Mimba ndi kuphunzira kusukulu ya sekondale

Madokotala anakhazikitsa zaka zoyenera kuti akhale ndi mimba yoyamba - kuyambira zaka 18 mpaka 25. Koma kwenikweni ndi zaka za wophunzira kwambiri ... Kodi kuphatikizapo mimba ndi phunziro ndizotheka? Kodi wophunzira ayenera kudziwa ndani yemwe akukonzekera kukhala mayi? Chinthu chachikulu - musachite mantha. Mu liwu lakuti "wophunzira wapakati" palibe chowopsya komanso chamanyazi. Pambuyo pake, kutenga mimba ndi kuphunzira ku yunivesite kumagwirizana ndendende mofanana ndi kutenga mimba ndi ntchito.

Ndiyenera kunena liti?

Iyi ndi imodzi mwa mafunso ofunika omwe amakhudza wophunzira aliyense yemwe ali pafupi kukhala mayi. Kodi mungatani kuti chinsinsichi chidziwike pofotokoza kuti ali ndi mimba kwa aphunzitsi? Mkazi aliyense ayenera kusankha yekha. Winawake wakonzeka kukondwera nazo za dziko lonse patsiku lomwe adzalandira zotsatira zabwino. Winawake - chifukwa cha zamatsenga kapena mantha - angasankhe kubisa uthenga wake wokondwa nthawi yaitali. Koma ndizowonjezereka ngati mutauza akuluakulu a boma (adokotala, mphunzitsi wokondedwa) za kusintha komwe kunanenedwa m'moyo wanu pasadakhale. Kotero inu mudzakhoza kulangiza nthawi ndi nthawi yochuluka bwanji kuti mutenge tchuthi la maphunziro, pamene inu mubwerere ku sukulu. Ndipo musaganize pa nthawi yomweyi kuti mwadzidzidzi mumadzifunira nokha kapena kudziletsa mu phunziro. Lolani maganizo anu kwa aphunzitsi akhale ofanana. Koma aphunzitsi ayenera kumvetsa chisoni kuti tsopano muli ndi zodabwitsa zamtundu uliwonse zokhudzana ndi thanzi labwino - kugona, kusaganizira, kugonana, kuchepa kupirira, kuwonjezeka mantha.

Khalani okongola

Inde, wophunzira ayenera kuyang'ana bwino - ku yunivesite maonekedwe anu ndi ofunika. Mukufuna kukhala wokongola komanso wokongola kwambiri. Ndipo muli ndi mwayi wonse. Mimba imapita kwa amayi ambiri, amawoneka akuyamba kuphuka, amasandulika kukhala okongola komanso okondedwa. Ndipo manyazi ndi zozizwitsa zokongola ndi zovuta kuziwona! Choncho, kutenga mimba si chifukwa choiwala za machitidwe opangira tsitsi. Musawope, zodzoladzola zapamwamba sizingapweteke mwana wanu, koma ndi tsitsi lazitsulo komanso makamaka makemi muyenera kusamala kwambiri.

Zovala zizigwirizana ndi udindo wa sukulu. Sizitha kukhala zokongoletsera zokha, komanso zokhazokha. Musayese kupanikizira mu thalauza zolimba kapena kukaniza mimba yanu kumsana, kukwera muvala mwamphamvu. Muyenera kukhala omasuka! Zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito ku nsapato - ziyenera kukhala zomasuka. Koma nsapato zokhala ndi zidendene ziyenera kuikidwa pambali, makamaka zoopsa mu theka lachiwiri la mimba.

Phunzirani ndikuphunziranso!

Kafukufuku nthawi zonse amagwirizanitsidwa ndi nkhawa, kutopa, nkhawa ndi nkhawa. Nthawi zonse amagwira ntchito. Ndipo, osati zosavuta. Kodi tingatani kuti tisawononge mayi wamtsogolo? Choyamba, usaiwale kuti tsiku logwira ntchito liyenera kukhala losatha kuposa maora asanu ndi limodzi. Chachiwiri, pasanapite nthawi ndiyomwe muyenera kudzikonza nokha kuti, ziribe kanthu kufunika kophunzira ku yunivesite, kubadwa kwa mwana kuli kofunikira kwambiri. Chifukwa kuphunzira, ngati kuli kotheka, kukhoza kusinthidwa, ndipo kutenga mimba kumene kwachitika kale sikungalephereke. Chachitatu, zosayembekezereka siziyenera kuonedwa ngati kugwa kwa mapulani ndi ziyembekezo zake. Tangoganizani za malingaliro angati osakondwa okwatirana abereka mwana. Amagwiritsa ntchito ndalama zochuluka bwanji panthawiyi, kuyembekezera mwayi wokhala ndi pakati! Mulimonsemo, nthawi zonse muli ndi ufulu wosiya maphunziro anu, kutenga maphunziro kapena ngakhale kupita ku maphunziro a makalata. Komabe, amayi ena amatha kumaliza maphunziro awo, pokhala ndi pakati kapena ngakhale mwana wamng'ono m'manja. Chilichonse chiri chotheka! Chinthu chachikulu, kumbukirani: muli ndi mphatso ya chiwonongeko! Panopa ndinu wamng'ono, wodzala ndi mphamvu ndi mphamvu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mumatha kulimbana ndi mavuto onsewa ndipo muzaka zingapo mudzabwerera ku moyo wanu wakale - kuphunzira, kugwira ntchito, moyo wogwira ntchito, ndi kulankhulana ndi anzanu.

Zoopsa za Tsiku ndi Tsiku

Kodi ndi zoopsa zotani zomwe zingayembekezere mayi wamtsogolo ku yunivesite? Muyenera kudutsa malo onse odzaza utsi, komanso funsani ophunzira kuti asasute pafupi ndi inu. Koma kompyuta, popanda izo, wophunzira, ndithudi, sangathe kuchita popanda. Koma, yesani kuyesa, mutakhala pazeng'onoting'ono, theka la ora kuti mukonzeko zopuma. Osakhala waulesi kudzuka, kuyenda, kutsegula chipinda. Izi ndi zofunika kwambiri, makamaka pafupi mapeto a mimba.

Chinthu china choopsya kwa amayi omwe ali ndi pakati ndi chakudya "wophunzira". Pa tebulo la tsiku ndi tsiku muyenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti mulipo: mankhwala a mkaka wowawasa, nyama, masamba atsopano ndi zipatso. Kumbukirani za chakudya chofulumira! Ngati sukulu yanu ili ndi buffet (tsopano si yachilendo) - yesetsani kudyako pamenepo mwachibadwa momwe mungathere komanso molondola. Kumbukirani, mwana wanu amafunikira chakudya chamadzulo: mbale zotentha (yoyamba ndi yachiwiri), nthawi zonse saladi. Kuwonjezera apo, nthawi zonse muziika masangweji angapo mumsana wanu ndi tchizi kapena nyama yowonda, maapulo angapo, mtedza ndi thumba la madzi. Zidzakhala zotupa zanu, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kulimbana ndi zoopsa za toxicosis. Komanso, yesetsani kusintha nthawi yanu, kuti mupewe ululu m'munsi kumbuyo ndi kumbuyo. Pakati pa zokambirana, sungani molimbika, panizani minofu ndikupita kunja kuti mupumire kunja.

Pang'ono ponena za zosangalatsa

Mimba ndi sukulu sizingowonjezereka panthawi ya magawo, masewero ndi maphunziro. Kuphunzira ku yunivesite kumakhala kukumana ndi abwenzi, kupita ku cinema, kuyendera maholo, museums ndi mipiringidzo, maulendo osiyanasiyana. Kodi mayi wamtsogolo adzikaniza yekha? Ayi ndithu. Zoonadi, padzakhala zoletsedwa: simungasute fodya, kumwa mowa, nthawi zambiri mumapazi anu ndi kugona maola osachepera asanu ndi atatu. Muzinthu zina, kutenga mimba ku yunivesite ikupitirira mofanana ndi kunja kwake, kudzaza moyo ndi zosangalatsa zomwezo.