Ndipo malipiro opindulitsa ndi chiyembekezo chowongola amakopa akazi a zaka zosiyana monga njenjete ku moto. Koma nthawi zambiri kuposa momwe analonjezera ndalama zosavuta, akazi adakakamizika kupirira manyazi. Sizosautsa, koma zinthu zasintha pang'ono lero. Makampani ambiri amayang'ana malonda okhudza ntchito kunja, koma iwo omwe amachita izo ndidi zigawo. Nthawi zina mungathe kugwa mumsampha wina, kutuluka kumene kuli kovuta kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zina sungatheke.
Zoona, moyo.
Momwemo, nyuzipepala yotchuka, makamaka imagwira ntchito kunja kwa amayi, imakhala ndi nyumba zapakhomo ndi azimayi, ntchito ya atsikana kapena ogwira ntchito, nthawi zina amavina m'mabwalo a usiku, komanso malingaliro a kukolola zipatso za nyengo. Koma mzimayi akakhala pa ntchito yolonjezedwa, amatha kupeza ndalama zambiri, kugwira ntchito moona mtima popanda mantha chifukwa cha moyo wake ndi thanzi lake, mwatsoka pang'ono. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosiyana ndi malamulo. Izi zimachitika, ndipo kotero, kuti pomwe amatchedwa ntchito, kapena pakufunsana, kwa atsikana ndi amayi nthawi yomweyo ndi kufotokoza momveka bwino, malo ndi zomwe amapita. Ndipo ngakhale ambiri amavomereza.
Masiku ano, chinthu chinanso chodabwitsa chinakhala chotchuka: pamene anthu akutumizidwa kuntchito, amati akukonzekera mafakitale, mafakitale, minda - chonde, yesani. Koma sangathe kuwona mphoto. Kapena ngakhale kufika kumalo omwe sali kupita sikupezeka nthawi zonse. Wogwira ntchitoyo amatenga ndalama ndi zolemba, ndipo munthuyo amakhalabe mu zovuta zomwe, popanda iye, palibe wina womuthandiza. Pamaso mwa alendo oletsedwawo, zosankha sizili zabwino: kaya kugwira ntchito kwa anthu akumeneko kupeza zolemba zatsopano ndi njira yopita kunyumba, kapena mwamsanga ndi mwaufulu pa gululo. Akuluakulu a boma nthawi zonse amalengeza kuti mudzathandizidwa ku ambassy. Khulupirirani izi ndizosazindikira. Kawirikawiri, mukafunafuna thandizo, yankho lanu ndi "ambiri a inu", ndiye kuti mlandu wanu umasamukira kwa apolisi. Ndiyeno kumangidwa, kufufuza kwa nthawi yaitali, kuthamangitsidwa kapena nthawi ndizotheka.
Kusankha kwanu.
Munthu aliyense amapanga tsogolo lake mwiniwake. Ndipo momwe moyo wathu udzakhalire umadalira mwachindunji pa zisankho zomwe timapanga m'moyo wathu wonse. Kupita kunja ndikutinso kusankha kwathu patokha. Ndipo si chifukwa cha moyo wabwino umene amayi adzalandira. Koma nthawizina kusankha koyenera kumapangidwira ife.
Pali zochitika zambiri pamene amai kapena atsikana kunja kwawo amachoka abwenzi, achibale, ngakhale amuna. Ndipo amamvera mosamalitsa sutikesi pansi pa zolemetsa za "ayenera". Kapena mulandu wina pamene mkazi mwadzidzidzi ali ndi mabwenzi omwe adachokera "kuchokera kumeneko", ndipo amadabwa kwambiri momwe anali kukhalira monga choncho, ndipo kuti chiyembekezo chochuluka kwa akazi chikutseguka. Pambuyo pake, pali nkhani zambiri zokhudzana ndi zamoyo zonse zakunja. Pankhaniyi, chirichonse chimayikidwa mwanjira yakuti mkazi mwiniwake abwere ku lingaliro, kuchoka. Koma padzakhala kale chinthu china, monga "bwanji ngati". Zonsezi zimabweretsa mfundo yakuti mulimonsemo timakakamizidwa kuti tisankhe "mwaufulu". Choncho, atsikana ndi amayi nthawi zambiri amaloledwa kuchita uhule, kapena kugwira ntchito mwakhama, zomwe, ngati zatero, sizidzasungunuka, sizikuwoneka kuti sizinali zofanana ndi zomwe zinalonjezedwa pachiyambi. Chokhumudwitsa kwambiri n'chakuti ngakhale "kapolo" woteroyo akhoza kubwerera kwawo, palibe wina womuthandiza. M'madera onse ogwiritsira ntchito malamulo mudzapatsidwa yankho limodzi: "Munavomereza modzipereka," kapena "munasankha nokha." Ngakhale izi ndizo khalidwe lodziwika bwino lomwe simunali nalo.
Ngakhale kungakhale kulakwitsa kufotokoza aliyense mu mzere umodzi, pali zosiyana, koma nthawi zambiri zimangotsimikizira lamulo lowawa.
Ndipo kodi ndi chimodzimodzi mwa njira ina?
Koma izi zimachitikanso m'njira ina. Zimakhalanso kuti kuyendayenda kunja kwa mkazi ndi tikiti yachitsimikizo, ndipo amakhoza kupeza, ngakhale kwa wina ndi wamng'ono, koma chifukwa cha ndalama zake zofunikira, pamene sakukhala chiwawa, kuzunzidwa kapena ukapolo. Kugwira ntchito kunja kwa amayi nthawi zambiri kumakhala ndi ntchito zomwe sizifuna maphunziro apadera. Kawirikawiri m'mayiko omwe amayi athu amatumizidwa kunja kwalamulo, palibe malo ogwira ntchito mosavomerezeka. Choncho, amachotsedwa ntchito yovuta kwambiri komanso yolemetsa, yomwe anthu am'deralo sakufuna kupita.
Komanso, kusadziŵa chilankhulochi kumakhudza kwambiri, choncho nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kugwira ntchito kunja kwina monga wosokera zovala, laundress, ndi lachasitiki. Pazomwe mungathe, mungapeze munthu woyang'anira nyumba m'nyumba, kapena kukhala wothandizira. Nkhani yabwino yokha ndi yakuti pakati pa alendo omwe amapha anthu osamukira kudziko lina, ambiri mwa iwo ndi oyamba mwa anthu onse, ndi malingaliro aumunthu kwa anthu anzathu.
Dzizisamalire nokha.
Ngati, komabe, mwatsimikiza mtima kupita, ndipo osayang'ana njira ina iliyonse, penyani malangizo ena omwe angakuthandizeni m'tsogolomu. Ndipo kotero, chinthu choyamba kukumbukira ndi chakuti mdani wanu wamkulu ndi chikhulupiriro chanu ndi manyazi. Musaope kufunsa mafunso ambiri, ndipo khulupirirani mawu oyamba. Ziribe kanthu momwe tsogolo likufotokozera bwino, mitundu yonse iyenera kuchepetsedwa katatu. Kawirikawiri, opusitsa amatha kunyenga okha omwe amadzilolera kunyengedwa. Odziwa kwambiri, komanso osakhulupirira m'mabungwe ngati amenewo sakonda. Kumbukirani kuti m'midzi yambiri muli mabungwe omwe amathetsa kulembetsa maofesi ogwira ntchito.
Pambuyo pokambirana ndi munthu amene mungamugwiritse ntchito, pitani kumeneko ndipo mupeze mfundo zonse zoona. Komanso, tchulani ngati visa yopatsidwa kwa inu ikupatsani ufulu, ndipo musakhale aulesi kwambiri kuti muyende nanu pamsewu makonzedwe a zipani zogwiritsira ntchito malamulo, komwe mungathandizidwe ngati chochitika chachikulu kwambiri. Palinso kulakwitsa kopangidwa ndi amayi, kulowa mu ukapolo, kapena mahule - amawopa kulankhula ndi apolisi. Kumbukirani kuti ngati mubwera nokha, mumakhala ovomerezeka, koma ngati mutsekeredwa, munganene bwanji kuti "otentha" - mwayi wachepetsedwa kukhala zero.