Chimene chimachitika: ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi wotheka, ngati ...
Lingaliro loti "ubwenzi" ndi wosiyana kwa amuna ndi akazi. Kodi mungaganizire gulu lina la anthu likutsitsirana, ndikutsanulira misozi pamtima chifukwa cha buku lina lomwe silinayambe, mwakhama kunena za mkaka watsopano wogula kapena kucheza ndi mnzanga kwa ola limodzi? Chithunzi chodabwitsa, sichoncho!
Mawuwa ndi abwino kwa amayi. Ubwenzi wa amuna umadalira zochita. Munthu wamba saopa kuoneka wofooka.
Udindo waukulu umasewera ndi zolakwika. Ubwenzi pakati pa anthu omwe ali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi womveka bwino komanso womveka bwino. Ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi umabweretsa mafunso angapo komanso kusamvana ngakhale pakati pa anthu amasiku ano. Koma ubwenzi woterewu ndi wosalephereka ndipo pali malo oti ukhalepo. Kodi tiyenera kudabwa mu dziko lamakono?
Komanso, amayi ambiri amakhulupirira zinsinsi zawo kwa abwenzi amzake, ndipo mwamuna amasungira zinsinsi za mkazi yemwe sakhala wokwatiwa kapena wokwatiwa.
Kulankhulana koteroko kungakhale ubale weniweni, wamphamvu. Komabe, sitiyenera kupatulapo kuti mu ubale umenewu, ngakhale mwachinsinsi, pali kugonana. Ubwenzi umenewu ndi wokongola, koma kukhala paubwenzi wapamtima kumaphatikizapo chiopsezo chachikulu. Pamene mau akuti: "Chibwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi n'chotheka ngati mwamuna sakopeka mkazi ngati chinthu chogonana".
Komabe, ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi wotheka, ngati:
1. Zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi mgwirizano wa bizinesi. Anthu ambiri amaona kuti ubwenzi umenewu ndi wopindulitsa kwambiri. Kawirikawiri, mabwenzi amalonda ndi mkazi ndi mwamuna. Monga akunenera, mu bizinesi mulibe kusiyana pakati pa chiwerewere.
2. Kufuna chidwi kwa akatswiri. Monga mnzanga wina anati: "Ndikhoza kucheza ndi mtsikana ngati tili ndi zofuna zambiri." Mwachitsanzo, mumakonda kusewera kapena mumakhala maola ambiri polankhula za masewera kapena zokopa alendo.
3. Ndi achibale. Mu ubale woterewu ndimakhulupirira ndipo ndikukulangizani. Ngakhale, ndikuyankhula za chiyani! Ndikukumbukira momwe, ndili ndi zaka 17, ndinayamba kukondana ndi msuweni wanga wachiwiri ....
4. Ndiwo okonda kale. Inde, ndiko kulondola. Chikoka cha kugonana, sichikuchitikanso, koma zimadziwana ngati zopanda pake.
5. Ndipo kenako nkusankha: Ngati ali okonda m'tsogolo! Inde, inde, ichi ndi chitsanzo changa, ndi anzanga ambiri. Chirichonse chimayamba ndi zokambirana zokondweretsa "za izo, za izi", chabwino, zatha, mukudziwa chomwe ....
6. Ubwenzi mwangwiro! Ubwenzi wochokera ku ulemu, zofunikanso. Zokambirana zanu sizokhudzana ndi chikondi ndi maubwenzi, koma mobwerezabwereza nthawi zambiri zimaphatikizapo zokondweretsa, zosangalatsa, moyo wamba. Okwatirana anu sakukuchitirani nsanje chifukwa akuwona kuti simungasokoneze moyo wa wina ndi mzake. Nthawi zambiri, koma zimachitika.
7. Njira yoyenera kwambiri lero. Ndi mabwenzi abwino chifukwa ali ndi zosiyana. Ena amakhulupirira kuti ubwenzi umenewu ndi weniweni ndi wamphamvu. Pamodzi mumapita kukagula, mukukambirana za makina atsopano, zodzoladzola, Vasya, Masha ...
Inde, pangakhalebe njira zambiri. Mwachitsanzo, iye ndi mnyamata wa bwenzi lanu lapamtima. Kapena ndi mkazi wa mnzako. Koma ndikayamba kuganizira za ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, sindingathe kukumbukira mawu akuti ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ukufooka ndi kuyamba kwa usiku.
Pamene akunena, dzifunseni nokha, sankhani nokha ngati mulibe bwenzi lamwamuna kapena ayi.
Ndipotu, podziwa ichi pafupi ndi munthu wokongola uyu, simungasangalale kuti munapatsidwa mwayi wokhala mabwenzi okhaokha.