Ubwenzi wabwino ndi apongozi anga ukhoza kukhala. Yesetsani kupeza chinenero chofala ndi wokondedwa wanu mosasamala kanthu kali konse, poyankhulana naye, yesetsani kusokoneza. Muyenera kuzindikira ndikudziwitsa amai ake kuti simuli okondana omwe akumenyera chikondi cha munthu mmodzi.
Ndikofunika kukhala moyo wosiyana ndi makolo atatha ukwatiwo. Ngati mumakhala ndi makolo a mwamuna wanu, ndiye kuti mikangano siikutheka. Nzosadabwitsa iwo akunena kuti sipangakhale osowa awiri mnyumbamo. Posakhalitsa, mikangano idzayamba kukhudza momwe mungasambitsire bwino pansi ndi momwe zimakhalira zokoma kuphika cutlets zomwe mwamuna wanu ndi mwana wa apongozi anu amakonda. Moyo wosiyana uli kale chifukwa chachikulu chosawonongera kugonana.
Zilibe kanthu, pena paliponse, kumatsutsa ndi kudandaula za mwamuna wako kwa amayi ake - sizingakonzedwe kuchita izi, koma zoopsa kwambiri pa chiyanjano. Musamamupatse ndemanga pamaso pake. Mwamuna wanu ndi mphoto yabwino komanso yofunikira kwambiri kwa apongozi anu, chipatso cha kulera kwake. Kumudzudzulira, mumamudzudzula mobwerezabwereza.
Musamafanizire amayi anu amake ndi amayi anu. Iwo ndi anthu osiyana, oleredwa m'mabanja osiyanasiyana, ndi miyambo yakhazikika ndi moyo wawo. Mayi ako apongozi amafunika kukonda ndi kulemekeza makamaka chifukwa chakuti anabala, analeredwa ndikulera mwamuna wanu wokondedwa, wosakwatiwa komanso wapadera. Ndi kwa iye kuti mumayamikire makhalidwe abwino a munthu wanu.
Mverani malangizo a apongozi anu, ngakhale atayesera kukuuzani momwe mungakonzekere borscht molondola, ndiko kuti, zinthu zomwe inu nokha mukudziwa bwino. Choyamba, amadziwa bwino mwamuna wanu ndi mwana wake, ndipo malangizo ena angakuthandizeni kwambiri. Kuti munthu asakuyerekezere ndi amayi ake ndipo asanene kuti: "Ndipo amayi anga akukonzekera njira iyi ...", mverani malangizo ake. Chachiwiri, khalani wokondana kwambiri ndikudziwa momwe mungamverere amayi a mwamuna wake. Lembani ngakhale nsonga izi mumaiwala maminiti asanu.
Musamaphatikizepo mwamuna wanu pakutsutsana kwanu ndi apongozi anu. Amene amadziwa, mwinamwake adzakhala pambali pa amayi. Musamupangitse kudula pakati pa okondedwa ndi ofunika kwambiri pamoyo wake akazi.
Amayi a mwamuna wanu ndi munthu wofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Iye ndi banja lanu latsopano ndi mbadwa yanu. Yesani kukwaniritsa malo ake. Phunzirani za zokondweretsa zake, kusonyeza chidwi chake kwa iwo.
Landirani ndi kuyamikira mphatso za amayi ake. Ndipo mulole iwo akhale apronti ena kapena othandizira otentha. Chinthu chachikulu si mphatso, koma samalirani. Nthawi zambiri muzidzipereka kwa amayi ake. Aloleni asakhale okwera mtengo, mwinanso atapangidwa ndi okha. Izi zidzasonyeza chikondi ndi nkhawa kwa apongozi anu.
Kulankhulana nthawi zambiri ndi apongozi ako. Kulankhulana kumathandiza kukhazikitsa ubale wabwino. Yankhulani ndi apongozi ako osati kokha pamene mukufuna chinachake kuchokera kwa iye, koma kuti mudziwe momwe moyo wake ulili ndi maganizo ake. Chikondwerero ndi ulemu zidzakuthandizani kuti musawononge ubwenzi ndi amayi ake.
Musachepetse kulankhulana pakati pa apongozi anu ndi ana anu. Pemphani mayi ake nthawi zambiri kuti aziwachezera, asiye anawo tsiku lokacheza ndi agogo awo.
Pofuna kusokoneza maubwenzi ndi amayi ake, timafunikira khama la anthu atatu: inu, mwamuna wanu ndi amayi ake. Khalani ololera ndi anzeru, ganizirani zofuna za mbali zitatu izi: wanu, mwamuna wanu ndi apongozi anu. Ndiye simukusowa kudabwa kuti musasokoneze ubwenzi ndi amayi ake.