Azimayi awiri ndi munthu mmodzi - Wamuyaya wa Bermuda Triangle, pomwe palibe ukwati umodzi umene unamira. Ndipo ngati mayi wachiwiri ndi amayi ake? Tsoka, tikakwatirana, sitiganizira kawirikawiri kuti ndi mwamuna wathu timapezanso achibale atsopano omwe tidzakhala nawo limodzi, ndipo nthawi zina maubwenzi oipa ndi apongozi anga ndi omwe amachititsa mkangano ndi mwamuna wake, kenako amathetsa banja.
- Nanga bwanji apongozi ake ali ndi nthabwala zambiri, ndipo apongozi ake si amodzi? "Chifukwa sichikondweretsanso." Inde, njira yabwino ndi kukhala opanda makolo a mwamuna, koma ngakhale izi sizikuthandizani nthawi zonse kuti zisokoneze moyo wanu waumwini, komanso zomwe muyenera kunena mukamalowa m'banja latsopano ndi moyo wokhazikitsidwa komanso malamulo anu ngati mpongozi wanu.
Koma sikuti zonse ziri zoipa, ngati ndinu okonzeka kukhala okonzekera kuti si inu nokha wokondedwa wokondedwa wanu, kukhalapo kwa apongozi anu sichikuwoneka ngati chokhumudwitsa chokhalira chimwemwe chanu ndikugogomezera pochita nawo. Anthu a m'badwo wokalamba ali odziwa zambiri, kotero ndizoyenera kuti mumange mgwirizano, kuti mukhale wosinthasintha komanso kuti mugwirizanitse.
Inde, simukuyenera kukonda apongozi anu ndi kuwatcha "amayi," koma taganizirani izi - iye anabala ndikulera mwamuna wanu wokondedwa, kotero inu muyenera kumverera kumayamika chifukwa cha izo. Izi ziyenera kukhala chiyambi cha ubale wanu. Ngati apongozi anu akuona kuti akukupatsani mwana wamwamuna, adzakondwera ndi kupatsa kwake ndikukuchitirani mwachikondi. Ngati akuganiza kuti mwamuchotsa iye, sangathe kugonjetsa moyo wake kukhala wokwiya ndi wosakonda.
Musalole kusokonezana ndi mwamuna wanu m'mikangano yanu ndipo musalole vuto limene adzayenera kusankha pakati pa inu ndi apongozi ake. Pali mwayi waukulu kuti sangasankhe iwe - pambuyo pake, amadziwa mayi nthawi yaitali ndipo kwa iye amawoneka otetezeka. Amuna ambiri amakhala otetezeka kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri amasankha zomwe zimakonda.
Musayesere kutsimikizira kuti ndinu "woyenera" mwana wake, simungapereke mayeso asanu "," ndipo "mudzasokoneza mitsempha yambiri. Ndithudi iye ali bwino pokonzekera ndi kusita zovala zambiri ngakhale chifukwa mwana wake amakhala nthawi zonse m'maso mwake ngati mwana wamng'ono, amene akufunikira kusamalira. Koma iye sanakukwatireni chifukwa mumadziwa kuphika cutlets, sichoncho? Mlamu wake si mdani wanu ndipo sadzatenga malo anu, kotero mutha kuzindikira kuti wapamwamba kwambiri muzinthu zina. Musaiwale kumufunsa uphungu wake pazinthu zapakhomo, koma nkofunika kuti musayende mzere kuti musamawoneke osakondweretsa komanso munthu amene sangathe kusankha yekha. Ndipo onetsetsani kuti mukuwonetsa bwino zomwe mwakwanitsa, mukutsatira nzeru zake.
Zigawani zosiyana. Mwachitsanzo, anthu ena a ku Africa adakali ndi miyambo yomwe apongozi awo ali ndi mpongozi wawo, ndipo apongozi awo ali ndi mpongozi amatha kukomana pa zikondwerero zazikulu za mafuko. Ku Solomon Islands, apongozi ake ndi apongozi awo omwe amakhala m'nyumba imodzi sangathe kuchita ntchito zina panthawi imodzi, koma nthawi yomweyo amakhala mu gawo lachuma. Amwenyewa adapeza chisankho chabwino, bwanji osatsatira? Izi ndi zofunika makamaka ngati mumakhala pamodzi. Azimayi awiri mu khitchini yomweyo - zoipa kuposa kuganizira chilichonse. Ndi bwino kukonzeratu pasanapite nthawi kuti mukonzeke mbale kapena masiku ena mutenge bwino ntchitoyi. Chinthu chovuta kwambiri chomwe mungaganize ndi kutenga Cinderella, kuchita ntchito zazing'ono za apongozi anu. Simudzatha kudula karoti chifukwa chowombera molondola mkati mwa millimita.
Ngakhale mutakhala kuti ndinu ambuye ndikugonjetsa apongozi anu, nkhondo yatsopano ikupita - chifukwa cha maphunziro "olondola" a ana anu. Ngakhale kuti ali ndi zowonjezereka pankhaniyi, dziko lapansi ndi malingaliro pa maphunziro akusintha mofulumira kwambiri kotero kuti, mwanjira ina, sakhala wocheperekeza kuposa iwe. Ndipo ngati mungapereke chikondwerero cha apongozi apongozi anu pankhani yophika, ndiye kuti ndinu mwana wamkulu, koma ndi agogo ake okha. Kotero kuyambira pachiyambi ndikofunika kufotokoza momveka bwino malire a chikoka chake ndikukambirana zomwe zidzachitike pamapeto pa mdzukulu. Kodi angakhale naye pamene mukugwira ntchito, kapena mutengapo kangapo pamlungu kumapeto kwa sabata? Kodi ali wokonzeka kusunga ulamuliro wa tsiku ndi zakudya zomwe mwamuchitira mwana wanu? Zowonjezereka, zocheperapo zidzakhala ndi mavuto m'tsogolomu.
Eya, ngati mlandu ulibe chiyembekezo, kumbukirani kuti nayenso ali mkazi komanso anali mpongozi wake. Mwinamwake, ngakhale izo zidzakuyanjanitsani inu. "M'paradaiso mulibe mipando iwiri yopanda kanthu: imodzi ya apongozi apamwamba, ndi wachiwiri kwa mpongozi wabwino," limatero mwambi wa Kummawa, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti anthu awiri ndi amene amachititsa kuti chibwenzi chisakwaniritsidwe. Zimadalira inu ngati mudzakhala ndi banja lachiwiri ndi apongozi anu, kapena chiyanjano chanu chidzakhalabe cha Bermuda triangle.