Perekani njira!
Mugalimoto yapansi panthaka imalowa mtsikana ali ndi mimba yaikulu, akuyang'ana mozungulira, koma anthu onse akugona mwadzidzidzi, kapena mopanda chidwi amachotsa maso awo. Amayi ambiri amtsogolo amanena kuti palibe chovuta kuima, ndikunyoza kuzindikira kuti anthu ena amakuchitirani chidwi. Zonsezi ndi zosasangalatsa, pakhomo la galimoto molimba mtima "mkazi wokwatiwa" atagonjetsedwa ndi anyamata amphamvu ndikukwera pansi mofulumira kupita ku mpando ndi amtundu wotere. Tsoka ilo, dziko lathu silili langwiro, ndipo pamene tikusowa thandizo, si onse omwe angayankhe.Ngakhalenso ngati tifunikira kuima kwa anthu awiri Pazifukwazi, muyenera kuyamba ndikupempha munthu wodutsa kuti akupatseni mpando - ndi bwino kusiyana ndi kuima ndi kukwiya pa dziko lonse lapansi loyera, phunzirani kupempha thandizo lanu. Amayi ambiri am'tsogolo samakanidwa ndipo ngati izi zikuchitika, pitiranipo chithunzi Ngati simukulimbitsa mimba yanu, onetsetsani kuti muthokoza zabwino.
Mwamuna Woipa
Pali amuna abwino! Ndipo amapita ku masitolo, kukaphika, ndipo amasamba mbale. Nthawi zina zimawoneka kuti ndizofunikira kwa anthu otero chifukwa choposa ena amachokera kwa akazi awo. Mayi wodwala akungoyang'ana zofooka m'banja. Adzidula yekha, m'makhalidwe a mwamuna wake, akukonzekera masewera kuyambira pachiyambi. Kusamalira khalidwe la mkazi si khalidwe loipa, koma mahomoni. Iye mwiniyo sali wokondwa ndi zovuta zake. Kuti muthetse bata mukhoza kuyamba kunyada. Kumbukirani kuti zonse zomwe mkazi amanena ndi kupsya mtima ndi misonzi zimatchulidwa ndi kutuluka kwa mahomoni osati ndi chikumbumtima chake. Zoonadi mu ora, pamene mayi wamtsogolo adzatsitsimuka ndipo dziko lidzamusewera mu mitundu ina, adzachita manyazi ndi mawu okhumudwitsa. Bambo wam'tsogolo ndi bwino kumangokhalira kukumbatira mkazi wovuta ndi kunena kuti: "Ndipo ndikukukondani." Ndipo mitambo idzasungunuka. Amayi am'tsogolo amamafuna chidwi ndi nkhawa, ndipo ngati sakuganiza kuti alandira, pali zodandaula zomwe zimakula mpaka Kutsutsana ndi zovuta, koma simungathe kulemba chilichonse pa mahomoni. Kuti mudziwe nokha, pitani kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo. Mwina mulibe chisamaliro chokwanira cha amayi, ndipo mukufuna kuchipeza kuchokera kwa mwamuna wake, kukopa chidwi chake ndi "ma concert" ndipo sakufuna kukula. Nanga bwanji ngati mwamunayo sakuchita ntchito yabwino kwambiri? Mwachitsanzo, musasamala momwe mumamvera, musamathandizire kunyamula katundu wolemetsa, osadandaula za kubadwa kwa mwana? Akatswiri amalangiza kudzutsa udindo wa wokwatiwa, kuwauza abambo amtsogolo za milandu yokhudzana ndi mimba, nthawi zambiri amamulola apite ku puzik. Muloleni iye adye chifuwa chake, alankhule ndi mwanayo, ndiyeno maganizo a atate adzauka. Kulankhulana kotere ndiko kofunikira - kudzera mu chikondi chimabadwa. Ngati mwamuna wanu amakonda kugona pabedi, yesani kuyendetsa naye ku sitolo mwa njira iliyonse. Kumapeto, lembani mndandanda wamagula. Amuna ambiri ndi osavuta kuchita "molingana ndi malangizo."
Mayi wanga wachiwiri
Inde, n'zotheka kuvomerezana ndi mwamuna ndikuyanjanitsa mosavuta. Ndi apongozi ake, vutoli ndi lovuta kwambiri. Pano pali chododometsa: Amayi ambiri amalota zidzukulu zawo, koma nthawi yomweyo amadana ndi odana ndi omwe amapereka chisangalalo kwa apongozi awo. Kapena simukufuna kulowa m'malo awo, kuthandizira, kulimbikitsa ndi kuwathandiza. Ngati apongozi ake, ndipotu, ndibwino kuti azikhala mosiyana. Ndipo ngati palibe zotheka, ndiye kuti zenizeni zenizeni, yang'anani phokosoli, ngati kuti kunja, limakhala ngati woonerera. Ndipo ndi bwino kuuza ena nkhawa ndi munthu wosalowerera ndale - katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa chifukwa chiyanjano cha mpongozi wake chinakhala chovuta kwambiri. Udindo wa kukhazikitsa maubwenzi sikuti uli ndi "mayi wachiwiri", komanso ndi mpongozi wake. Ziyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti mukafika kunyumba ya munthu wina, simungapange malamulo anu, muyenera kusintha malamulo omwe akugwira ntchito. masewera oti apulumuke, mpikisano wa munthu mmodzi.Kodi, ifenso, tifunika kuyankhula.Kodi ndi bwino kuwuza apongozi ake kuti asatayike mwana wake.Play: Sindikumenyana ndi inu, iye akadali mwana wanu. Nthawi zambiri, kuti dziko likuzungulira dzikoli. Zopempha kuchokera kwa amayi a mwamuna zimatengedwa ndi chidani, koma pokonza banja lanu, mumasunga mabanja oyambirira, kotero muyenera kulemekeza miyambo yomwe yakhazikitsidwa.Tengani mawu a apongozi awo (ngakhale osalungama), yesetsani kukhala mwamtendere.Kumbukirani, Nthawi zina, mmalo momangirira molimba mtima munthu, ndibwino kuseka: "Nonse a Marya Ivanovna, mukudziwa, koma ndiuzeni, banki ya jerempi ndi kupanikizana? Tiyeni tizimwa tiyi palimodzi. "Wojambula wotchuka wotereyu anapereka chitsanzo chabwino cha njira yokhala ndi maubwenzi abwino ndi apongozi ake:" Nditangopita kunyumba kwa mwamuna wanga, ndinaona momwe mtolo uliri Mlamu ake adazindikira izi ndipo anati: "Ndimakukondani." Choncho ndinapeza mayi anga, ndipo tinayamba kucheza. "
Zochitikazo ndizolakwa
Ngati mwamuna amatha, komanso apongozi ake golidi, munthu woyembekezera yemwe ali ndi pakati amakhala ndi nthawi yodzitonza pamakhalidwe kapena khalidwe la anthu ena. Cholinga cha misonzi chidzatumikira chirichonse: usadandaule kuchokera kuntchito osayanjanirana, nyumba ili yochepa, nyengo ndi yovuta ... Amayi ndi amayi a ana asanu ndi mmodzi Alena Lebedeva akulangiza akazi apakati ... kuti asaganizire za iwo okha, koma za ena. Zomwe zimatchedwa ablues a amayi apakati (mawu okongola - mwachiwonekere ochokera ku chikhalidwe cha American kuti azimva buluu - amatchedwa kuti osakhazikika a amayi amtsogolo) si chifukwa chokhala mkazi wodzikonda kwathunthu .-- Mimba ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri pa moyo wa amayi ambiri. Mayi wam'mbuyomu amawoneka ngati mwana, ndipo amafunikira kusamalira, ngati mwana wamng'ono, koma anthu oyandikana nawo amamudziwabe ngati wamkulu komanso amalankhula mofanana. Komabe, mayi woyembekezera ayenera kuyang'ana mwa iyeyekha, aganizire - ngati kulira kwake kuli koyenera.
Dziyang'anire wekha ndi okondedwa anu
Kawirikawiri, musamachite zolakwa kotero kuti kukumbukira kuchokera mimba yanu inali yabwino kwambiri! Dziyang'anire wekha ndi okondedwa anu. Mimba ndi chiyambi cha ulendo wautali kwambiri womwe muyenera kutero ndi mwana wanu. Chifukwa chake, ndi bwino kungokhala pamodzi ndikuyenda. Kodi amayi a mwamuna wake amaperekanso uphungu wovulaza ndipo amasokoneza bizinesi yake? Phunzirani kuyankha moyenera pa msewu wovutawu mumzimu. Chimene chimatchedwa, kudana ndi mdani, ku chisangalalo cha amayi anga. Kusintha mahomoni pa nthawi ya mimba kumayambitsa kuchulukitsa kwazing'ono. Ziribe kanthu momwe mumakhumudwitsidwa, nthawi zonse ganizirani za zomwe mumakumana nazo m'maganizo, poyamba mwadzidzimutse nokha ndi mwana wanu. Yesetsani kunyalanyaza zonse zomwe zingayambitse zokhumudwitsa, ndi kuyankhulana kwambiri ndi mwanayo.