. Munthu sayenera kulola achibale ake, kupsa mtima kapena miseche kuima pakati pa iye ndi inu.
12. Simungapite patsogolo pamene pali mkangano pakati panu. Yesani kulemera, onetsetsani kuti mukulondola, ndipo pokhapo yesetsani kuchita mopanda malire komanso mosamala.
Tsopano tikudziwa kuti zidzathandiza kubwerera ndikusunga munthu wokondedwayo. Lolani izi zikuthandizeni kubwereranso wokondedwa wanu ndikukhala ndi moyo wosangalala pamodzi.