Akatswiri a zaumulungu adadabwa ndi funsoli, ndi zinthu zotani zomwe zimakhudza kugonana kolimba ndipo zomwe, poganiza za amuna, ndizovuta kwa amayi. Pomaliza, chithunzichi chinapezeka.
Zofooka zazikulu zazimayi
Neumeha
Kwa mwamuna, khalidwe limodzi la amayi odzudzula ndi kulephera kulima komanso kusakwanitsa kuphika. Indedi, mwamuna akhoza kukhululukira zambiri kwa mkazi, koma zimakhala zophweka kwambiri ndi iye ngati mkaziyo amatsuka nyumba ndikuphunzira kuphika msana. Komabe panalibe wina amene anachotsa mawu akuti "njira yopita kumtima wa munthu akugona mmimba".
Tranhera
Amisala omwe sangathe kusamalira bwino bajeti ya banja sakhala ndi ufulu woyenera ndi kulemekeza ngakhale amuna awo kapena amayi awo apongozi awo. Ngati mtsikana wokondedwa wake amatha "kuchepetsa malipiro ake a mwezi umodzi tsiku la masitolo, sangakhale wokongola kwa munthu woganiza bwino. Choncho, akatswiri a zachikhalidwe cha anthu amalimbikitsa kuti azichita zinthu molimbika komanso azigwiritsa ntchito njira zogwiritsira ntchito zomwe zasokonekera m'manja mwa amayi.
Wokonda zakudya
Mkazi yemwe amadzitengera yekha mu mbale ndi tsamba limodzi la saladi kapena mkazi wamkazi yemwe nthawi zonse amaika banja lake zakudya zodyera monga zobiriwira kapena chakudya chofiira, sichikondweretsa amuna. Kuchokera ichi kuchoka kwotsatira kumapangidwa. Khalani pansi pa zakudya zowonjezera thanzi ndi kuchepa thupi, simukufunika kufalitsa zozungulira ndi kumakhala chete. Kuchokera kwa ena, simungathe kuyembekezera kuthandizidwa ndikutamandidwa, kotero muyenera kuchita izo modzikweza.
Yodzazidwa ndi chisanu
Amuna m'maganizo awo amatsutsana ndi osakhazikika. Sakonda amayi omwe amakhala nthawi zonse pa zakudya, ndipo samakonda awo a halves awo, omwe ali ndi kulemera kwakukulu. Zomwe zinali pa nthawi ya chibwenzi, ngati bango, ndipo tsopano ndizolimba kwambiri. Kumbukirani kuti achinyamata anu ndi abambo anu akhoza kukukhululukirani kilogalamu ya atatu, pazifukwa zolemera makilogalamu khumi ndi awiri, simuyenera kuwerengera zambiri, chifukwa kuleza mtima kwa mwamuna kulibe malire.
Kukambirana
Amuna sawakonda pamene akwatibwi kapena akazi amakambirana za ubale wawo ndi abwenzi awo. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti mumamuuza chiyani za abwenzi ake. Ngakhalenso zopanda pake komanso zokondweretsa mtima wanu, amakhulupirira kuti saganiziranso ndipo amakondedwa kwambiri. Ndipo mwa njira zina iye akulondola.
Kopysha
Chipinda chanu chovala chimadzala zovala, koma nthawi zonse mumanena kuti mulibe chovala. Ndiwe azimayi omwe amavala maola atatu, koma ndikuti mumakhala ndi chipiriro cha mwamuna. Mwamunayo akuyembekezera kwa nthawi yayitali, koma pansi pa mtima wake adzaona kuti mukuchedwa pang'onopang'ono ngati kukula kwake.
Chatterbox
Kodi mumalankhuliranso? Ndipo kulankhula pa foni ndi chibwenzi chake kungathe kupitirira ola limodzi? Kenaka mumapemphera kuti mubwerere ku mutu wa zokambiranazo ndipo kale pambwalo yachiwiri muzikambirananso zokambiranazi. Amuna samakonda mafilimu awa, amatha kutengeka ndi zokambirana zopanda pake komanso zokambirana zazimayi. Musamangogonjetsa kawirikawiri komanso mwamphamvu makutu awo. Kondwerani munthu wanu mwamtendere.
Zochitika zazikulu kwambiri mwa mkazi
Nchiyani chimakopa amuna kupita kwa akazi?
- Amuna amawakonda pamene akazi avala zazikulu. Akazi oterewa amakopa chidwi chawo.
- Amuna amavomereza pamene mkazi amamatira ku zovala ndi chithunzi cha kalembedwe kazamalonda.
- Amuna ngati akazi awa omwe amazindikira zolephera za chiwerengerocho, mwaluso, amawabisala ndi zina mwa zovala zimatha kuonetsa ulemu wawo.
- Yesani kumwetulira, kumwetulira pa nkhope yanu kumalimbikitsa kuyankhulana bwino ndi munthu. Mwamunayo amatha kudziwana ndi mkazi wofuula, m'malo mooneka ngati wovuta kapena wovuta.
- Malingana ndi amuna, mkazi ayenera kukonda. Musachite bwino modzichepetsa, koma osati mofulumira komanso mosasamala. Mwachitsanzo, kuyang'anitsitsa, komwe kumatenga masekondi asanu ndi awiri, kenako kumasowa kumwetulira pang'ono, kumangokhalira kugona maso, kumangokhalira kuyang'ana ndikuwonetsa chinthu china. Malinga ndi amuna, luso limeneli ndi kusiyanitsa mkazi wokongola kuchokera kwa wamba.
- Mayi ayenera kumvetsera mwamuna. Ndikofunika kumvetsera ndi chidwi komanso chidwi. Ndikumvetsetsa ndi kumvetsera zomwe akunena, komanso kuti asapusitse kupusa.
- Akatswiri a zaumulungu, atakambirana ndi amuna, adanena kuti amuna ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi amayi omwe amakhala pa chithunzicho, akuponya mwendo kumbuyo kwa mapazi awo. Kwa mwamuna yemwe amamupatsirana, udindo umenewu wa mkazi ndi wokongola kwambiri.